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Forum: Financial Issues 02-12-2014, 11:49 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,069
Posted By ddol1
sorry can't be specific - it is there in the...

sorry can't be specific - it is there in the Family Law Act..... it details our socialist society and responsibilities of not only spouse's but grandparents, and even of age children. I had...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-12-2014, 10:48 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,077
Posted By ddol1
I have been there - It has always been an issue...

I have been there - It has always been an issue for me. I can't get things done at the pace set by deadlines when medical crap is always a factor. What I was told when I was losing hair from the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-08-2014, 08:18 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,528
Posted By ddol1
if you cared for this person even for a single...

if you cared for this person even for a single minute - and you want the very best for your daughter...... and you can do this - bring your family, even your daughter so she can see for herself --...
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-04-2014, 03:06 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 10,343
Posted By ddol1
I am not sure if this is relevant - but in simple...

I am not sure if this is relevant - but in simple English... "If you do not want your laundry aired in court - then do your best to settle. I have actually spent most of the morning reviewing my old...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-02-2014, 03:49 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,524
Posted By ddol1
since you responded and misunderstood.... Family...

since you responded and misunderstood.... Family law has a stipulation of all assets disposed of two years prior to your asking for divorce - "your separation date". If you are considering a split...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-01-2014, 09:36 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,524
Posted By ddol1
the OP did mention she had a card - it takes more...

the OP did mention she had a card - it takes more than a card to gain access unless he freely gave you a pin number to access the account. The Bank would only go through your husband to give you...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-01-2014, 07:27 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,524
Posted By ddol1
Although exceptional, it is not impossible to get...

Although exceptional, it is not impossible to get legal bank records/ statements - all depends on the circumstances and who is on the other side of the bank counter. In my case, our bank manager was...
Forum: General Chat 02-01-2014, 06:59 PM
Replies: 73
Views: 6,530
Posted By ddol1
I find it an odd question.... I too perhaps have...

I find it an odd question.... I too perhaps have air a tad much but I have tried to be careful in not undermining a lawyer's efforts. I have been told so many times how my case or Ex is the most evil...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2014, 09:21 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 613
Posted By ddol1
I can say that the stall tactic is used all the...

I can say that the stall tactic is used all the time - many have expressed their exasperations and frustrations over wanting to get this over. In my parents case many years ago it was done to...
Forum: General Chat 01-29-2014, 07:37 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,988
Posted By ddol1
read with interest, as my new lawyers asked in...

read with interest, as my new lawyers asked in January after meeting the ex's lawyer for the first time....."Is my ex's lawyer as big of an ass as we think he is??" I suppose they asked with respect...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2014, 09:44 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,031
Posted By ddol1
I know that a lawyer is not allowed to "just quit...

I know that a lawyer is not allowed to "just quit their client". They have their rules to abide and the rules are very specific in this area. You mention two which are one of many of a client...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-17-2014, 09:25 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,655
Posted By ddol1
As many here know, I have been fighting what...

As many here know, I have been fighting what seems like even to me a battle that only a very few understand - that my issues go well beyond the general help we give each other here. Help that at...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-17-2014, 04:52 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,655
Posted By ddol1
Sorry this is a wordy post - my specialty I...

Sorry this is a wordy post - my specialty I guess.... just so hard for me to get things out of my head and it is only getting harder now that our divorce is finally beginning to get resolved in the...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-16-2014, 02:47 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,655
Posted By ddol1
took me a while to do a short version... it is...

took me a while to do a short version...
it is when a spouse takes advantage of the vulnerabilities of the other, either through deceit, straight lies, in my case ( serious medical issues - which so...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-15-2014, 01:48 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,655
Posted By ddol1
You might be really amazed in where the courts...

You might be really amazed in where the courts are at - or are leading towards - this document making direct references in Ontario decisions and supported even in cases where appeals were made - you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-07-2014, 12:31 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,047
Posted By ddol1
you should get some technical answers on the whys...

you should get some technical answers on the whys and hows but my experience as little as it may be:

delays, not abiding by the judge's orders and judge's really not giving it too much anything...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-04-2014, 12:36 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 617
Posted By ddol1
that is exactly what it is - you have a limited...

that is exactly what it is - you have a limited amount of time to do this. Here it was handled at our provincial court house (same place they do the murder trials (I only know that as there was one...
Forum: Domestic Violence 01-03-2014, 08:45 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 10,343
Posted By ddol1
Tayken, Again you have really put up quality...

Tayken, Again you have really put up quality thought provoking real as it is going through the courts real info that I have actually used here, reading many times - discovering some very informative...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-30-2013, 05:41 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 828
Posted By ddol1
I good way I would think is to call CRA and...

I good way I would think is to call CRA and inquire if this is taxable income "in their minds" - I have read many places where income at 150 is not appropriate in all circumstances (this, perhaps...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-26-2013, 09:32 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,831
Posted By ddol1
I actually can say I feel for you , understand...

I actually can say I feel for you , understand your plight and legally there is a solution. To those who believe there is a privacy concern - I can only say this:

This is just a copy/paste of the...
Forum: General Chat 12-20-2013, 06:16 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,288
Posted By ddol1
ha funny that one should mention the "later in...

ha funny that one should mention the "later in our years" because I really do think a few of those fellows were getting more in their 90's than I ever...... Seriously I was told it was actually an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-17-2013, 10:47 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,619
Posted By ddol1
I read through your post, and the wisdom of...

I read through your post, and the wisdom of Tayken still rings as true today as it did for me two years ago. Sad my ex is no different - her fantasies just grow and evolve (she changes her stories as...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-17-2013, 03:47 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 809
Posted By ddol1
the type of pension is critical as far as how...

the type of pension is critical as far as how things would pan out in the end (there are many "pension sources" - work related or individual insurance, the government - biggest of all, is the why? ...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-17-2013, 03:35 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,271
Posted By ddol1
Ok I know this is yesterday's news..... I am slow...

Ok I know this is yesterday's news..... I am slow these days.

But even though I got lost somewhere around post 4 or 5..... How did you guys figure out my Ex's "real name" (and yes I know I...
Forum: Domestic Violence 12-14-2013, 02:22 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,253
Posted By ddol1
trust us we are NOT alone!!! yes the police...

trust us we are NOT alone!!!
yes the police CAN be made into excellent puppets!

yes I have been asked by police "What is the matter inside that house?" (given that was and is still half my...
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