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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-05-2007, 12:44 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 9,000
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
Hi LV This is very applicable to my...

Hi LV

This is very applicable to my situation. My ex is seeking sole custody based on our inabililty to communicate. Despite my MANY attempts to discuss our son, it is always thwarted with her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2007, 10:30 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 9,000
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
How common is sole custody awarded?

Keeping with my title: How common is sole custody awarded when there is a father involved, wanting to be involved, and who is seeking to play a large role in his sons life?

Recently I was given...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-08-2007, 12:07 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,808
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
I'm seeing my lawyer next week actually. I just...

I'm seeing my lawyer next week actually. I just wanted to know what it is exactly that I'm looking for so that I know what to ask for, or at least understand what she may suggest.

Regarding...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-07-2007, 10:48 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,808
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
Actually I don't live in Ontario and I believe...

Actually I don't live in Ontario and I believe things are done differently from Province to Province. My ex has a long history of mental health issues as well and is a loose cannon to say the least....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-06-2007, 02:02 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,808
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
Requesting psychological assessment - PAS

Hello, I am looking for some information on what the process would be to request that an assessment be done of my child, and possibly ex wife. I am experiencing a bona fide case of PAS, there is no...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-19-2007, 10:29 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,887
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
Thanks a million for the information! He'll...

Thanks a million for the information! He'll really appreciate it I'm sure.

I just wanted to comment on one aspect of his situation. His son also has nothing to do with him. Despite my...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-18-2007, 03:52 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,887
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
Support for 23 year old son

A cousin of mine recently approached me asking some questions regarding his issues with his divorce. Knowing what I've been going through, he thought I might know. I told him what I though but I...
Forum: General Chat 06-19-2007, 05:30 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,023
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
Loans for those who have been through bankruptcy

Hi guys, this is completely off topic but I am in a situation where I need a small loan, about $1000, but I have been through and discharged from a bankruptcy last year. I am wondering if anyone...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-14-2007, 01:59 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,193
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
Backed into a corner

I've been forced to take a stand this week. It all started when I went to my ex's home to pick up our son on sunday past. I showed up and as per usual she has to come all the way out to my vehicle...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-06-2007, 12:12 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,104
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
Well, I called the ex. I found it interesting...

Well, I called the ex. I found it interesting how she started the conversation by asking me if I wanted to take our son more!! I was shocked but I very quickly found out why she was being generous...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-04-2007, 07:12 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,104
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
What should I pay for ?

Ok, so I am paying my child support every month but none of the other issues regarding support for my child have been sorted out yet.

I am going to tell my ex tomorrow that I now have benefits...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-04-2007, 04:44 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,052
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
So you think I should send her a registered...

So you think I should send her a registered letter telling her this? I really don't expect that she'll utilize my benefits because then I will be aware of what illness's my son has and she does not...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-04-2007, 04:39 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,052
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
No you're right...she was not on social...

No you're right...she was not on social assistance while we were married. Instead she refused to better herself and I was forced to work to the point of exhaustion while she did nothing. So while...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-04-2007, 04:28 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,088
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
So should I offer up my benefits to my ex...let...

So should I offer up my benefits to my ex...let her know that I have them now and I can take care of our son? I would like to take care of these expenses, but nothing has been settled with regards...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-29-2007, 10:05 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,052
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
The problem is that the insurance requires that I...

The problem is that the insurance requires that I pay upfront and then submit the claim. It would be so much easier if it was the other way, but alas nothing about any of this is easy. :(

When I...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-28-2007, 06:13 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,052
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
Benefits

I just found out at work that I now qualify for benefits. I added my child to my work benefits but I don't know if I should tell the ex yet. We are negotiating spousal support and as much as I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-28-2007, 06:07 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,037
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
Thanks for the valuable replies. I've decided to...

Thanks for the valuable replies. I've decided to carry my digital recorder with me and instead of hiding it, carry it in my hand, openly visible to her. I think that she will see it and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-24-2007, 09:44 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,037
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
No it doesn't sound harsh at all. I want to see...

No it doesn't sound harsh at all. I want to see my child. I've been fighting for several years for that...fighting a woman who has done everything she could think of the alienate me. Now that she's...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-24-2007, 08:47 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,037
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
Exes behavior during transfer of child

I've been in court ordered mediation for the past couple of months. Recently I've been seeing my child more...finally after years of battleing for same. The new problem that arises as a result of...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-24-2007, 08:26 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,508
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
Thanks for the input. I haven't filled out the...

Thanks for the input. I haven't filled out the paperwork. It was due to be returned to their office today. I'm nervous about it because it stated that I can be charged and possibly fined and/or...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-15-2007, 10:12 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,508
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
I am furious!

Further to my last post about my whopping $8.56 arrears, I am so furious! I contacted the director and told her that the amount was paid and explained to her that my lawyer told me that my child...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-14-2007, 01:36 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,508
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
Demand for financial information for $8.56 arrears!!!

Ok so I just received a letter in the mail from support enforcement agency requesting that I fill out an enclosed statement of finances, which includes about 5 pages of info about me including my...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-08-2007, 10:29 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,088
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
Support of child when only one parent works

If my ex is on welfare ( by choice) then do I automatically reap the burden of all my childs expenses? I am paying my child support, but we haven't negotiated anything else yet. Am I automatically...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-30-2007, 12:33 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 919
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
What do you guys think of this?

I have been alienated from my child for 3 years. I'm fighting for a relationship with him, but I have no support from the courts. It seems that ex can do pretty much whatever she wants and I have...
Forum: Political Issues 03-02-2007, 08:13 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 8,639
Posted By gooddadgoingmad
I concur Lv. It reinforces my belief that...

I concur Lv.

It reinforces my belief that our government is more concerned with the almighty dollar than they are the emotional rights of children and the devastation wreaked upon individuals who...
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