Ottawa Divorce .com Forums


User CP

New posts

Advertising

  Ottawa Divorce .com Forums > Search Forums

Showing results 1 to 25 of 500
Search took 0.06 seconds.
Search: Posts Made By: Janus
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 01:51 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 492
Posted By Janus
When does weekend begin and end? Does it go...

When does weekend begin and end?

Does it go Friday to Monday morning, or Friday to Sunday at some time?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 01:50 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 361
Posted By Janus
ok, I can answer some stuff now :) 1) Why...

ok, I can answer some stuff now :)

1) Why spousal support

Strong compensatory reasons. She essentially sacrificed her ability to produce income in order to take care of the children of the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 01:22 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 492
Posted By Janus
So you currently have 50% of the overnights?

So you currently have 50% of the overnights?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 01:16 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 361
Posted By Janus
So, of those 13 years, in how many of those did...

So, of those 13 years, in how many of those did she work full time?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 01:15 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 361
Posted By Janus
Haha, yes, that's right. Sorry :)

Haha, yes, that's right.

Sorry :)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 01:07 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 361
Posted By Janus
So when the kids were born, you guys lived in...

So when the kids were born, you guys lived in different houses for the first 5 years of their life?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 01:06 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 492
Posted By Janus
I'm losing track. Do you have a signed...

I'm losing track.

Do you have a signed agreement giving you less than 50% or not?
Forum: General Chat 12-06-2019, 12:54 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 408
Posted By Janus
Assume that you go to court. You ex does not...

Assume that you go to court. You ex does not show up and the judge says "what order would you like me to make?"

What would you request? Your ex is not there so the judge will write down...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 12:51 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 361
Posted By Janus
Wait, you guys have been married for 12, but...

Wait, you guys have been married for 12, but possibly you have been together longer than that?

Let's assume 20 years. Of those 20 years, in how many of those was she employed full time?


...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 12:26 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 361
Posted By Janus
She works 8 hours a week. If you buy...

She works 8 hours a week.



If you buy an expensive car, the payments are not a prison sentence, they are the financial consequences of choices made.

Having a stay at home wife is like buying...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 12:17 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 361
Posted By Janus
Do you have children? Did your ex stay home to...

Do you have children? Did your ex stay home to take care of them? Where do they currently live?

In other words, did she permanently sacrifice her earning opportunities to raise your children?...
Forum: General Chat 12-01-2019, 02:32 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 473
Posted By Janus
Before you have a signed separation agreement:...

Before you have a signed separation agreement: Not a word.
After you have a signed separation agreement: Your call, you can decide then. I woudn't worry about that now, as you said you have a few...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-01-2019, 02:26 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 246
Posted By Janus
Are your kids olympic caliber skaters and martial...

Are your kids olympic caliber skaters and martial artists? Do they require training that is extraordinarily expensive?

If yes: It is a section 7 expense.
If no: It is not a section 7 expense.
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-01-2019, 02:24 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 291
Posted By Janus
1. Video taping and legality You are...

1. Video taping and legality

You are definitely allowed to videotape every single exchange that takes place in a public venue. This is true even if she says that you are not allowed to video...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-30-2019, 09:55 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 870
Posted By Janus
Do you have any evidence that you are a "new...

Do you have any evidence that you are a "new person"? Anything objective at all?

It sucks but going to counselling is evidence that you do in fact have anger issues.

To be clear, if you yell...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-27-2019, 12:18 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 265
Posted By Janus
Are you sure about this? If that was true,...

Are you sure about this?

If that was true, it would be silly to mediate. Generally speaking you should always be pushing for a trial. Stalling before a trial is expensive.

I'm reminded of a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-27-2019, 12:13 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 785
Posted By Janus
You should be worried. This will indeed becomes...

You should be worried. This will indeed becomes the status quo.



You did, but now you are in the process of losing it.



You needed to be in court yesterday. Writing letters doesn't...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-27-2019, 12:08 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 870
Posted By Janus
His ex makes more than he does. If she agrees to...

His ex makes more than he does. If she agrees to 50/50 she has to pay child support. She is not going to accept 50/50.

Mediation is useless for these two.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-27-2019, 12:02 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 870
Posted By Janus
Honestly, if you are as involved as you say you...

Honestly, if you are as involved as you say you are, you are almost certainly going to get 50%.

The only way for you to lose is to agree to lose. The next couple of months will be exhausting. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-26-2019, 08:05 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 292
Posted By Janus
What will the boyfriend say?

What will the boyfriend say?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-26-2019, 08:02 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 870
Posted By Janus
Others have said it, but just to reiterate: I...

Others have said it, but just to reiterate: I would not expect this to be amicable.



Yeah, there is almost chance of this being amicable unless you completely capitulate.



1. There is...
Forum: General Chat 11-20-2019, 03:33 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 408
Posted By Janus
Court is not happening. You are not bringing her...

Court is not happening. You are not bringing her to court, she is not bringing you to court. Next time she threatens you, come to the forum before you panic.

The infringing is a tough spot. ...
Forum: General Chat 11-20-2019, 03:13 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 408
Posted By Janus
If you went to court, what kind of order would...

If you went to court, what kind of order would you seek? Your daughter is 13, has been living with her mom, and sees you EOW. You will not get anything extra from the court. Save your money, that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-20-2019, 08:00 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 150
Posted By Janus
You cannot legally remarry before obtaining a...

You cannot legally remarry before obtaining a divorce. In fact, that is the main reason people try to get a divorce. People are desperate to make the same mistake twice.



How old is the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-20-2019, 07:55 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 965
Posted By Janus
I got a 65 page excel spreadsheet from mine, with...

I got a 65 page excel spreadsheet from mine, with values already assigned to each item. I have to give her some credit, it was kinda awesome. Some of the items had assigned values under a dollar. ...
Showing results 1 to 25 of 500

 

All times are GMT -4. The time now is 09:05 AM.