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Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 12:36 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 352
Posted By rockscan
What do you guys do when the child refuses to go to the other parent's home?

I wouldnít put a child four or under in the same category as forcing a child to go to school. Anyone who has ever had to deal with a tired, irritable, emotionally spent toddler will understand just...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 10:10 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 78
Posted By rockscan
If you are not with an enforcement agency, stop...

If you are not with an enforcement agency, stop paying.

If you are with an enforcement agency, contact them to get a form to fill out to stop support (or check online, FRO has a form on their...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:08 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 414
Posted By rockscan
Mediation

My comment about the judge was to point out that even though your agreement says mediation, if it wonít work a judge will not necessarily get angry. They can see the conduct of the parties in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 06:57 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 414
Posted By rockscan
This ^^ Thank you

This ^^ Thank you
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 05:31 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 414
Posted By rockscan
Unless both parties are reasonable and want to...

Unless both parties are reasonable and want to reach a solution, mediation wonít work. Almost all agreements say mediate first but not all parties can do it. If you think the ex wonít mediate then...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-17-2019, 01:35 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 399
Posted By rockscan
Question - is it finally over?

Ask her for proof of registration. If she refuses, file a motion.

You arenít obligated to pay cs if kid is over 18 and not in school full time. For the naysayers, the judge at my husbands motionóa...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 09:51 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 859
Posted By rockscan
Youíre talking about the CCB not the eligible...

Youíre talking about the CCB not the eligible dependent or activities credits.

It also states ďon a more or less equal statusĒ which you have to prove.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 09:45 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 859
Posted By rockscan
Good for you for defrauding the government. There...

Good for you for defrauding the government. There are plenty of posts on here from dads who tried the same thing WITH WORDING IN THEIR AGREEMENT who were still denied.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 09:41 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 859
Posted By rockscan
There are several posts on this forum about CRA...

There are several posts on this forum about CRA denying the eligible dependent and how it has to be worded in your agreement. Stop giving out bad advice.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 09:39 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 859
Posted By rockscan
Normally the person with custody is allowed to...

Normally the person with custody is allowed to claim all tax benefits. Any benefits that ďreduceĒ the cost of an expense are to be subtracted from the expense.

Example: your ex can claim the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 08:48 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 182
Posted By rockscan
There is a great section of this forum called...

There is a great section of this forum called political issues where this has been discussed before.

There was also a really great supreme court case called DBS et al that also addressed child...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 08:46 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 859
Posted By rockscan
Note that if you donít have it in your agreement...

Note that if you donít have it in your agreement to claim the eligible dependent every other year you DONíT get tax benefits from the government. They are considered within the split of section 7 via...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-16-2019, 03:28 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 352
Posted By rockscan
Sheís 3. She will have melt downs and get upset....

Sheís 3. She will have melt downs and get upset. Your ex was reasonable and worked in her interest.

I wouldnít worry too much over it. She will grow out of it.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-16-2019, 02:39 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 139
Posted By rockscan
You also need to look at how much that is versus...

You also need to look at how much that is versus your legal fees to get it.

For instance, if the increase in value was 50 grand and his share is 25 then yours would be 12.5. If it costs you 15 to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-16-2019, 01:12 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 791
Posted By rockscan
Hey guys...I think tunnelight is back!!!

Hey guys...I think tunnelight is back!!!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-16-2019, 10:57 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 791
Posted By rockscan
You arenít paying cs to your ex. You are paying...

You arenít paying cs to your ex. You are paying to equalize the households. CS is for your kids. They should have equal living situations at both homes.

So what if your ex moved out into a small...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-16-2019, 09:31 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 335
Posted By rockscan
If it was a case of kid wanted to do whatever she...

If it was a case of kid wanted to do whatever she pleased and not follow rules I would question her motive but she is tired of the drama from her mother. Some parents put their shit on their kids and...
Forum: Divorce Support 10-16-2019, 09:28 AM
Replies: 67
Views: 9,745
Posted By rockscan
Thanks HD. He got another email yesterday and it...

Thanks HD. He got another email yesterday and it was pretty cruel. He is able to see how they have been abusing him in the same way his ex did.

Itís really sad to see parents treated this way. If...
Forum: Divorce Support 10-16-2019, 08:16 AM
Replies: 67
Views: 9,745
Posted By rockscan
He is not technologically savvy, doesnít...

He is not technologically savvy, doesnít understand forums and gets emotional.

Iíve been here for five years asking questions and sharing legal info I have received. Iím not about to change that...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-15-2019, 09:09 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 126
Posted By rockscan
The interest would only be payable if you refused...

The interest would only be payable if you refused to do the transfer or dragged your heels. If the delay was entirely her fault then no interest is paid.
Forum: Introductions 10-15-2019, 07:32 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 498
Posted By rockscan
But you werenít involved at all in your banking...

But you werenít involved at all in your banking and she took advantage of that. She gamed you because you were ignorant. Itís not the courts fault.
Forum: Divorce Support 10-15-2019, 07:30 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 169
Posted By rockscan
He still has to pay child support and you could...

He still has to pay child support and you could motion to impute income at higher than he makes.

There is nothing you can do about it now, wait to see what he pulls and address it then.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-15-2019, 05:06 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 127
Posted By rockscan
Major debts should be included. Minor ones like a...

Major debts should be included. Minor ones like a few hundred on a credit card are irrelevant. Value of the home is subjective and hard to agree to.

Ask yourself this: would the cost to fight her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2019, 03:26 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 791
Posted By rockscan
So basically you donít want to pay child support....

So basically you donít want to pay child support. Great reason. Good luck with that.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2019, 02:11 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 791
Posted By rockscan
Other than having to pay her child support, what...

Other than having to pay her child support, what is the issue? The kids get to see both parents on an equal basis.

Is she abusive? Does she forget to do something with them? Are they suffering...
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