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Forum: Financial Issues 03-17-2021, 07:31 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 996
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Naturally your ex will be able to provide better...

Naturally your ex will be able to provide better for your children he is employed. I think to ensure you can do same you should focus on getting a job. It's the single best way to be able to provide...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-16-2021, 05:00 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 996
Posted By Helpmyspouse
The house is jointly owned. He is entitled to...

The house is jointly owned. He is entitled to live there just as you are yet you lock him out denying him access to his property. And you lock him out because he was coming over to visit with the...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-15-2021, 10:24 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 996
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Tayken gave great advice. Those were all the...

Tayken gave great advice. Those were all the reasons why I won my motion.
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-09-2021, 11:59 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 286
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Do they have this phone with them when they are...

Do they have this phone with them when they are with you? You can check the device settings and get the number?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-07-2021, 03:02 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,150
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Your ex would incur separate legal fees to...

Your ex would incur separate legal fees to respond.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-07-2021, 01:43 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,150
Posted By Helpmyspouse
It cost me $5000 for an order to list and sell...

It cost me $5000 for an order to list and sell without ex consent.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2021, 11:00 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 605
Posted By Helpmyspouse
What are you questioning about your lawyer? He...

What are you questioning about your lawyer? He told you to get the house appraised and your ex can buy you out . This seems like basic knowledge. Are you trying to find case law? What information...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2021, 10:01 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 605
Posted By Helpmyspouse
You should contact a real estate agent and get an...

You should contact a real estate agent and get an appraisal. Your ex might also want to get her own appraisal. Both home owners are entitled to get their own real estate agent for this information.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-04-2021, 01:07 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,049
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I was in similar situation. Ex held the...

I was in similar situation. Ex held the matrimonial home hostage for 2 years. The judge granted my motion to force sale of the home. Ex pushed back said he would be homeless which is what happened...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-27-2021, 02:10 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 223
Posted By Helpmyspouse
No contact order

A few years ago I got court order that keeps ex away from me or no contact. It also says ex can only have contact with children supervised at an access center. He has not seen our kids since 2014...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-27-2021, 01:41 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 833
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Angry He sounds decent enough and his story is...

He sounds decent enough and his story is heartbreaking. Why can't his ex take less in child support for a bit until he can get himself an apartment. It's not like it would be forever since he is...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-14-2021, 11:44 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 250
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Be prepared for your situation to drag on. The...

Be prepared for your situation to drag on. The lawyers see all that equity so they know their fees are secured. When they say your financials they have already calculated how much they will drain...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-13-2021, 10:31 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 250
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I second that. I'm at 7 years....

I second that. I'm at 7 years....
Forum: Financial Issues 02-07-2021, 09:43 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,760
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Talking *sets reminder for 12 months* *opens bag of...

*sets reminder for 12 months*

*opens bag of popcorn*

*waits for it to all blow up*


Now that is funny. I was going to post the same thing.. check back with us in 6 months actually and let...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-07-2021, 11:13 AM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,760
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Rocksan is 100 per cent right. You need to both...

Rocksan is 100 per cent right. You need to both seek legal advice. You said both kids are with you. Are you saying you have full custody of the 16 year old and she has access? Just curious.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-07-2021, 09:33 AM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,760
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Unless you get the help from a good therapist you...

Unless you get the help from a good therapist you risk taking her back for the wrong reasons. And/or you will never be able to move on. Like the other poster said you are all over the place. You...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-16-2021, 07:14 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 248
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Pension to LIRA transfer

In our settlement agreement and due to equalization , my ex is entitled to a portion of my pension. It was not an automatic thing. Apparently my ex has to fill out a form and make an application for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-07-2020, 08:13 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 292
Posted By Helpmyspouse
That's a good question. My file is 2 rolling...

That's a good question. My file is 2 rolling briefcases large. I was not given a copy of the entire file. I was only given a copy of the final settlement and originals of all the court orders. There...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-05-2020, 08:12 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 503
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Unhappy Sorry but I blame the lawyers because they can...

Sorry but I blame the lawyers because they can get away with it lining their own pockets. It's not what's best for the children, or What's best for the parent, it's what is best for the lawyers. The...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-24-2020, 09:21 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 728
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I sympathize with you and it's true she can come...

I sympathize with you and it's true she can come back for more any time. I've been told the same thing. Even if the ex agrees to sign off on any future spousal they can still come back and try for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2020, 02:55 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 473
Posted By Helpmyspouse
It's all how it is stipulated in the Court Order....

It's all how it is stipulated in the Court Order. Mine says I don't need ex permission or signature to obtain passports and I don't need his permission to travel with them outside the country. They...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-26-2020, 06:15 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 4,129
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Thumbs up tilt, that is an excellent idea!

tilt, that is an excellent idea!
Forum: Divorce Support 08-25-2020, 03:04 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 4,129
Posted By Helpmyspouse
She is playing games and that's why she asked for...

She is playing games and that's why she asked for heads up because she knows when to expect it and avoid being served. She doesn't want to be served at the house because of the kids is a fake...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-23-2020, 09:03 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 802
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I was told it makes no difference. In Ontario you...

I was told it makes no difference. In Ontario you can be physically and emotionally abused by your ex spouse and still be ordered to pay spousal. Even if the ex was charged and convicted of it. We...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-20-2020, 05:50 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,165
Posted By Helpmyspouse
And if he gets the nanny pregnant he will have...

And if he gets the nanny pregnant he will have another mouth to feed also lowering her payout.
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