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Forum: General Chat 09-19-2019, 12:42 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,055
Posted By HammerDad
She had her moments for sure! The nerdy, cute,...

She had her moments for sure! The nerdy, cute, innocent one. Then that time at band camp happened, and all that innocence was lost..lol
Forum: General Chat 09-18-2019, 02:58 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,055
Posted By HammerDad
That one would tempt me as well! Her in Buffy was...

That one would tempt me as well! Her in Buffy was like the hotness...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2019, 02:50 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 1,031
Posted By HammerDad
lol, been a while since I listen to Rage. Funny...

lol, been a while since I listen to Rage. Funny thing is I have spotify running right now, and Bulls on Parade just played. Too bad I didn't have it going yesterday.
Forum: General Chat 09-17-2019, 12:48 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,055
Posted By HammerDad
My wife knew from the beginning about my...

My wife knew from the beginning about my daughter, so she was knew about the ex. It took a while for her to realize how difficult she was/is, and how she impacted my life. I figure it really became...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2019, 12:29 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 1,031
Posted By HammerDad
It appears that family law makes one want to Rage...

It appears that family law makes one want to Rage Against the Machine (Bulls on Parade).
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-28-2019, 09:51 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 624
Posted By HammerDad
I would argue it would be "unjust enrichment" for...

I would argue it would be "unjust enrichment" for the ex to get half of the matrimonial home. If you can show any evidence of monies being paid by your family for the home, it likely would help that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-27-2019, 10:17 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 624
Posted By HammerDad
He is only entitled to 1/2 of the value since the...

He is only entitled to 1/2 of the value since the date of marriage. He can argue for more, but your argument against is simply they aren't entitled to it.


It is a simple matter of determining...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-14-2019, 02:46 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 798
Posted By HammerDad
The term to use for this test is that the...

The term to use for this test is that the agreement would need to be so one sided as to be found "unconscionable".
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 04:58 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 798
Posted By HammerDad
It kind of is double dipping. C/S is to cover the...

It kind of is double dipping. C/S is to cover the costs of the children in a way that would be similar to their lifestyle if the parents remained together. So the things you mentioned here "cable,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-09-2019, 02:03 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 408
Posted By HammerDad
The ex is not entitled to the details of your...

The ex is not entitled to the details of your current g/f. They may like to think they are, but are not. You are no longer together, thus her ability to play gatekeeper to who you associate with is...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-09-2019, 11:00 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 591
Posted By HammerDad
IMO that the first clause is in the event of job...

IMO that the first clause is in the event of job loss or job changes mid year. Giving NoA's isn't helpful when there is a change in September and you have wait until May-June when you receive your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-09-2019, 10:48 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 408
Posted By HammerDad
I would reply with: "Dear Satan's Dance...

I would reply with:


"Dear Satan's Dance Partner,


While I understand the concern you may have for the safety of our child, please know that your request for a CAS and police check are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-07-2019, 01:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 295
Posted By HammerDad
Share the driving with each parent being...

Share the driving with each parent being responsible for picking up the kids for their parenting time. Don't do the "meet half way" because that sucks when 1 parent runs late. Let the parent who has...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-06-2019, 09:32 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,079
Posted By HammerDad
The answer here should be to simply switch...

The answer here should be to simply switch weekends until a later date, unless the ex is dead set on having the kids that weekend. And if that is the case, I would have simply offered to drop off the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-02-2019, 02:57 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 344
Posted By HammerDad
Actually, I am not sure a judge would see that as...

Actually, I am not sure a judge would see that as "shared". Most judges look at overnights when determining the percentages of parenting time. Now, most isn't all, but just be aware that it is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-02-2019, 02:08 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 344
Posted By HammerDad
I read your other thread, you mentioned you have...

I read your other thread, you mentioned you have kids and the ex has left with them. If that is correct, what arrangements have been made in relation to custody or your parenting time? If nothing,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2019, 09:00 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,079
Posted By HammerDad
If he cannot take care of the kids for long...

If he cannot take care of the kids for long periods of time I would ask the ex if they would be open to switching weekends to a weekend when they are more mobile. That it would save the kids a lot of...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-26-2019, 09:44 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 562
Posted By HammerDad
Braces are s7 every time. So is the current...

Braces are s7 every time. So is the current dental work. The ex should simply run it through their insurance and then you split the remainder proportionally to income.


My kid just got braces. I...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-25-2019, 09:21 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,176
Posted By HammerDad
Yup. Status quo of the child living down there...

Yup. Status quo of the child living down there has been established. What is most likely going to happen is that you will get the EOW and the lions share of the school breaks. Allowing the move...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-24-2019, 05:04 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,176
Posted By HammerDad
Uggg..... I didn't realize there is another child...

Uggg..... I didn't realize there is another child in the mix and you share custody. It would be REALLY hard to justify giving up time with one child for the other. IMO, I think you are stuck in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-24-2019, 04:59 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 716
Posted By HammerDad
He may have a tough climb, but he may still be...

He may have a tough climb, but he may still be successful. There could be any number of reasons why he may have to work during an unscheduled period. He would need to specify this. It would be...
Forum: Political Issues 07-24-2019, 04:23 PM
Replies: 89
Views: 22,208
Posted By HammerDad
But I thought after we took down FRO we were...

But I thought after we took down FRO we were gonna raid Area 51..... :D
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-24-2019, 04:22 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 716
Posted By HammerDad
That is not how the law looks at it.

That is not how the law looks at it.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-24-2019, 04:21 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 716
Posted By HammerDad
I guess it will all come down to how the ex...

I guess it will all come down to how the ex reasons this. If they say that the summer camp is necessary for them to work, then you will likely be on the hook for your proportional share. Their...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-24-2019, 03:42 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 716
Posted By HammerDad
Whether or not the summer camps are s7 would...

Whether or not the summer camps are s7 would depend on whether your ex needs them for work. I see the kids are 13 and 11, but the ex may not want to leave them home alone while he works. If that is...
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