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Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2019, 01:28 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 488
Posted By arabian
MEP/FRO can be quite useful if someone has...

MEP/FRO can be quite useful if someone has arrears. To my surprise I received a few thousand dollars deposited into my account that I was not expecting. This is not the monthly payment that I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-06-2019, 06:55 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 498
Posted By arabian
I would NEVER agree to meeting with someone who...

I would NEVER agree to meeting with someone who is not a party to matter. Your ex can have his lawyer there to hand-hold. You do not have to play their game. Stop the nonsense.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2019, 04:54 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 493
Posted By arabian
successful journey I have reported you to...

successful journey

I have reported you to the monitors.

Yet again, your posts are over-the-top and offensive.

Perhaps find a gardening forum (like you used to frequent) for a change.

Go...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 08:48 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 533
Posted By arabian
I understand what you are saying Berner. True...

I understand what you are saying Berner. True there were some differences in my situation, namely there were no minor children involved. The thing is, exclusive possession is a temporary...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 06:41 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 533
Posted By arabian
Actually that is exactly what I did. The Order...

Actually that is exactly what I did. The Order for exclusive possession came several weeks later with the very large interim SS order. Ex tried to get police to allow him to enter but I stood my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 12:16 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 533
Posted By arabian
I didn't say "change the locks" - I said add a...

I didn't say "change the locks" - I said add a security system.
She has a right to feeling safe when she is in her home, particularly as he has been absent lately. (Then if he is an ahole you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 07:53 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 533
Posted By arabian
get copies of last 3 years income tax returns &...

get copies of last 3 years income tax returns & NOAs
bank statements
resume & copy of any trade certification/union membership
any other relevant financial information you deem important.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2019, 09:18 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 533
Posted By arabian
Well you told him it was over.... If you...

Well you told him it was over....

If you want to escalate things:

If you find his behavior unsettling, perhaps call a security company and have a good system installed. Remove all of his...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2019, 09:05 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 533
Posted By arabian
I believe the only time you can't leave the...

I believe the only time you can't leave the country is when you are collecting EI ?

Ok so now you have insurmountable proof to convince yourself totally that he's despicable.

Move forward.
...
Forum: General Chat 08-19-2019, 06:58 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 597
Posted By arabian
well done ! now you can move forward ...

well done !

now you can move forward

enjoy yourself ! treat yourself !
Forum: Political Issues 08-16-2019, 07:22 PM
Replies: 89
Views: 22,115
Posted By arabian
Usually one of the first things maintenance...

Usually one of the first things maintenance enforcement agencies put into place is a personal property registry. Make sure that is on file. Ex buys a car and then tries to dispose of it... it can...
Forum: Political Issues 08-16-2019, 06:39 PM
Replies: 89
Views: 22,115
Posted By arabian
At some point in time your ex should lose her...

At some point in time your ex should lose her drivers' license and passport. Then you might see some activity.

If your ex has never worked then she won't get CPP.

People like your ex are...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-16-2019, 06:24 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 450
Posted By arabian
Iona thanks for the Friday afternoon chuckle -...

Iona thanks for the Friday afternoon chuckle - I've only been married once. 30 years was enough. Looking back I'm surprised I didn't leave earlier. I was an avid golfer so I fortunately had a good...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-15-2019, 06:14 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 450
Posted By arabian
You don't want the kid to be terrified all the...

You don't want the kid to be terrified all the time she is with her father.

Nowadays there are many wonderful electronic devices and toys. A very young child can learn how to use a cell phone. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2019, 10:09 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 278
Posted By arabian
When the other side has to pony up with...

When the other side has to pony up with corroborating evidence (bank statements) of income and expenses, then that is when the offers start to fly. Tell your friend to stay firm and demand...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2019, 10:00 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 314
Posted By arabian
So there you have it. Find a paralegal who...

So there you have it.

Find a paralegal who has pirated a "template" from their former employer (lawyer) prior to them setting up business (this is typically what they do).
Fill in the blanks. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-14-2019, 06:58 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 157
Posted By arabian
I'm from Alberta. Many people from different...

I'm from Alberta. Many people from different parts of the country. Welcome.

I'd say you have a choice: you stay in a very unhappy marriage broke or you leave and are broke.

Financial...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2019, 06:48 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 314
Posted By arabian
Lawyers typically have a "template" that they...

Lawyers typically have a "template" that they use. Ask to see one of theirs and then compare it to what you have drafted.

IMO they are trying to screw you for money. Not unusual for lawyers to...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 10:43 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,515
Posted By arabian
Thank you for your clarification. I'm sure...

Thank you for your clarification.

I'm sure there are people reading here who fall into the over 150k slot who can offer some suggestions.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-13-2019, 10:37 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 705
Posted By arabian
Wink tunnelight - you are pretty fucking cocky. I...

tunnelight - you are pretty fucking cocky. I picked out one of your previous posts (from March of this year). Thread was about length of time to settle things. This was your response:

1.5...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 09:49 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,515
Posted By arabian
I'm no pro on child support issues. However, I...

I'm no pro on child support issues. However, I do know in all matters in family court where there is any sort of support order in place, it is fairly common that you exchange your financials every...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-11-2019, 03:49 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 890
Posted By arabian
perhaps read the entire thread before shooting...

perhaps read the entire thread before shooting off your mouth? :)

I copied & pasted this from her post.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-11-2019, 05:56 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 890
Posted By arabian
"Around the same age, experimented as a teen but...

"Around the same age, experimented as a teen but couldn't afford it or find a way to get it. Was def my drug of choice. Unfortunately now I can and found too many ways to get it. Hard habit to break...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-10-2019, 05:40 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 890
Posted By arabian
You can and should file for immediate interim...

You can and should file for immediate interim support AND exclusive possession of the matrimonial home.

A good friend of mine (who is married to a doctor) obtained this. He used to pay all the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-10-2019, 04:39 AM
Replies: 61
Views: 3,236
Posted By arabian
Yes you do what I do every year in response to my...

Yes you do what I do every year in response to my ex's provisional order.

In my case, I prepare a detailed written submission.
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