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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2018, 02:18 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 735
Posted By HammerDad
Nutritionally, I don't know if there is a...

Nutritionally, I don't know if there is a difference. Emotionally, there is a contact and sensory benefit from the skin to skin contact.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2018, 02:14 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 735
Posted By HammerDad
While it is recommended, I believe the science on...

While it is recommended, I believe the science on the matters says the child starts to lose much of the nutritional benefit at around 14-16 months. And there is case law out there providing that,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-01-2018, 02:41 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 856
Posted By HammerDad
In relation to the house, whose name is on the...

In relation to the house, whose name is on the mortgage. Because if the ex isn't living there, they aren't going to want their name on the mortgage with the bank. Which means you will need to get...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-02-2018, 01:13 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 283
Posted By HammerDad
My kid is also covered under 3 insurance plans....

My kid is also covered under 3 insurance plans. Mine, my ex's and my wife's. It hits my ex's first, then what isn't covered goes to mine, then my wife's.


My wife had family benefits for years as...
Forum: Domestic Violence 09-24-2018, 03:57 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 941
Posted By HammerDad
Yup. Buy a digital voice recorder. Keep it on you...

Yup. Buy a digital voice recorder. Keep it on you at all times. While it may not be evidence for family court, it can be used to prevent false allegations should you actually serve her with divorce...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-24-2018, 03:50 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 375
Posted By HammerDad
I agree with most the others here. You need to...

I agree with most the others here. You need to change how you are looking at the money transferred. You are currently looking at it as a loan or an investment, when you should be looking at it as...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-24-2018, 11:34 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 436
Posted By HammerDad
Costs is a standard request in virtually every...

Costs is a standard request in virtually every motion and is commonly misunderstood. The ex can ask for costs, but it is up to the judge to award them. A judge can decide costs aren't appropriate, or...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2018, 10:32 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 198
Posted By HammerDad
I feel your ex's pain on the commute and the kid...

I feel your ex's pain on the commute and the kid being in competitive dance. My D13 has been competitive for 7 years now.


Your issue is that the ex has status quo in her favour. The child has...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-28-2018, 12:31 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 178
Posted By HammerDad
It can, but the ex would need to agree to this....

It can, but the ex would need to agree to this. They may not like it given that it creates potential future responsibilities, essentially there would be the constant fear of you being cut off...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-28-2018, 12:17 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 800
Posted By HammerDad
So essentially you want sole custody, because...

So essentially you want sole custody, because that is what it amounts to.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-28-2018, 10:54 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 942
Posted By HammerDad
If the expense is deemed to be s7, he doesn't pay...

If the expense is deemed to be s7, he doesn't pay half. He pays his proportional share. If the incomes are currently $62k and $110k, then he pays 36% of the cost. That goes for all costs, income post...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-28-2018, 10:48 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 150
Posted By HammerDad
Speak to your lawyer if you have one. There may...

Speak to your lawyer if you have one. There may be grounds to allow their affidavit given the circumstances. But that will likely be balanced with the fact that the other side was not able to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-28-2018, 10:45 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 928
Posted By HammerDad
I read the entire thread. If you read my post you...

I read the entire thread. If you read my post you would see that I see "it sounds like" and "Not saying that would actually happen".



I also said there is likely little that your spouse can do....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-27-2018, 11:06 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 928
Posted By HammerDad
It sounds like the Ex is suggesting that she...

It sounds like the Ex is suggesting that she would save the "rent" for the kid as a means of a forced savings. Not saying that would actually happen, but from the initial posts and how it was said...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-14-2018, 04:14 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 252
Posted By HammerDad
I just did the same. I figured until my D12 was...

I just did the same. I figured until my D12 was 21 though, as she will start post secondary when she is 17 (born later in the year). But I pretty much used the same formula.



I did not factor...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2018, 02:05 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 383
Posted By HammerDad
Do a search on my name and parenting time, I have...

Do a search on my name and parenting time, I have posted a number of times what to do on the matter.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2018, 02:18 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 537
Posted By HammerDad
Here as case that would appear to be on point: ...

Here as case that would appear to be on point:

...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2018, 01:09 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 537
Posted By HammerDad
There is case law that has said that going to...

There is case law that has said that going to school is a choice, and that is it is a form of under-employment. After 6 years, the ex is more of a career student than a person looking for employment...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-20-2018, 02:06 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 384
Posted By HammerDad
Good job man!

Good job man!
Forum: Financial Issues 06-27-2018, 12:38 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 504
Posted By HammerDad
This what I do. When I get a raise, I send the ex...

This what I do. When I get a raise, I send the ex an email saying I now make $XX and that c/s will now be $XX going forward.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-14-2018, 02:53 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 333
Posted By HammerDad
The ex would have to prove entitlement to receive...

The ex would have to prove entitlement to receive spousal support. There are 2 ways to prove entitlement, compensatory and non-compensatory.


For compensatory the ex would have to prove that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-07-2018, 11:40 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 320
Posted By HammerDad
You trust the ex at their word that instance was...

You trust the ex at their word that instance was a wake up call and that they have made strides to be a better person. They agreed to the counseling, which I would say anyone would be reluctant to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-07-2018, 11:28 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 189
Posted By HammerDad
It is very likely you will be stuck with your...

It is very likely you will be stuck with your legal fees. The ex being out of the country could be seen as a mitigating factor on the delay in response. They further mitigated their fault by...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-05-2018, 01:56 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,032
Posted By HammerDad
This ^^ Joint custody in no way...

This ^^



Joint custody in no way covers this sort of matter. As Blink said, it relates to medical, education and religious matters. This is a day to day parenting time decision. I would ignore...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-29-2018, 12:27 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 577
Posted By HammerDad
IMO, it isn't really an imputed income. It is...

IMO, it isn't really an imputed income. It is their actual income. C/S is supposed to be based off of your income as it is now. I know many base it off of the prior years income, but that isn't...
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