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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-12-2009, 09:47 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 762
Posted By yearsgone
possible child abduction

I am on another forum site and a Canadian lady from Ontario has custody of her children with her Lebanese husband ( now Canadian) having visitation. She stresses that nothing has happened yet but her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-02-2009, 05:16 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,361
Posted By yearsgone
I know you meant well... but you have...

I know you meant well...


but you have created this problem. You had an agreement in place and gradually let it slide. Also you should never put the daycare in the position of policing your ex....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-25-2009, 12:56 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,090
Posted By yearsgone
I commend you for your efforts in this. As for...

I commend you for your efforts in this. As for her, something doesn't add up. She says she never registered his birth ( which is illegal - Vital Statistics Act - but probably never enforced ) Getting...
Forum: General Chat 02-25-2009, 08:51 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,753
Posted By yearsgone
I agree with you all that the questions are...

I agree with you all that the questions are recycling. I have only been here a short time and find the same issues coming up, especially division of assets when CLs break up (lately).

Could I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-24-2009, 07:30 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,286
Posted By yearsgone
I don't have the guidelines in front of me but I...

I don't have the guidelines in front of me but I presume the reason for your post is that the amount for four children is less than double the amount for two. I would think they would be treated as...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-22-2009, 11:28 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,036
Posted By yearsgone
Was your daughter in an approved car seat?

Was your daughter in an approved car seat?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-21-2009, 01:34 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,415
Posted By yearsgone
Sharon, I think the underlying issue here is that...

Sharon, I think the underlying issue here is that you fear being "replaced" as Mom in the eyes of your children. Although I found your ex's wording a little terse at times, I do get what he means...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-21-2009, 01:06 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,328
Posted By yearsgone
I think this is the same idea as me claiming my...

I think this is the same idea as me claiming my Blue Cross payments. You can call Manulife and ask for a statement of payments to be mailed to you. That gives you an official document in case you...
Forum: Common Law Issues 02-19-2009, 06:28 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,460
Posted By yearsgone
I could be wrong but I "think" in common-law...

I could be wrong but I "think" in common-law relationships, you get back anything that has your name on it ( like his house) and the other partner is out of luck. Your only chance is if you get a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2009, 06:23 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,393
Posted By yearsgone
Hey now! The Flames are okay ;) My son-in-law...

Hey now! The Flames are okay ;) My son-in-law lives in Calgary now and was brought up in TO so he has a real problem with loyalties. But he says you don't dare not go to a game without a Flames...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2009, 04:11 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,393
Posted By yearsgone
You let a 5 year old travel alone and trusted...

You let a 5 year old travel alone and trusted employees ? Would you trust them to carry your best diamond ring for you? Read this....



I know he is 9 now, but I would NEVER leave my child...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-16-2009, 08:30 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,551
Posted By yearsgone
This is something that has to be amended by a...

This is something that has to be amended by a court order, but it is very likely the court will be sympathetic as it is in your son's interest to be with both his parents.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-16-2009, 08:11 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 11,533
Posted By yearsgone
Although this is "rude", it IS still half her...

Although this is "rude", it IS still half her house in the eyes of the law. There is a site which may help. Ottawa Mediation - JDS Mediation Services (http://www.ottawamediation.com/settle.html)

I...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-16-2009, 12:45 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,381
Posted By yearsgone
Is she a share holder or officer in your company?...

Is she a share holder or officer in your company? If so then she may have the right of access to the accounts in the bank's eyes. When ex and I divorced, I signed a paper signing over my shares etc....
Forum: Financial Issues 02-13-2009, 06:43 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,992
Posted By yearsgone
Hi Elaine, There is a site at Family Law...

Hi Elaine,
There is a site at Family Law Toronto :: Family Law - Spousal Support :: www.familylawtoronto.com (http://www.familylawtoronto.ca/spousal_support.html#Anchor-SPOUSAL-47857) which should...
Forum: Political Issues 02-12-2009, 05:01 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 12,380
Posted By yearsgone
I'm not involved with the FRO as I'm in NB where...

I'm not involved with the FRO as I'm in NB where we have its equivalent, the FSOS (Family Support Order Service). Recently the laws changed to make them be more aggressive about chasing non...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-11-2009, 12:19 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,130
Posted By yearsgone
I think it would be in your best interest to have...

I think it would be in your best interest to have definite times for example "Christmas Day" to avoid any "problems". I have seen a situation where one parent had them for Christmas Eve and returned...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-11-2009, 12:08 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,943
Posted By yearsgone
As I see it, the child is going to be the big...

As I see it, the child is going to be the big loser here. That's not right. As for the time spent, Summer vacation allows for more time spent at games and in evening hours. For the sake of the child,...
Forum: Introductions 02-11-2009, 11:56 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,014
Posted By yearsgone
Welcome scaredandscarred. We're here to help and...

Welcome scaredandscarred. We're here to help and support.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-11-2009, 11:53 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,563
Posted By yearsgone
You are not liable for his unpaid income taxes....

You are not liable for his unpaid income taxes. Each person is responsible for their own.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-10-2009, 11:33 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,563
Posted By yearsgone
I don't know for sure if it is done in Ontario...

I don't know for sure if it is done in Ontario but I think , if he wants to keep the house, it has to be assessed at the time of separation and he has to pay you half of the assessed value to buy you...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-10-2009, 11:19 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,587
Posted By yearsgone
One thing I did which I am proud of now. I took...

One thing I did which I am proud of now. I took apart all the family photo albums and gave him half of the photos. It was his life too. Something deep inside told me that eventually all the pain and...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-10-2009, 09:36 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,694
Posted By yearsgone
I'm sorry for what you are going through. Do you...

I'm sorry for what you are going through. Do you have any children? If you have any family near, now is the time to call on them for the emotional support you need.
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-07-2009, 12:02 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 3,120
Posted By yearsgone
What a shame! Your son will never forget this. ...

What a shame! Your son will never forget this. There are so many good men out there who are fighting for the rights that your ex has casually thrown away. Remember that your son loves you both,...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-06-2009, 11:38 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,087
Posted By yearsgone
FYI - Gender gap in wages

Not making any point here other than to inform those separating/divorcing so FYI.....

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