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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2018, 11:30 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 526
Posted By dinkyface
Do you know why she is opposing?

Do you know why she is opposing?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-14-2017, 10:10 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 445
Posted By dinkyface
Its the closest to 40% without actually going...

Its the closest to 40% without actually going over 40%. Just one more weeknight equals 50-50. So I think it came about as a result of CS rules.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2017, 12:50 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 531
Posted By dinkyface
Have you discussed child support? Is she...

Have you discussed child support? Is she expecting to be exempt from paying CS because she waives all access?
I think your best bet lies with making it clear you will be pursuing full CS - it might...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-25-2017, 11:12 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 463
Posted By dinkyface
I believe the question is regarding parenting...

I believe the question is regarding parenting time, not legal decision making power (sole vs joint custody).
The child has no say in which parent has sole vs joint custody, but an older child might...
Forum: Introductions 10-27-2017, 12:29 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 3,567
Posted By dinkyface
My boss split from her hubby, they have 2 kids,...

My boss split from her hubby, they have 2 kids, and something she said struck me: when you can figure out how to act to get your kids the best parenting, and separate that from what you personally...
Forum: Introductions 10-24-2017, 08:27 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 3,567
Posted By dinkyface
One thing not mentioned so far ( I think ) is...

One thing not mentioned so far ( I think ) is that if you go to court to resolve this,
1) parenting schedules ordered vary widely, with the most common pattern being that dad physically splits from...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2017, 09:31 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 828
Posted By dinkyface
My order says that consent will not be...

My order says that consent will not be unreasonably withheld, the form/content, notarized, who bears cost, and gives a timeline for requesting&providing. It does not explicitly said it is required....
Forum: Financial Issues 08-29-2017, 01:54 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,118
Posted By dinkyface
Agreed with HammerDad. Not section 7. The...

Agreed with HammerDad. Not section 7.

The point of set-off is that it enables you to share all expenses roughly equally. I would assume that you have similar expenses of your own that balance...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-17-2017, 09:14 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,129
Posted By dinkyface
A summary of factors considered by the judge is...

A summary of factors considered by the judge is listed here...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-14-2017, 02:45 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,058
Posted By dinkyface
How would you determine net cost? AFAIK the tax...

How would you determine net cost? AFAIK the tax reduction specifically attributed to the child care expense is not indicated anywhere on your tax return or NOA.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-12-2017, 08:11 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 372
Posted By dinkyface
Daycare vs nanny pros/cons are not arguable,...

Daycare vs nanny pros/cons are not arguable, because a parent can arrange whatever care they want on their time.

OP has not mentioned it so I'm hoping that there is no threat of losing access time...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-12-2017, 06:16 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 372
Posted By dinkyface
Sure, as long as your cost for A+B doesn't...

Sure, as long as your cost for A+B doesn't increase she can do whatever.
A) If you will continue using the daycare on your days then she must pay a part of that
B) For her nanny, contribute only as...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-12-2017, 10:57 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,986
Posted By dinkyface
I just rechecked numbers... midpoint SS is $578...

I just rechecked numbers... midpoint SS is $578 (range $320-$842), and with her receiving $30K taxfree benefits (!!), she comes out ahead of you by $12500/yr even if she does not work.

I used...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-09-2017, 08:33 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,986
Posted By dinkyface
The online free support calculator based on SSAG...

The online free support calculator based on SSAG gives a range of about 350 to 900, so a midpoint about 625. The midpoint gives between 45-55 and 50-50 NDI split.

From what I've read, splitting...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-03-2017, 07:27 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 611
Posted By dinkyface
How much would it cost her to rent a similar...

How much would it cost her to rent a similar house (including utils)? Or even a 2 bdrm apartment including utils. Subtract that from what she is asking for. Probably comparable. Which means she has...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-20-2017, 11:42 AM
Replies: 71
Views: 2,967
Posted By dinkyface
Just FYI, it is section 9b of the CSG that...

Just FYI, it is section 9b of the CSG that indicates that the setoff amount should be adjusted if one parent is bearing a higher proportion of the (non section 7) costs. So what RIoe suggested is...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-16-2017, 01:32 PM
Replies: 71
Views: 2,967
Posted By dinkyface
Just to clarify between section 7 and...

Just to clarify between section 7 and extra-curricular...

With offset CS:
non-section 7 expenses (e.g. 'normal' extracurriculars) should be split 50-50 because the point of the offset payment...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-05-2017, 11:42 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,030
Posted By dinkyface
After the 1-3 days in hospital, would you also be...

After the 1-3 days in hospital, would you also be needing personal assistance that is not related to childcare i.e. if you had no children, would you still need assistance? If yes, then a part of...
Forum: General Chat 04-28-2017, 04:24 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 593
Posted By dinkyface
How to unsubscribe?

I have a ton of subscribed threads and would like to unsubscribe from all i.e. don't want to get email notification of new posts. How is that done please?

FAQ says this, but I could not find...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-25-2017, 11:08 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,895
Posted By dinkyface
Perhaps you should include some details on how...

Perhaps you should include some details on how travel by your ex will be handled e.g.
- your consent is also waived?
- passport will be provided at least 2 weeks before planned travel, or as soon...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-25-2017, 10:58 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 728
Posted By dinkyface
The OP seems to be asking which of these 2...

The OP seems to be asking which of these 2 options applies
1) Section 7, so I pay 2/3
2) Not Section 7, so I pay 0 because it is covered by CS.

But I think the options are
1) Section 7,...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-24-2017, 02:50 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 728
Posted By dinkyface
You are paying offset c/s? (You mentioned...

You are paying offset c/s? (You mentioned equalization, but that word generally refers to splitting of assets, not c/s). In that case all non- section 7 expenses are split 50-50.
The idea of offset...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-23-2017, 12:44 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 722
Posted By dinkyface
See the step by step worksheet here for details.....

See the step by step worksheet here for details..
Worksheet 1: Calculate your annual income - The Federal Child Support Guidelines: Step-by-Step...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-23-2017, 12:35 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 351
Posted By dinkyface
Perhaps tell your ex and the daycare staff that...

Perhaps tell your ex and the daycare staff that you have started recording the pickups for the purposes of minimising conflict in front of the child.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-19-2017, 09:31 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 386
Posted By dinkyface
'single parent' -> this parent has children from...

'single parent' -> this parent has children from prior partner
'their children' -> they also have children together

Which children are you referring to?

Is the prior partner also supporting...
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