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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-21-2020, 05:10 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 163
Posted By iona6656
One thing I've learned is being afraid of court...

One thing I've learned is being afraid of court is actually going to cost you MORE money in the long run- all the lawyers letters back and forth, etc. Even if you are a self-rep, that's your time and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-21-2020, 05:04 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 147
Posted By iona6656
if you search "OCL" - a bunch of discussions will...

if you search "OCL" - a bunch of discussions will come up that should answer all your general questions. If you have a specific questions- ask those in this discussion.
Forum: General Chat 10-13-2020, 04:57 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 257
Posted By iona6656
I have continued with my own therapy since...

I have continued with my own therapy since separation. It has and continues to provide me with some pretty good mechanisms to cope with my ex's behaviour when it comes to co-parenting. Interestingly...
Forum: Political Issues 10-13-2020, 04:50 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 314
Posted By iona6656
ooff. this is sounding so much like a "proud...

ooff. this is sounding so much like a "proud boys" moment.

I disagree 100% with the OP. I don't think men are discriminated against. I'm not going to go into detail- but I think most of what...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-13-2020, 04:29 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 971
Posted By iona6656
did you provide your documents?

did you provide your documents?
Forum: Financial Issues 10-06-2020, 05:40 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 462
Posted By iona6656
You can put any clause in an agreement- the...

You can put any clause in an agreement- the question of whether it would hold up in court is the real test. It is a fundamental rule in contract law that penalty clauses are prohibited. I don't know...
Forum: Political Issues 10-06-2020, 05:31 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 618
Posted By iona6656
Thanks tilt and rocksan- name the date I will be...

Thanks tilt and rocksan- name the date I will be there. In costume if requested.
Forum: General Chat 10-06-2020, 04:49 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 257
Posted By iona6656
appreciate this advice...ha "want to spend...

appreciate this advice...ha "want to spend money"....you mean throwing $$$ at my co-parenting problems won't solve them? bite your tongue.

For me- I think it's a non-starter; you're right my ex...
Forum: General Chat 10-06-2020, 04:47 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 257
Posted By iona6656
That's very similar to my ex. He has been...

That's very similar to my ex. He has been following the agreement - so credit where credit is due. And we both accommodate requests reasonably, but neither of us has to.

However, I do wonder if...
Forum: General Chat 10-06-2020, 03:51 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 257
Posted By iona6656
Co-Parent counselling AFTER separation/divorce: worthy endeavour? or waste of money?

I'm curious as to others take on whether co-parent counselling is worth it after divorce/separation? In particular where there is a history of conflict between the parents.

Just over 1 year out...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-06-2020, 06:57 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 267
Posted By iona6656
I think given what the OP has posted- it probably...

I think given what the OP has posted- it probably is "WITH PREJUDICE" - because the judge said they see no issue with it being entered into evidence because it was accepted. It's a heavy handed...
Forum: Political Issues 10-06-2020, 06:48 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 618
Posted By iona6656
to add to this- if at the time of separation- one...

to add to this- if at the time of separation- one partners calls the police, the police *have* to lay charges, which often sets up the fake status quo.

however, I'm leery of saying that there a...
Forum: Political Issues 10-06-2020, 06:45 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 618
Posted By iona6656
actually- based on the aggregate of the things he...

actually- based on the aggregate of the things he has posted, he sounds abusive and controlling. Isn't this is the same poster who said "just because you slapped your wife, you should lose custody of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-06-2020, 06:37 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 261
Posted By iona6656
yeah, no. I have not heard of a single case...

yeah, no. I have not heard of a single case where the lawyers work out "what happens next" on the spot. Many assessors already have written reports ready to go, they'll hold them and allow the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-29-2020, 04:34 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 705
Posted By iona6656
Question- why are you still with your parents? It...

Question- why are you still with your parents? It seems as if she's using it for ammunition. I know the other parent shouldn't dictate your living situation. But are you still in the middle of...
Forum: Political Issues 09-29-2020, 04:23 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 618
Posted By iona6656
where's the link to the actual peer-reviewed...

where's the link to the actual peer-reviewed article?

also, you sound nuts.
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-08-2020, 11:10 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 549
Posted By iona6656
uh question, if other parent is inconsistent and...

uh question, if other parent is inconsistent and can't so much as keep the bills paid, AND flies off into a rage, etc etc...is there a question of the child's safety with said parent? will they have...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-30-2020, 03:58 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,702
Posted By iona6656
Update- the plan for ontario schools is out. ...

Update- the plan for ontario schools is out.
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Forum: Parenting Issues 07-30-2020, 09:05 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,702
Posted By iona6656
I don't think this is helicoptering. This is...

I don't think this is helicoptering.

This is such a shitty time to be a parent trying to make this decision.

The risk for me- isn't to D3- it's to her grandparents who are all...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-29-2020, 01:27 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,702
Posted By iona6656
cite? where have there been outbreaks since...

cite?

where have there been outbreaks since province wide approval was granted? Because that's what we're talking about here. Sending kids back to school/childcare currently. there were two...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-29-2020, 02:29 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,702
Posted By iona6656
I'm guessing the court will go with the best...

I'm guessing the court will go with the best available medical advice at the time- if Public Medical Officers of health say "send the kids back"- parent who wants them to go back "wins".


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-29-2020, 02:21 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,336
Posted By iona6656
I think the point that tilt and I are trying to...

I think the point that tilt and I are trying to make is that during covid- not "dignifying" the other parent's "outrageous conduct" by not replying might not be the best option.

Note- we're only...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-28-2020, 10:36 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,336
Posted By iona6656
Agree with this. Do you have to take public...

Agree with this.

Do you have to take public transit for access visits? do you have access to a car?
Forum: Financial Issues 07-23-2020, 04:24 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 585
Posted By iona6656
Update the side hustle? yeah- it's a LOT....

Update

the side hustle? yeah- it's a LOT. like 20k a lot. But I'm pretty sure they pay him as an independent contractor so he has to report it.

He sent me his tax return- after I asked him if...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-23-2020, 04:16 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 517
Posted By iona6656
spousal support? I doubt it. separation...

spousal support? I doubt it.

separation agreement? it depends on what is covered. Kids? yeah. It definitely can.
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