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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 08:52 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 152
Posted By tilt
You don’t “win” with a bully by giving in....

You don’t “win” with a bully by giving in. Because you will never give in enough. Just file in Court and follow the case law that is already set. You get 50% and the table child support. He needs a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-11-2019, 10:46 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 201
Posted By tilt
The school should have called CAS. I would follow...

The school should have called CAS. I would follow up with the school to verify the time the child was dropped off without supervision (almost all school have security cameras now) and request they...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-08-2019, 03:00 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 130
Posted By tilt
Mediation works for reasonable people who just...

Mediation works for reasonable people who just have different priorities. It is a great tool for an unreasonable person to wear down the other party so they will agree to a terrible deal. How long...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-08-2019, 02:54 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 344
Posted By tilt
Ya, just wait it out. You agreed to a settlement...

Ya, just wait it out. You agreed to a settlement that didn’t have a right of first refusal clause in exchange for getting 50/50 down the line. Meanwhile you parent your child on your time and she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-08-2019, 10:23 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 169
Posted By tilt
No probs; gah, autocorrect changed “superceded”...

No probs; gah, autocorrect changed “superceded” to “super ended”, which is an interesting portmanteau.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-08-2019, 09:02 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 169
Posted By tilt
That seems odd wording, “reserved” usually means...

That seems odd wording, “reserved” usually means a decision will be released later (rather than immediately). I wonder if it simply fell through the cracks somehow. You can contact the Justice’s...
Forum: Domestic Violence 11-07-2019, 11:58 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 203
Posted By tilt
If you leave now, you will most likely still be...

If you leave now, you will most likely still be before the courts in June 2020 and the new law will be guiding case law. Get out now
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-04-2019, 01:08 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,751
Posted By tilt
You have a safety concern about your daughter,...

You have a safety concern about your daughter, you should call CAS. They can put restrictions on his conduct faster than a Court and will hold more weight with the Court.
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-03-2019, 12:56 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 915
Posted By tilt
Yep, i’ve worked with teens that entered the sex...

Yep, i’ve worked with teens that entered the sex trade; in a majority of cases the parents are either too controlling or completely lax. You cannot expect that by invading a teens privacy at 15/16/17...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-03-2019, 12:25 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 915
Posted By tilt
Hmmm, I checked my children’s...

Hmmm, I checked my children’s phones/emails/social media when they were young to help indentify bullying and relationship power imbalances they may not have been able to articulate to me. I used it...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-01-2019, 04:10 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 131
Posted By tilt
Why are you sending food to his house? Being a...

Why are you sending food to his house? Being a doormat to a high conflict ex is no fun and is not appreciated by them or anyone else. You are focusing on the short term of your children’s needs...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-01-2019, 04:00 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 274
Posted By tilt
It sounds like the conversation and notification...

It sounds like the conversation and notification was ten years ago. Not a new expense and thus no new request for permission is needed. It should be easy to get a settlement if you file in Court as...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-18-2019, 11:13 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 738
Posted By tilt
The dad was picking her up and mom wasn’t there....

The dad was picking her up and mom wasn’t there. Sounds like dad just doesn’t have the parenting skills he needs for a toddler - probably didn’t want to “force” her because he wants to be seen as the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-18-2019, 12:35 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 738
Posted By tilt
Ya, I wouldn’t worry about it. The compromise was...

Ya, I wouldn’t worry about it. The compromise was a good idea as it demonstrated you weren’t trying to interfere with his parenting (bonus - you get some free time on Friday!)

I think it sounds...
Forum: Introductions 10-14-2019, 02:40 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 743
Posted By tilt
If she was suffering from delusions and refusing...

If she was suffering from delusions and refusing treatment then paying more than 50% of your assets right to her (rather than both of you paying 100% to lawyers) is an excellent deal for you. You...
Forum: Introductions 10-14-2019, 01:23 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 743
Posted By tilt
1. Yes. Usually the behaviour is perceived as...

1. Yes. Usually the behaviour is perceived as abuse by one partner and the other partner thinks their behaviour is “normal”. Especially with abusive behaviour that seems not “as bad” to the offender...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2019, 09:37 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 781
Posted By tilt
I would file the Form 20 ASAP (assuming you have...

I would file the Form 20 ASAP (assuming you have a week or more before filing the brief). Give her a week to provide the info. You can also go to the Land Resgistry website to request the list of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2019, 12:46 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,487
Posted By tilt
Also, stay focused tomorrow. Listen HARD to what...

Also, stay focused tomorrow. Listen HARD to what the Judge is going to say and ask for clarification if you aren’t 100% sure. If he asks if you Consent to the step mom being added as a party, say no,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2019, 12:39 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,487
Posted By tilt
Nope, lawyers DEFINITELY use intimidation and...

Nope, lawyers DEFINITELY use intimidation and bullying. My spouse’s lawyer out right lied to me in a settlement meeting the judge Ordered and I called him on it and said I would request direction...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2019, 12:34 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,487
Posted By tilt
Ideally, you want your text and her response to...

Ideally, you want your text and her response to be attached to an affidavit you have sworn. The clerks can sign that you have sworn it, if you get there early enough. Good luck.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2019, 12:24 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,487
Posted By tilt
I agree show up and listen to the Judge. I think...

I agree show up and listen to the Judge. I think the other lawyer is trying to bully you into a Consent Order to hand over custody of your girls (and their new-found money and now child support)...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-02-2019, 11:50 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 781
Posted By tilt
Form 13 is self-reported and it is entirely...

Form 13 is self-reported and it is entirely appropriate to request via Form 20 to provide documentation supporting any claims that in their face seem over-reaching. This is especially true when the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-02-2019, 09:36 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 781
Posted By tilt
What do you mean by “an outline of expenses”? ...

What do you mean by “an outline of expenses”? She has to show original documents like rental agreements, invoices etc. She can’t just present the Court with a self-created spreadsheet. What was the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2019, 11:43 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,487
Posted By tilt
Stillbreathing, it is very important to be aware...

Stillbreathing, it is very important to be aware of laws that are valid in your own jurisdiction. I doubt the opinion of the US Supreme Court matters to the Judge that the OP will be before.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2019, 08:25 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,487
Posted By tilt
He died ten days ago and the funeral has already...

He died ten days ago and the funeral has already happened. That is why OP delayed contacting the person who was preventing her from having any contact or allowing her to support her own children. A...
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