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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 04:09 PM
Replies: 7
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Posted By iona6656
do you have the OCL involved in your file?

do you have the OCL involved in your file?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 10:47 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 110
Posted By iona6656
Why not ask for an adjournment for the trial, in...

Why not ask for an adjournment for the trial, in order to resolve the outstanding criminal charge? I would think the family court would find that reasonable? But I'm not a family lawyer. Maybe I'm...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 10:44 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 391
Posted By iona6656
I think you're misunderstanding my answer. I do...

I think you're misunderstanding my answer. I do not oppose the 50/50...nor was I saying that dads are not capable. What I am saying is that if one parent has been the primary caregiver of a very...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2021, 04:08 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 391
Posted By iona6656
Disagree. It's not ridiculous. I didn't say...

Disagree. It's not ridiculous.

I didn't say the child needed time to adjust- I said it could be a process of both parties adjusting. There's a reason that the courts- and many PCs (and I'd bet...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-12-2021, 01:46 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 995
Posted By iona6656
same argument can be made of the other side...

same argument can be made of the other side unless there are signed docs saying other party owed this much money, etc. From my reading of case law- loans are a tricky thing to prove, esp. when they...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2021, 01:33 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 391
Posted By iona6656
that's full custody to mom. You should...

that's full custody to mom.

You should definitely seek to add some clauses about mobility.

The minute you start asking about the "40%" mark- people are going to think it's cause you want to...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-09-2021, 01:34 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 995
Posted By iona6656
fucking yikes. I read the other thread of the OP....

fucking yikes. I read the other thread of the OP.

The level of entitlement is strong with this one.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-07-2021, 11:52 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 995
Posted By iona6656
look- I know coming out the financial "loser" in...

look- I know coming out the financial "loser" in these situations feels like someone stuck a red hot lump of coal in your stomach coated with a good deal of shame thrown in.

both my ex and his...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-06-2021, 09:08 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 995
Posted By iona6656
Equalization by the letter of law and "fair and...

Equalization by the letter of law and "fair and equitable" are two different things. I struggle to think of any other legal situation where so much INequitable division happens besides family law. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-04-2021, 02:44 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 913
Posted By iona6656
This one is just weird: dad refuses to put child...

This one is just weird: dad refuses to put child in 'fresh' clothes for pickup. Will pickup child from school and will put on school uniform to go home. I've sent a fresh change of clothes in her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-04-2021, 02:41 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 236
Posted By iona6656
Also speaking from personal experience. Agree...

Also speaking from personal experience. Agree with this. Family courts prefer to see a resolution of the criminal charge.

But if your resolution is a mistrial or stay of the charges to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2021, 12:18 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 424
Posted By iona6656
Doesn't really answer what you were charged with...

Doesn't really answer what you were charged with though. I mean- obviously that is your private issue. But it can also depend on what you were yelling and whether there is a credible threat.

...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-22-2021, 12:13 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 627
Posted By iona6656
But that's just he said/she said. What if ex says...

But that's just he said/she said. What if ex says "I explained why additional time won't work with the PC"? I wouldn't use the PC as ally or way to bolster a case. What they are good at is getting...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-22-2021, 12:09 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 627
Posted By iona6656
never be afraid of court. if you have a lawyer-...

never be afraid of court. if you have a lawyer- trying to avoid court will cost you more.

I don't see the issue with a Parental Coordinator.?...if you can take care of the kids 50/50- and you and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2021, 12:02 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 424
Posted By iona6656
Didn't you say in another posting that your ex...

Didn't you say in another posting that your ex went to Scarborough and told you that you had to pick up your son from there?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2021, 12:00 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 424
Posted By iona6656
curious about this part too. What were the...

curious about this part too. What were the charges?
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-22-2021, 02:59 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 622
Posted By iona6656
It's also de-escalated by giving up control over...

It's also de-escalated by giving up control over certain appointments. D4's dad and I alternate routine appointments and send emails on the outcome of the appointments. Although- dad usually asks...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-22-2021, 02:53 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,301
Posted By iona6656
You're pretty much describing me as it relates to...

You're pretty much describing me as it relates to helicopter parenting- and I see it happening with D4 right now- I limit screen time, I impose a strict bedtime...and I hear "Dada's house doesn't...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-19-2021, 02:47 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,301
Posted By iona6656
drop the child support then? that's the answer?

drop the child support then? that's the answer?
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-19-2021, 02:41 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,114
Posted By iona6656
I re-read the article. I don't think it's total...

I re-read the article. I don't think it's total garbage- but the context in which the OP originally posted it- is concerning. Also- the way the article is set up- it's click bait.

It just may be...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-19-2021, 02:19 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,301
Posted By iona6656
Also- to the OP. Is it the lack of adherence...

Also- to the OP.

Is it the lack of adherence to the schedule that is of concern? Or something more? The conflict with the paternal grandparents? Having to deal with your son's father?

Like...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-19-2021, 02:16 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,301
Posted By iona6656
have you come across any studies that discuss how...

have you come across any studies that discuss how to combat this type of 'grooming' (for lack of a better term)?
Forum: General Chat 02-17-2021, 05:30 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 848
Posted By iona6656
Thanks for your candid response. I can imagine...

Thanks for your candid response. I can imagine this is exactly how my friend is feeling.

She's made a very similar argument to me before....I do wonder about the logic of it (for her)- being that...
Forum: General Chat 02-10-2021, 01:23 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 333
Posted By iona6656
how old is the child? if young- just pay it. ...

how old is the child? if young- just pay it.

invoice mom for her share...and when she doesn't pay; add it to the court documents. although- this sounds like something to just let go. Is it fair?...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-10-2021, 01:19 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,120
Posted By iona6656
I never said "should"! I simply suggested...

I never said "should"!

I simply suggested he may want to ask a therapist about how they feel about telling people they "should" do something.
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