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Forum: Parenting Issues 07-11-2019, 01:58 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 132
Posted By HammerDad
If this is the case, where the costs associated...

If this is the case, where the costs associated are high (as in long drives and 2-3 nights stay), than it is a s7 expense. The cost would be split proportionally to income. That is how it is supposed...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-11-2019, 09:49 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 132
Posted By HammerDad
No, that is not how it works. My...

No, that is not how it works.



My daughter is also in competitive tournaments. The costs associated with hotel accommodations and airfare for the activity are s7 expenses. The parent that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-09-2019, 11:12 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,099
Posted By HammerDad
Sounds like things are going OK. You can likely...

Sounds like things are going OK. You can likely look up the principal online through the schools website and get their details there.


Regarding all of the people that have traveled without a...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-08-2019, 10:34 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 634
Posted By HammerDad
If your agreement provides "The Respondent shall...

If your agreement provides "The Respondent shall indemnify and save the Applicant harmless with respect to any income tax that she is obligated to pay as a result of the spousal support payment of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-08-2019, 10:25 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,099
Posted By HammerDad
Do not call her. Send her a polite email asking...

Do not call her. Send her a polite email asking for information on the trip, schooling etc. Calling doesn't leave a paper trail. You want her responses in writing.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-05-2019, 02:11 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 293
Posted By HammerDad
So did I until I found that on the NL govt...

So did I until I found that on the NL govt website. It does seem odd IMO to have it at 19 when most of the country has it at 18.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-05-2019, 12:57 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 293
Posted By HammerDad
https://court.nl.ca/supreme/family/child_support.h...

https://court.nl.ca/supreme/family/child_support.html


How long is Child Support paid?

Child support is typically payable until the age of majority, which is 19 years of age in...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-05-2019, 12:43 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 634
Posted By HammerDad
Just thinking here: If the lump sum SS...

Just thinking here:


If the lump sum SS payment was $30,000 and ex's income was $70,000, the jump in tax brackets would not impact the original $70k. All inflated taxes owing would be a direct...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-05-2019, 09:23 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,099
Posted By HammerDad
That person is wrong.

That person is wrong.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-03-2019, 04:45 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 311
Posted By HammerDad
She is wrong. You are obligated to pay for (from...

She is wrong. You are obligated to pay for (from the legislation):


child care expenses incurred as a result of the custodial parent’s employment, illness, disability or education or training...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-03-2019, 01:45 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 293
Posted By HammerDad
I thought that as well, than just read the...

I thought that as well, than just read the Manitoba, Quebec and NB all have their own guidelines. I don't know if it applies to age as well.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-03-2019, 01:37 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 293
Posted By HammerDad
I would say that it is not s7. S7 is defined as...

I would say that it is not s7. S7 is defined as being:




7 (1) In a child support order the court may, on either spouse’s request, provide for an amount to cover all or any portion of the...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-03-2019, 01:29 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 901
Posted By HammerDad
I completely agree. I know lots of guys that...

I completely agree. I know lots of guys that would also agree. Being in control of your own birth control would have been a massive reassurance to me when I was dating. Not having to rely on someone...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-03-2019, 09:23 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,099
Posted By HammerDad
Agreed with above. Sign the passport...

Agreed with above.


Sign the passport application. It does take time to process and the faster it arrives, the less stress it will be on everyone.


Agree to sign a consent letter only after:...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-02-2019, 12:53 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 901
Posted By HammerDad
After my ex got pregnant (we weren't married) she...

After my ex got pregnant (we weren't married) she said that I "knew she was bad with the pill" and that it was my fault she got pregnant. I had no idea whether she was taking the pill regularly or...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-25-2019, 04:54 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 969
Posted By HammerDad
Also, just to add: I think this is simply...

Also, just to add:


I think this is simply an issue of the judge forgetting to insert an update clause. I don't believe a judge would knowingly order that no c/s be paid forever, notwithstanding...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-25-2019, 04:24 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 969
Posted By HammerDad
My opinion: The order provides that no...

My opinion:


The order provides that no c/s is paid. So, until ordered or you agree otherwise, you don't have to pay.


Now, here comes the BIG FREAKING CAVEAT: your order also provides that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-20-2019, 01:24 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,099
Posted By HammerDad
If it is 50/50, than you getting the month of...

If it is 50/50, than you getting the month of July is not unreasonable. I would let the ex know that you are willing to agree, so long as you get July. That if she agrees to that, you will sign all...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-20-2019, 11:09 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,099
Posted By HammerDad
What does your agreement/order provide for...

What does your agreement/order provide for parenting time over the summer (if you have one)? Are you 50/50 or are you an EOW parent? It makes a difference in the amount of time you could request. An...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 10:06 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 437
Posted By HammerDad
My reading of it is that the ex supposedly has a...

My reading of it is that the ex supposedly has a fully executed version, one that they won't provide to the OP. All the OP has is an unsigned version.


If the OP only has an unsigned version,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-18-2019, 10:37 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 437
Posted By HammerDad
You mention you have a separation agreement that...

You mention you have a separation agreement that is signed. First, I would inform the ex via email that you do not consent to the changing the schools. I would do so in a polite business like manner....
Forum: Financial Issues 06-17-2019, 01:15 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 233
Posted By HammerDad
Tough to say. If the cottage, was...

Tough to say.


If the cottage, was purchased solely with inheritance funds and wasn't put in your name, IMO, the funds weren't co-mingled into matrimonial funds and would be excluded property....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-10-2019, 02:53 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 290
Posted By HammerDad
That is a garbage clause. Who the hell insisted...

That is a garbage clause. Who the hell insisted on that being in there? Is that something you actually agreed on?


You realize that no professional will be approved by your ex as there is no...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-05-2019, 12:59 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 736
Posted By HammerDad
There's nothing wrong with fake pleasantries IMO....

There's nothing wrong with fake pleasantries IMO. Quite simply anything to keep the peace, allowing me to get moving as fast as possible.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-05-2019, 09:20 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 736
Posted By HammerDad
IMO your attitude to this should be, you don't...

IMO your attitude to this should be, you don't care who does the exchanges. You only care that the exchanges happen and that you have as little interaction as possible (no matter who happens to be...
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