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Forum: Divorce Support 10-19-2015, 09:08 AM
Replies: 1,128
Views: 75,947
Posted By OhMy
-follow the court order to a tee. -always...

-follow the court order to a tee.
-always consider the child's best interests and do not engage in drama seeking banter.
-Communicate only when required regarding decisions about the child....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-08-2015, 01:13 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 626
Posted By OhMy
Most lawyers have a standard fee for copying...

Most lawyers have a standard fee for copying materials. This fee would include not only the cost of paper but the time a staff member takes to copy it all/print it, which can take a long time...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-19-2015, 11:57 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,381
Posted By OhMy
This FAQ might help the op too: FAQ Marriage...

This FAQ might help the op too:

FAQ Marriage Breakdown - GML Actuarial Services - Actuaries in Ottawa Gatineau (http://www.gml-act.ca/faq-marriage-breakdown.php#acturial2)
Forum: Financial Issues 01-19-2015, 11:47 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,381
Posted By OhMy
My apologies. I meant if it were based as the...

My apologies. I meant if it were based as the pensions being the only asset as an example.

I truly wish it were as simple as you have suggested, but having gone through it and researched the...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-19-2015, 07:28 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,381
Posted By OhMy
To get accurate figures and the family law value...

To get accurate figures and the family law value and tax implications on both pensions, they need to go to an actuary (for federal pensions).

The max transferable total that's shown is only 50% of...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-07-2015, 10:31 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,381
Posted By OhMy
In Ontario legislation was implemented regarding...

In Ontario legislation was implemented regarding pensions and marriage breakdown in Jan 2012. Any parties doing their divisions after that date, even if separation occurred before it, this...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-04-2015, 12:19 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,381
Posted By OhMy
Yes, you can apply to find out her pension value...

Yes, you can apply to find out her pension value as a legal spouse, even when separated. The pension admins federal and provincial send the values to both spouses, regardless of who applied to find...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-29-2014, 01:33 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 422
Posted By OhMy
Hello. There are a lot of other things that...

Hello.

There are a lot of other things that will need to occur.

1) the other parties pension value (or what remains) will need to be valued and possibly split (unless there are other assets). ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-26-2014, 12:04 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 2,659
Posted By OhMy
I am saying this with the utmost respect: I...

I am saying this with the utmost respect:

I would recommend you and your partner read this book:

Divorce Poison | Classic Guide to Overcoming Parental Alienation | Dr. Richard Warshak...
Forum: Divorce Support 12-22-2014, 06:17 PM
Replies: 876
Views: 54,580
Posted By OhMy
Oops it's Brief Informative 'Friendly' Firm

Oops it's Brief Informative 'Friendly' Firm
Forum: Divorce Support 12-22-2014, 05:33 PM
Replies: 876
Views: 54,580
Posted By OhMy
No, don't respond further and if you do, simply...

No, don't respond further and if you do, simply acknowledge receipt and understanding of her message (that the order will be followed).

If you haven't already read about William Eddy and BIFF...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2014, 10:09 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 755
Posted By OhMy
A divorce can be severed from parenting time and...

A divorce can be severed from parenting time and custody issues by order of the court at a conference if both parties agree.

The divorce part was 'Severed (from the other issues) by seeking...
Forum: Divorce Support 10-24-2014, 04:51 PM
Replies: 551
Views: 31,415
Posted By OhMy
Congrats LF. Hopefully the emotions on both...

Congrats LF.

Hopefully the emotions on both sides will now be able to reduce for the benefit of D3.

Oh btw, not sure if you celebrate Christmas, or if holidays were addressed in the temp...
Forum: Domestic Violence 10-11-2014, 11:31 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 7,260
Posted By OhMy
Good summary here: Bill Eddy...

Good summary here:

Bill Eddy (http://www.billeddy.com/articles/hostile_email.htm)

This book might help with communications:
...
Forum: Divorce Support 10-09-2014, 02:36 PM
Replies: 551
Views: 31,415
Posted By OhMy
If you are going for primary and requesting EOW...

If you are going for primary and requesting EOW for her, to remain child focused I would suggest an inclusion of a transition schedule as well.

Arabians timeline is very clear and should be all...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2014, 11:41 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 595
Posted By OhMy
It sounds like you tried an emergency motion...

It sounds like you tried an emergency motion prior to the first CC. If that is the case, it was not considered an emergency and therefore not heard.

If this is not resolved at the CC you would...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-01-2014, 06:58 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,476
Posted By OhMy
Thought this was interesting: Who Gets to...

Thought this was interesting:

Who Gets to Keep Fluffy? | Familyllb's Blog (http://familyllb.com/2011/09/19/who-gets-to-keep-fluffy/)

Who has ownership of the pets?
Forum: General Chat 10-01-2014, 10:03 AM
Replies: 64
Views: 4,235
Posted By OhMy
Thank you Richard for responding to my inquiries....

Thank you Richard for responding to my inquiries.

Your original question was 'My question is this, what recourse do I have as the father, to not only get my daughters back, but to have some sort...
Forum: General Chat 09-30-2014, 10:05 PM
Replies: 64
Views: 4,235
Posted By OhMy
Richard could you clarify if I have this right to...

Richard could you clarify if I have this right to help us understand it a little more?

In June, you were late for an access visit, entered your former spouses home, went into your youngest dtrs...
Forum: General Chat 09-30-2014, 09:37 PM
Replies: 64
Views: 4,235
Posted By OhMy
Richard, Is there a restraining or no...

Richard,

Is there a restraining or no contact order disallowing you to speak or see your 16yo presently?
Forum: General Chat 09-30-2014, 08:29 PM
Replies: 64
Views: 4,235
Posted By OhMy
Straittohell beat me to one question ;) What...

Straittohell beat me to one question ;)

What did the judge order?
Forum: General Chat 09-29-2014, 01:34 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 473
Posted By OhMy
lol omg! Also indicates a change in the...

lol omg!

Also indicates a change in the times too ;).
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-29-2014, 01:25 PM
Replies: 1
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Views: 383
Posted By OhMy
http://www.legalresourcecentre.ca/sites/default/fi...

http://www.legalresourcecentre.ca/sites/default/files/publications/DisputeResolution%20Final.pdf

I reviewed the above quickly and thought it was informative but didn't find the answer. :(

You...
Forum: Political Issues 09-28-2014, 11:42 PM
Replies: 1,037
Views: 60,472
Posted By OhMy
Ding ding ding! Cheerleading moment. Constructive...

Ding ding ding! Cheerleading moment. Constructive criticism is a good thing and will help.

Yes this is a forum. A very public forum. There are only a few divorce forums in Canada. Keep in mind...
Forum: Political Issues 09-28-2014, 06:30 PM
Replies: 1,037
Views: 60,472
Posted By OhMy
I never made mention that it was your former...

I never made mention that it was your former spouses fault. In fact I made no mention as to who was making it high conflict. It seems obvious that it is based on the length of this thread and content...
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