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Forum: Parenting Issues 11-08-2016, 11:47 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,879
Posted By natty2013
My thought was also to request more time while...

My thought was also to request more time while continuing to pay the same CS since that was already agreed upon.

- Thank you for those who made non-judgemental comments based on what I presented,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-08-2016, 01:11 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,879
Posted By natty2013
Moving from joint custody to shared custody

Is there any suggested method for moving from a joint-custody arrangement to a shared-custody arrangement?

For many reasons, I chose joint-custody, with the kids living primarily with the ex, at...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-07-2016, 06:42 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,808
Posted By natty2013
Thank you all for your replies. I appreciate the...

Thank you all for your replies. I appreciate the comments and advice.

I will be investing in some clothes and shoes for my place.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-07-2016, 10:22 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,808
Posted By natty2013
I see a lot of responses about "nothing you can...

I see a lot of responses about "nothing you can do", "buy them yourself" etc...

My understanding is that child support is to be used in the best interest of the child. I see there are lots of...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-06-2016, 03:24 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,808
Posted By natty2013
What Child Support is actually used for....?

My ex-wife received $1200/month in child support for our two young children. (mid/high range table amount)

This weekend, this was the foot-wear they arrived with (attached), along with the...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-06-2016, 12:01 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 958
Posted By natty2013
That was pretty much my thought as well. I...

That was pretty much my thought as well. I already wrote this off in my mind.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-03-2016, 06:28 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 958
Posted By natty2013
NFP ... a year later....

Question...

I was to pay $40000 as an NFP Equalization payment. The amount in cash agreed to was $16000, with the remainder coming as a pension division. The pension valuation at the time was...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-24-2015, 10:20 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,251
Posted By natty2013
Well, it is clear what my stance will be then. I...

Well, it is clear what my stance will be then. I also fired off a quick email to my lawyer who said it's totally up to me, but there is no legal requirement.

Thanks all, for the quick and clear...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-23-2015, 08:14 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,251
Posted By natty2013
Access to view home where children stay with you?

Are there any laws that state you have to allow the other parent to see where your children are staying during their time with you (aside from providing the physical address).
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-21-2015, 03:52 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,126
Posted By natty2013
Very unlikely from our past interactions. :(

Very unlikely from our past interactions. :(
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-21-2015, 03:31 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,126
Posted By natty2013
Unpaid sick leave or EI affects support payments?

Are there any provisions for lowering child/spousal support in instances where a person is not receiving income because of unpaid sick leave?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-21-2015, 03:30 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,612
Posted By natty2013
I think that was my main concern, that she wasn't...

I think that was my main concern, that she wasn't providing reasonable clothing for them. However, another response in this list also mentioned about how it could just be a ruse to get me to buy...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-21-2015, 01:03 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,612
Posted By natty2013
Thank you all for your feedback. I've been buying...

Thank you all for your feedback. I've been buying clothes for my kids to wear already when they are with me - I think my concern was that she is not providing for them based on the money she is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-21-2015, 09:25 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,612
Posted By natty2013
Health Cards and clothing

My wife and I are separated, and we have an agreement in place.

Issue #1
In our agreement it stipulates that Health Cards must travel with the children. She has indicated that she will make...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-08-2015, 07:58 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,843
Posted By natty2013
Are dividends in TFSAs (assuming all Canadian...

Are dividends in TFSAs (assuming all Canadian holdings) issued a T5 statement, or any other statement that declares them as income?

I think this might be the key since I believe that child...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-26-2014, 02:50 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,094
Posted By natty2013
Thanks for the advice from those who responded to...

Thanks for the advice from those who responded to the original questions (and related responses). I see my next options and have a better idea where court proceedings would progress.

Cheers.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-26-2014, 12:50 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,094
Posted By natty2013
I've used the calculator, and also have a lawyer...

I've used the calculator, and also have a lawyer who agrees with the current amount I'm paying now (starting Nov 1st, table amount only).
Forum: Financial Issues 11-26-2014, 12:48 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,094
Posted By natty2013
Yes.. the lawyers are working on that right now....

Yes.. the lawyers are working on that right now. I started limiting SS as of Nov 1st to the table amounts (midrange), so it's caused quite a stir, but I know it's the correct path.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-26-2014, 12:46 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,094
Posted By natty2013
Thanks again for the heads-up and the...

Thanks again for the heads-up and the information. I was also thinking about the extraordinary expenses, and that will definitely have to be factored into the payments when we pass the interim stage....
Forum: Financial Issues 11-26-2014, 12:17 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,094
Posted By natty2013
Well, that's really the question, isn't it? Is...

Well, that's really the question, isn't it? Is she even entitled? From what I've read, spousal support is not automatic - it has to be negotiated and in some cases awarded by the court.

Since our...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-26-2014, 12:13 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,094
Posted By natty2013
I understand what you are saying, and agree with...

I understand what you are saying, and agree with your viewpoint, that's why I'm making some living arrangement changes at my apartment. Thanks very much for your advice and concern. :)

I'm just...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-26-2014, 10:51 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,094
Posted By natty2013
Well, that's not my concern right now. I...

Well, that's not my concern right now. I understand the potential implications. Right now they are comfortable and safe, and that's more important to me than the financial impact it will have on me....
Forum: Financial Issues 11-26-2014, 10:41 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,094
Posted By natty2013
There is no disability, or anything else stopping...

There is no disability, or anything else stopping her from working - just her own motivation as far as I can see. She earned $11000 at home a few years ago, as well (doing bookkeeping work) when both...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-26-2014, 09:56 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,094
Posted By natty2013
Wait... "from the air"... is not very...

Wait... "from the air"... is not very descriptive... it's based on her income during marriage when she was at home, mostly unemployed and taking care of kids. Previous to children, she earned about...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-26-2014, 09:34 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,094
Posted By natty2013
- $20000 is the NFP difference based on...

- $20000 is the NFP difference based on pension/house/assets.
- $7500 comes from the air, as far as I can see.
- College education, full time work before we were married (in 2006).
- Lawyer has...
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