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Forum: Financial Issues 10-08-2020, 11:39 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 592
Posted By nofrills
Hypothetically, if my income goes to 200k to 50k...

Hypothetically, if my income goes to 200k to 50k and hers remains at 130k, and we adjust at year end, the table would turn and she would owe me money. (not sure how I feel about taking it)

Has...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-07-2020, 10:30 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,611
Posted By nofrills
With regards to the Eligible Dependent Credit, I...

With regards to the Eligible Dependent Credit, I was re-assessed and my claim was rejected because I had a set-off amount. However, I made two appeals to the CRA and on the second appeal, they...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-07-2020, 10:11 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 592
Posted By nofrills
thanks for your responses. With COVID, I...

thanks for your responses.
With COVID, I imagine this year I will be on the low side closer to 200k and she is a steady 130k. We do recalculate our incomes every year and make a true up payment to...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-04-2020, 09:31 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 592
Posted By nofrills
Forced Employment Termination clause in a separation agreement

Hello Forum,

Ex and I are in process of amending my separation agreement. Ex wants to increase my extra-ordinary child expense ratio. My ex has done a number of nasty things to me and I'm trying...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-09-2020, 03:54 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 378
Posted By nofrills
Completely frustrating. Other than this, it...

Completely frustrating.

Other than this, it seems like I can only keep track of it. No enforceability or accountablity unless you go to court.

I almost feel like breaking the rules myself...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-07-2020, 08:48 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 378
Posted By nofrills
Ex has failed to return the kids to me today. What do I do?

Hi everyone,

here is some background, I share custody of my two kids (7 and 9) with my ex. We have an agreed schedule and separation agreement in place.

We had agreed that she could have the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-27-2020, 10:42 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 415
Posted By nofrills
Another example of the unfairness is the Eligible...

Another example of the unfairness is the Eligible Dependant Credit, whereby the use of Child support offsets in your agreement deny the payer of the credit. (worth around $2500/year)

I sent...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-14-2020, 09:58 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 719
Posted By nofrills
thank you Abba435 I like the BIFFF and your...

thank you Abba435

I like the BIFFF and your pig analogy. I just hope I can hold myself back.

https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/doc/2020/2020onsc2883/2020onsc2883.html

this was a good read. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-14-2020, 08:07 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 719
Posted By nofrills
thanks you for your help and support. I really...

thanks you for your help and support. I really need it to cope with this garbage as it's emotionally draining.

I only record my conversations to protect myself in the event that she makes any...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 11:08 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 719
Posted By nofrills
ex making up false claims and attempting to establish a pattern.

Hi forum,

Whenever my ex doesn't get what she wants, she sends an email claiming
i) I yell at her in front of the kids
ii) I hang up on her on the phone
iii) I need to seek help
iv) and what...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-20-2020, 10:53 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,973
Posted By nofrills
My separation agreement was complete in 2016 and...

My separation agreement was complete in 2016 and the CRA ruling came out in 2017.


I had based my separation agreement on the below example from the CRA.

From 2017, the CRA had this...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-20-2020, 10:39 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,973
Posted By nofrills
In my case, we have two kids, in our separation...

In my case, we have two kids, in our separation agreement, she claims our daughter and I would claim our son. We share custody.

I am denied and my ex is allowed to claim because we have a set-off...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-19-2020, 10:11 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,973
Posted By nofrills
Hi, To give everyone an update, 1. My...

Hi,
To give everyone an update,

1. My eligible dependant credit was rejected because the wording in my separation agreement has a set off amount.
2. Ive made my complaint to the cra and the...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-06-2019, 08:20 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,973
Posted By nofrills
CRA Eligible Dependant Credit

Hi again.
just my luck, I just received a new request from the CRA regarding:

-Eligible Dependent credit

As an FYI, this is the 3rd request from the CRA in the 3 years I have been...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-28-2019, 07:49 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 909
Posted By nofrills
Hi again. Here is what I found. ...

Hi again.
Here is what I found.

https://www.corkumfinancial.ca/determining-income-and-schedule-iii-adjustments-child-support-guidelines/

and
...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-24-2019, 02:13 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 909
Posted By nofrills
Thanks Rockscan. Line 150 is the starting...

Thanks Rockscan.

Line 150 is the starting point. What about the deductions from line 2 to 12. For example, my interest expense from borrowing to invest? (Carrying charges)
Forum: Financial Issues 08-24-2019, 10:21 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 909
Posted By nofrills
Annual calculation for Income for Child Support

Hi again.
I'm back for some help. Thanks again for your help in the past.

My new issue is calculating annual income for Child support. I've been calculating my income based on the below...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-21-2019, 11:01 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 2,538
Posted By nofrills
Thanks you for the suggestions and opinions. ...

Thanks you for the suggestions and opinions. Very helpful.

Ive scheduled a meeting with the childrens doctor to discuss a vaccination schedule and to get familiar with the vaccines. Ive told...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-18-2019, 07:47 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 2,538
Posted By nofrills
Vaccinations for my kids

Hi everyone.

I share custody of my 2 kids (8 girl/6 boy). They have not been vaccinated and I would like them to get vaccinated. My ex is strongly against vaccinations, yet she believes in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2019, 11:22 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 3,033
Posted By nofrills
Hi Backinthesaddle, not getting 50/50 was my...

Hi Backinthesaddle,
not getting 50/50 was my biggest regret and mistake. Anyone going through this needs to know there is no other option.

When my ex-wife decided she wanted out, I was totally...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2019, 09:32 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 3,033
Posted By nofrills
I just want to let everyone know I want 50/50,...

I just want to let everyone know I want 50/50, but my ex won't give up any extra days. I only see the kids 3/7 days. I want more time regardless if it's a weekday or weekend. I want to do school...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2019, 01:46 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 3,033
Posted By nofrills
thank you everyone for you input. It seem...

thank you everyone for you input.

It seem the focus is on the transition. The transition is 1% of the total time that the kids are with me, yet everyone including my ex is using it to extrapolate...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-24-2019, 09:53 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 3,033
Posted By nofrills
Thanks again for your suggestions. It is a...

Thanks again for your suggestions. It is a scheduling issue and not a parenting issue. Transitions are the issue.

I have suggested to swap out the every other Friday for a Saturday so that the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2019, 10:12 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 3,033
Posted By nofrills
difficult transitions with kids

Hi
before I start I just want to thank everyone for your advice and opinions. You all have been very helpful in building my confidence.

My current issue is the transition with my kids on 4pm...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-05-2019, 12:24 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,027
Posted By nofrills
net CS payment is $1350/mth to her (offset). I...

net CS payment is $1350/mth to her (offset). I have he kids 3/7 days. No less than 40%.

When I go into mediation, I'm happy with no change in schedule but I'm going to re-propose 2255 schedule...
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