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Forum: General Chat Today, 03:09 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 799
Posted By iona6656
typical men. Willow was clearly the best of the...

typical men. Willow was clearly the best of the lot.
Forum: Parenting Issues Today, 02:58 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 409
Posted By iona6656
*tiptoes in* it's counsellor, not...

*tiptoes in*

it's counsellor, not councillor.

*tiptoes back out*
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 01:52 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 944
Posted By iona6656
So is Tupac. Fight me.

So is Tupac.

Fight me.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 11:44 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 944
Posted By iona6656
Rage against the Machine is overrated. Highly. ...

Rage against the Machine is overrated. Highly.

(yeah I said it).
Forum: Financial Issues Today, 11:42 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 411
Posted By iona6656
Update

Thanks for all the feedback everyone.

The overwhelming answer seems to be "Yes- it will eventually put you back in court".

I don't want that.

So- I suck it up, and let it go.

He paid...
Forum: General Chat Today, 09:28 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 799
Posted By iona6656
Yeah- it's expensive as hell now. wtf @ like $150...

Yeah- it's expensive as hell now. wtf @ like $150 for a weekend pass. It's really increased. And I suspect I'll have to pay for D3 next year. But it might be worth it because she's just so enamored...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 03:44 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 944
Posted By iona6656
Do you mean Testify?

Do you mean Testify?
Forum: General Chat 09-14-2019, 10:27 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 799
Posted By iona6656
Damn. Thank you for sharing.....a lot of what you...

Damn. Thank you for sharing.....a lot of what you said feels triggering tbh.

I know you’re right that I have to share once things get serious. I guess my question is more about casual dating. I...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2019, 02:27 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 411
Posted By iona6656
Yes, it was part of an endorsed Minutes of...

Yes, it was part of an endorsed Minutes of Settlement- that’s now a final order.

The part about paying to the service provider says we both have to agree to that or else respondent (me) pays and...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2019, 12:52 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 411
Posted By iona6656
Yeah, there are those boundary things again. ...

Yeah, there are those boundary things again.

I will ask him to pay within the timeline to our agreement. Which is 10 business days. So two weeks.

If he doesn't, I'll just file the whole thing.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2019, 12:44 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 411
Posted By iona6656
If they don't. I'm not terribly worried about it....

If they don't. I'm not terribly worried about it. Am I going to fight about a couple of hundred of bucks right now? No.

Next year- and if arrears pile up. Yes.

I just wonder if I should just...
Forum: General Chat 09-13-2019, 12:41 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 799
Posted By iona6656
that's really cool actually. And I have a few...

that's really cool actually. And I have a few friends I've met boarding through the years.

I have a good friend I met boarding on an underground hip-hop message board almost 15 years ago. We're...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2019, 12:33 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 411
Posted By iona6656
Our agreement reads, XX. Commencing...

Our agreement reads,

XX. Commencing September 1, 2019, the Applicant shall pay 40% of the D3's special or extraordinary expenses, which expenses include:
(a) D3's Montessori school tuition for...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2019, 12:24 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 411
Posted By iona6656
He doesn't want to pay her swimming lessons from...

He doesn't want to pay her swimming lessons from summer. Our agreement says section 7s start commencing September 1. Cool. Don't pay summer- but he doesn't want to pay her uniform expenses and fall...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2019, 11:42 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 411
Posted By iona6656
Does filing your agreement/order with FRO ramp up conflict?

I've read the other threads about the pros/cons about FRO. I see that it's all pros for the support recipient for the most part.

But is it THAT much of a con for the payor?

I'm trying to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2019, 05:19 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 640
Posted By iona6656
At least you only have to give up posting. I have...

At least you only have to give up posting. I have to give up custody of my child. Apparently.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2019, 11:58 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 640
Posted By iona6656
Oh, sorry I guess I did miss the part where you...

Oh, sorry I guess I did miss the part where you said you didn’t want custody, but had it foisted on you due to mom not wanting custody either. My bad.

Well done on you for caring for an autistic...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2019, 11:46 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 135
Posted By iona6656
I’m so sorry. But at least there will be a...

I’m so sorry. But at least there will be a resolution.

Just to let you know- it’s standard practice if mediation breaks down to go into litigation asking for EVERYTHING, including the shirt off...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2019, 11:41 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 640
Posted By iona6656
Shockingly I am a parent. And a sole...

Shockingly I am a parent.

And a sole custody one at that.

My point isn’t that you should hand over custody to your child’s mother. It’s that you need to stop whinging about mom won’t do her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2019, 11:06 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 640
Posted By iona6656
What do you do? Surround yourself with simpering...

What do you do? Surround yourself with simpering sycophants?

If you were a mom and came in here with the same dilemma, you would be shouted down so fast.

Tell us something- how does it benefit...
Forum: General Chat 09-12-2019, 04:29 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 799
Posted By iona6656
that's a bit 'breaking the fourth wall' / 'red...

that's a bit 'breaking the fourth wall' / 'red pill' for me.

lol.
Forum: General Chat 09-12-2019, 04:12 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 799
Posted By iona6656
epic fail. (edited to add: i'm only kidding) ...

epic fail. (edited to add: i'm only kidding)

next year- we'll be there as spider gwen and mini spider gwen. (or captain marvel + miss marvel)

Also- I've gone before- not in costume. There's...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2019, 12:33 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 410
Posted By iona6656
oh- I'm not at all saying you should compromise...

oh- I'm not at all saying you should compromise on financials. I was just saying how I got to the end of a what seemed like never ending battle.

is it his girlfriend that is egging him on in this...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2019, 12:09 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 410
Posted By iona6656
Out of curiosity, what does your lawyer think?...

Out of curiosity, what does your lawyer think? Have you asked him/her- "where do you see this going?"
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2019, 12:08 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 410
Posted By iona6656
Don't lose hope. That was my exact feeling when I...

Don't lose hope. That was my exact feeling when I got my ex's initial offer back (3 months after we sent ours). So far apart.

How we got to settlement though was I compromised on financials and...
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