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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 12:11 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 261
Posted By Janus
There is a reasonable chance it won't be as bad...

There is a reasonable chance it won't be as bad the next time. The ancillary issues will be resolved (eg equalization), and there will be lots of evidence on both sides so that a proper course of...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-16-2019, 11:06 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 668
Posted By Janus
Of course it can, but the bar is high. ...

Of course it can, but the bar is high.



1. Going to court is not being an asshole. Sometimes you have to go to court.

2. In the case of the OP here, he has a massive status quo against...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-14-2019, 11:03 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 745
Posted By Janus
Is this advice in writing by any chance?

Is this advice in writing by any chance?
Forum: Financial Issues 08-14-2019, 11:00 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 466
Posted By Janus
I do not think I have ever seen that ordered. ...

I do not think I have ever seen that ordered. The father got some lousy legal advice.



To be clear, that is likely because you guys signed an agreement, and judges don't overturn agreements...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-14-2019, 10:50 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 668
Posted By Janus
Child support is only meant to equalize in shared...

Child support is only meant to equalize in shared custody. There are some issues with CS in a shared custody situation, but that's an argument for a different thread. For non-custodial parents,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2019, 10:37 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 219
Posted By Janus
If you use the standard agreement, the lawyers...

If you use the standard agreement, the lawyers can quickly scan it to make sure that nothing is wrong. If they use your agreement they have to actually go through it and make sure that nothing is...
Forum: General Chat 08-14-2019, 10:31 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 694
Posted By Janus
You are correct, I read that the first time and...

You are correct, I read that the first time and then forgot. Vent away :)
Forum: General Chat 08-13-2019, 10:50 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 694
Posted By Janus
Sounds like he is paying it, but just late? ...

Sounds like he is paying it, but just late?



I think you are getting distracted. The problem is the untimely reimbursement. The fact that he has chosen to buy a new fridge or bonsai is...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 10:35 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 668
Posted By Janus
The cost of raising a child for a parent that...

The cost of raising a child for a parent that makes over 400k is substantially more than 3k per month. The costs tend to scale with the income of the parents.

Anyhow, as others have said, you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-12-2019, 08:05 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 195
Posted By Janus
You are separated when there is no chance of...

You are separated when there is no chance of reconciliation. You can still be living together and be separated. Of course, it is easier to show separation if you are not living together.

If you...
Forum: General Chat 08-07-2019, 11:36 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 694
Posted By Janus
Assuming that it is covered under his benefits,...

Assuming that it is covered under his benefits, what will be the net cost?

If he does not refund the money he will receive you will have to go to court. I'm not sure if that would be family court...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-07-2019, 10:12 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 282
Posted By Janus
I hear there is this guy "Jeff" who runs a...

I hear there is this guy "Jeff" who runs a divorce forum, I think he is based in Ottawa. Seems like a reasonable guy.

https://www.ottawadivorce.com
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-07-2019, 10:10 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 225
Posted By Janus
Legally you are in the right. That said,...

Legally you are in the right.

That said, moving 90km away from the mom is a real kick in the teeth to the kids.

The mom moving in the other direction is even worse.

You both put your...
Forum: General Chat 08-07-2019, 10:07 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 694
Posted By Janus
Will the costs be covered by benefits? In other...

Will the costs be covered by benefits? In other words, will you eventually be reimbursed for your large upfront costs?
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-04-2019, 11:32 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 887
Posted By Janus
You misunderstand. I found your use of the word...

You misunderstand. I found your use of the word "safety" to be ridiculous :)



That is what I felt was a ridiculous statement. The guy is crippled. There is no safety issue here. If you cry...
Forum: Political Issues 08-04-2019, 11:27 AM
Replies: 87
Views: 20,152
Posted By Janus
No hearing required. If your order is...

No hearing required. If your order is registered with the court, it can be enforced by FRO.



Assuming recipient agrees, any form of payment works. If recipient does not agree, she can ask...
Forum: Political Issues 08-03-2019, 08:53 PM
Replies: 87
Views: 20,152
Posted By Janus
For obvious reasons, you only need one party to...

For obvious reasons, you only need one party to consent to the use of FRO. Otherwise, almost no payors would ever consent to use it.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-03-2019, 08:51 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 325
Posted By Janus
Unless you signed an agreement, then you never...

Unless you signed an agreement, then you never reached an agreement.



Almost certainly not.




"I told my client not to agree. Details are privileged. Now let's start arguing the case."
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-03-2019, 12:25 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 295
Posted By Janus
So you have custody, but she does not pay child...

So you have custody, but she does not pay child support.

It is possible that a judge will reject your divorce on these grounds. She must pay child support. Of course, once your ex realizes...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2019, 08:28 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 887
Posted By Janus
She is probably more likely to die in a car...

She is probably more likely to die in a car accident than to be assaulted on the doorstep of her ex who just got seriously injured.

Sometimes, "safety" fears are so ridiculous it feels like the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-02-2019, 08:25 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 295
Posted By Janus
If she has them 6/14 nights then many judges will...

If she has them 6/14 nights then many judges will see that as 43% of the time, with you having 57%. Your wording for the three hours thing was a little convoluted and hard to follow.

Is she...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-28-2019, 11:50 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,065
Posted By Janus
I also told her in the previous thread that her...

I also told her in the previous thread that her house was going to be ordered sold, but she didn't believe me. She had this wonky idea that her ex would give her the house because somehow it would...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-27-2019, 04:38 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,065
Posted By Janus
Presumably you don't want people quoting you so...

Presumably you don't want people quoting you so that you can delete your message?

That's not fair to the lurkers and those who will read the forum later. Just fudge the details slightly, nobody...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-26-2019, 05:25 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 459
Posted By Janus
You need a lawyer. I feel like you do not...

You need a lawyer.

I feel like you do not adequately protect your interests. Do you qualify for legal aid by any chance?

In the event that you do not qualify for legal aid and have to self...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-25-2019, 03:37 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 970
Posted By Janus
I did not realize it either. This case is a...

I did not realize it either. This case is a disaster.
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