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Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2011, 05:33 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 938
Posted By lumpy
Something to smile about!

Found out something pretty funny today...

Shared 50-50 custody. They have both always made within 1-2K of each other. Mom keeps the CCTB (about 180/mo) because when they first split dad always...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2011, 05:02 PM
Replies: 52
Poll: Another poll
Views: 6,856
Posted By lumpy
Reading this thread and realized that I had SO...

Reading this thread and realized that I had SO much potential. I settled for the one man, 2 kids, 1 ex. Hindsight - should have found one of those religions with the one man, 15 current wives and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-11-2011, 12:12 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 952
Posted By lumpy
Cheers Billie, I'll be crossing my fingers for it...

Cheers Billie, I'll be crossing my fingers for it to go smooth & easy!
Forum: Political Issues 01-07-2011, 05:50 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 8,476
Posted By lumpy
I agree with HammerDad. Even if I read the...

I agree with HammerDad.

Even if I read the article from a historical lean and forget any gender bias....

I disagee with her main point - that today we focus on parent's rights and forget...
Forum: Political Issues 01-07-2011, 01:10 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 8,476
Posted By lumpy
I only have one question left to be answered on...

I only have one question left to be answered on this thread - how do you explain "facepalm" kitten without sounding like you are completely unhinged to anyone not on this forum. I'm a little scared...
Forum: Political Issues 01-07-2011, 12:08 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 8,476
Posted By lumpy
Sorry this is a riduculously long post but this...

Sorry this is a riduculously long post but this kind of outdated, sexist crap really bothers me. (quotes straight from the article)

"For more than a century the "tender years" doctrine dictated...
Forum: Political Issues 01-06-2011, 05:37 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 8,476
Posted By lumpy
I will second that one - and hope that it goes...

I will second that one - and hope that it goes both ways. Not the umbrella (ha) - the minds on either side of debate.

As far as not saying anything rude... I haven't... but I was at one point...
Forum: Political Issues 01-06-2011, 05:18 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 8,476
Posted By lumpy
I think that we all read it and got a different...

I think that we all read it and got a different insight from you. We have debated this point before and we disagree. If you wish to leave the forum because you posted an article that was debated and...
Forum: Political Issues 01-06-2011, 05:09 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 8,476
Posted By lumpy
Then, please explain how we missed the point? ...

Then, please explain how we missed the point?

It sounds like you have been saying, if parents have failed to come to a mutual decision, you think that children should have the right to talk to...
Forum: Political Issues 01-06-2011, 05:00 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 8,476
Posted By lumpy
What is messed up about the system, IMHO, has...

What is messed up about the system, IMHO, has nothing to do with changing it so that children can be forced to make adult decisions.

Yes I read it.
Forum: Political Issues 01-06-2011, 04:58 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 8,476
Posted By lumpy
As you just said, "have their voices heard" not...

As you just said, "have their voices heard" not choose where they want to live - but have their voices heard. You, as a parent, listen to their voice and govern yourself according to their age and...
Forum: Political Issues 01-06-2011, 04:53 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 8,476
Posted By lumpy
You said it.... In accordance with their ages.

You said it.... In accordance with their ages.
Forum: Political Issues 01-06-2011, 04:35 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 8,476
Posted By lumpy
CSM78 Seriously, at what age do you think that a...

CSM78 Seriously, at what age do you think that a child (not abused) should be able to decide unilaterally where they want to live?
Forum: Political Issues 01-06-2011, 04:34 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 8,476
Posted By lumpy
Sadly some parents really believe that children...

Sadly some parents really believe that children should be able to chose where they want to live, even when it is to their detriment. Children of the marriage should be able to chose where they want...
Forum: Political Issues 01-06-2011, 04:09 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 8,476
Posted By lumpy
Ok, so what do you think that the children's...

Ok, so what do you think that the children's rights should be?
Forum: Political Issues 01-06-2011, 04:05 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 8,476
Posted By lumpy
They would say that they want mom & dad to get...

They would say that they want mom & dad to get back together and all live in the same house... not possible. This is why young children's opinions on custody arrangements are not possible.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-06-2011, 03:34 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 13,424
Posted By lumpy
I don't neccessarily agree with mrsb on the...

I don't neccessarily agree with mrsb on the mobility issue, but that one has been debated over and over again on this forum.

I would suggest that it would be in the best interests of the child...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-06-2011, 11:07 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 6,582
Posted By lumpy
I'm not sure but I think that ties the kitten...

I'm not sure but I think that ties the kitten from yesterday for post of the year so far.:)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-05-2011, 03:25 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 972
Posted By lumpy
Just a couple of questions - Where is her...

Just a couple of questions - Where is her school/daycare in relation to your home and his?

Your drive is 20 minutes with her to the school/daycare and 20 minutes back to go to the new job?
...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-05-2011, 02:36 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 6,672
Posted By lumpy
Huh??? This is your original question. ...

Huh??? This is your original question.



It had nothing to do with changing the support order. It was to see if they could take anything from your RSP as you were planning on leaving the...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-05-2011, 12:36 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 6,672
Posted By lumpy
I've said this to you before ... As a...

I've said this to you before ...

As a daughter - I would rather have my father in my life than a nice lump sum.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-05-2011, 12:18 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 6,672
Posted By lumpy
rszalai Why are you even considering moving...

rszalai

Why are you even considering moving abroad when you are fighting for equal parenting of your child? If you take off it guarantees that you will not get shared or joint custody. If there...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-04-2011, 01:04 PM
Replies: 101
Views: 11,166
Posted By lumpy
I agree in many ways that changes to the system...

I agree in many ways that changes to the system are neccessary...

But the "if she changes" is a hard one to agree with. No one can predict what will happen in the future (I know you are going...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-04-2011, 12:51 PM
Replies: 101
Views: 11,166
Posted By lumpy
Do they do this (in case scenario)? I thought...

Do they do this (in case scenario)? I thought that they just dealt with the current circumstances. If things change then it is a material change in circumstance and be brought through a motion to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-03-2011, 01:00 PM
Replies: 101
Views: 11,166
Posted By lumpy
Wow.... No wonder you two have been laughing...

Wow.... No wonder you two have been laughing lately. She is giving you everything that you need to show her lack of regard for the kids best interests. Just bring in emails like that - and your child...
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