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Forum: Parenting Issues 02-23-2019, 12:19 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 624
Posted By blinkandimgone
Simply explain to the child that mom does things...

Simply explain to the child that mom does things her way at her house and you do things your way at your house, and it's ok.

Maybe you sort your laundry by colours, and mom doesn't. Or mom makes...
Forum: General Chat 02-19-2019, 09:34 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 922
Posted By blinkandimgone
I'm so sorry, Kate. You and your little one are...

I'm so sorry, Kate. You and your little one are in my thoughts.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-10-2019, 10:54 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 698
Posted By blinkandimgone
I would 100% ignore this. It is irrelevant, and...

I would 100% ignore this. It is irrelevant, and does not require a response to the ex in any way.

If the kid asks about it, simply explain that it was purchased by you for him to use at your home....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-31-2019, 12:10 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 364
Posted By blinkandimgone
https://www.ottawadivorce.com/steps-negotiation/

https://www.ottawadivorce.com/steps-negotiation/
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-31-2019, 12:09 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 244
Posted By blinkandimgone
This wouldn't be considered abandonment, in any...

This wouldn't be considered abandonment, in any way. Depending on how often it happens that the other parent isn't available during their parenting time, it may be appropriate to seek a change in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-31-2019, 12:03 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 566
Posted By blinkandimgone
https://www.ottawadivorce.com/parallelparenting/

https://www.ottawadivorce.com/parallelparenting/
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-24-2019, 07:25 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 434
Posted By blinkandimgone
You may also want to mention that his request for...

You may also want to mention that his request for joint is in response to your request for updated financials and appears to be solely financially motivated. The judge would likely come to that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2019, 05:31 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 363
Posted By blinkandimgone
The lawyer can request whatever he wants, doesn't...

The lawyer can request whatever he wants, doesn't mean he will get it. What did the judge order and what was agreed to at court?

On what evidence did the applicant base their claim that the judge...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2019, 07:03 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,806
Posted By blinkandimgone
If he's ripping into you in person, can you not...

If he's ripping into you in person, can you not record the incidents, bring them up in counseling and explain that you ste concerned that these behaviours are undermining the positive steps being...
Forum: General Chat 01-10-2019, 10:29 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,064
Posted By blinkandimgone
Driveway drop off is perfectly fine if the child...

Driveway drop off is perfectly fine if the child is old enough to get themselves and any bags they may have from the house to the car.

If mom chooses to walk the child to the door that's up to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-06-2019, 01:27 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 527
Posted By blinkandimgone
Our Family Wizard. It's irrelevant who pens...

Our Family Wizard.

It's irrelevant who pens the communication, just that it was sent and received by the parties. If he chooses to allow his partner, or Marty the Moose write his emails it is...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-06-2019, 01:21 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 453
Posted By blinkandimgone
A financial statement is a representation of...

A financial statement is a representation of facts, not about adjusting numbers and randomly putting in info based on what people say you should put it. You put down the actual costs, not "What do...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-03-2019, 02:10 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 409
Posted By blinkandimgone
If you're looking for the value of a car for...

If you're looking for the value of a car for equalization purposes, you would use the dollar value if whatever you could sell it for. Look it up on auto trader, kijiji etc, find a few different ones...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-02-2019, 02:47 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 263
Posted By blinkandimgone
They will enforce ant orders for arrears and...

They will enforce ant orders for arrears and ongoing support.
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-31-2018, 09:19 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 579
Posted By blinkandimgone
https://www.scarymommy.com/this-is-9-year-old/?utm...

https://www.scarymommy.com/this-is-9-year-old/?utm_source=FB

All about 9 year olds!
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-29-2018, 03:51 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 579
Posted By blinkandimgone
If it makes you feel any better...this is normal...

If it makes you feel any better...this is normal behaviour fo4 a kid that age, and for a few years to come. Especially when it comes to electronics, video games etc. Almost every parent I know has...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-29-2018, 03:40 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 937
Posted By blinkandimgone
I assume the reason putting him on notice hasn't...

I assume the reason putting him on notice hasn't worked is because there has been no follow through. It's kind of like parenting, you really can't keep saying there will be consequences and then...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-28-2018, 01:55 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 937
Posted By blinkandimgone
Pickups are fairly easy to deal with. She can let...

Pickups are fairly easy to deal with. She can let him know that she will be arriving with the child at XX agreed upon time and will wait no longer than 15 minutes at which time she will return home...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-28-2018, 09:06 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,182
Posted By blinkandimgone
You don't have to agree, especially if there is...

You don't have to agree, especially if there is no material change.

However, if she is insisting there is a material change that calls for a change in the schedule, then you can also request to...
Forum: General Chat 12-28-2018, 08:58 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,046
Posted By blinkandimgone
Sounds to me like you are over-informing him....

Sounds to me like you are over-informing him. There is no reason or need to tell him who will be driving you to an appointment or anywhere else, and no need to be telling him who will be attending a...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-27-2018, 09:52 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 436
Posted By blinkandimgone
Or turn on auto deposit, no password required.

Or turn on auto deposit, no password required.
Forum: General Chat 12-18-2018, 03:31 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 673
Posted By blinkandimgone
Congratulations!!!

Congratulations!!!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-14-2018, 04:19 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,806
Posted By blinkandimgone
A bit off topic but may be helpful for future... ...

A bit off topic but may be helpful for future...

If he is e-transfering support payments, go to your online account and activate auto deposit - no password required.
Forum: Financial Issues 12-13-2018, 04:04 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 512
Posted By blinkandimgone
https://globalnews.ca/news/4184196/eligible-depend...

https://globalnews.ca/news/4184196/eligible-dependent-tax-credit-single-parents-canada-child-benefit-cra/




https://www.canlii.org/en/ca/tcc/doc/2016/2016tcc197/2016tcc197.html?resultIndex=1
Forum: Financial Issues 12-13-2018, 08:43 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 512
Posted By blinkandimgone
This used to be an acceptable standard however...

This used to be an acceptable standard however CRA has taken to rejecting this wording over the past few years. The updated info is not a flat out mom pays dad X amount and dad pays mom X amount....
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