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Forum: Financial Issues Today, 08:53 AM
Replies: 1
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Posted By iona6656
Will FRO force payor to do taxes and update CS accordingly?

Shockingly the ex does not want to file his taxes. He sent me a text and told me his new line 150...which is 25% higher than when we signed our agreement in 2019 (he was still using his 2017 income--...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-30-2020, 10:29 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 451
Posted By iona6656
OP- my daughter is the same age as your son. And...

OP- my daughter is the same age as your son. And her dad and I have been split as long as you have...so I understand the challenges of co-parenting from baby --> toddler.

3.5yr olds are hard. if...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-10-2020, 11:56 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 226
Posted By iona6656
You have to be clear on what you want. Do you...

You have to be clear on what you want. Do you want a co-parent counselor to work with both parents to deal with access time, etc etc

Or do you want a family mediator/arbitrator.

They are...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-08-2020, 10:42 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 197
Posted By iona6656
lol. that sounds kinda vindictive. you're...

lol. that sounds kinda vindictive. you're planning your revenge vacation a year in advance? c'mon.


this is just my interpretation but in most other areas of contract law- the more specific term...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-08-2020, 10:35 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 203
Posted By iona6656
My family lawyer said that OCL reports tend to...

My family lawyer said that OCL reports tend to stale date faster (e.g. 1 year) the younger the child(ren).
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-08-2020, 10:28 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 252
Posted By iona6656
lol. I was waiting for someone to call me out on...

lol. I was waiting for someone to call me out on that. Yes- essentially that IS what it does- makes us both jump through more hoops. And I have final say at the end of the day anyways.

The thing...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-05-2020, 11:15 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 206
Posted By iona6656
This is a great way to go imo. OP- are you...

This is a great way to go imo.

OP- are you on amicable terms with your ex?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-03-2020, 12:11 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 322
Posted By iona6656
in my experience with CAS - I was involved with...

in my experience with CAS - I was involved with two different cities. They do take some time to get the ball rolling. Like 2-3 weeks each time. So if there is an immediate need to change access- I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-03-2020, 12:06 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 252
Posted By iona6656
in my SA we spelled out what major medical...

in my SA we spelled out what major medical decisions were- including introduction to qualified medical specialist aside from D3's pediatrician, allergist and dermatologist. Taking her to a new...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 07:54 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 697
Posted By iona6656
lol. y'all are catching some feelings over...

lol. y'all are catching some feelings over chocolate bars.

LD- your ex is STILL controlling you. have you had some counseling to deal with this?

my therapist taught me to do something that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-04-2020, 06:01 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 528
Posted By iona6656
So far- we've managed to stay civil. Her dad is a...

So far- we've managed to stay civil. Her dad is a bit short and angry with me sometimes. Cool. Fine. She doesn't really notice as exchanges are short- and we discuss only stuff related to her.

I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-04-2020, 05:57 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 528
Posted By iona6656
thanks for the perspective everyone. She's a...

thanks for the perspective everyone. She's a happy go-lucky kid. She takes a bit of time to adjust to new routines- like most toddlers. I've been saying in a matter of fact way that she's going to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-30-2020, 01:45 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 528
Posted By iona6656
Do you guys say "good night" to your kids when at other parent's home?

Simple question:

When your kid(s) is at the other parent's home, do you always call to say good night? Never? Sometimes?

D3.5 is going to start overnights soon. She does't really want to- but...
Forum: Political Issues 04-28-2020, 01:11 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 833
Posted By iona6656
My lawyer- (is he still my lawyer? hopefully I'm...

My lawyer- (is he still my lawyer? hopefully I'm done iwth him for now...anyways)- when I was researching all his cases for a consultation, I read one where he, personally, got hit with costs because...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2020, 04:51 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,680
Posted By iona6656
Here's the thing- "verbal abusive" and abusive...

Here's the thing- "verbal abusive" and abusive language happens when you're in a position to be abused. If you're no longer in a relationship with the other person and sharing the same household-...
Forum: General Chat 04-23-2020, 04:09 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 490
Posted By iona6656
nah- i think she's saying that we have to start...

nah- i think she's saying that we have to start taking people who perpetrate violence against an intimate partner- or former intimate partner - as being potential lethal nutjobs. which this dude...
Forum: Political Issues 04-23-2020, 03:57 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 568
Posted By iona6656
Here's something both of you are missing- did you...

Here's something both of you are missing- did you hit your spouse? were you abusive? was there a power imbalance? y'all keep throwing around the word "allegation". well- if the allegation has merit...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-23-2020, 09:18 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 424
Posted By iona6656
if there are 5 or less kids- in home daycares are...

if there are 5 or less kids- in home daycares are still running. is there someone you trust who you can send your son to? call them an in-home daycare.
Forum: Political Issues 04-23-2020, 09:11 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,096
Posted By iona6656
I'm not quite sure if you're an abusive dick or...

I'm not quite sure if you're an abusive dick or not. Some of your posts have suggested you are...but maybe not.

We all make mistakes during the divorce process. It's a given. Sometimes it's a ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-19-2020, 11:00 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 265
Posted By iona6656
chucking snacks at her in-between her ipad...

chucking snacks at her in-between her ipad sessions.

but actually crafts 24-7. I'm working more than ever. 12-13hr days. online at home. I wouldn't be surviving if I wasn't quarantining with my...
Forum: General Chat 04-16-2020, 09:33 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 865
Posted By iona6656
ew. .

ew. .
Forum: Political Issues 04-16-2020, 09:29 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,096
Posted By iona6656
already by making this a "father" issue- you're...

already by making this a "father" issue- you're setting up a 'He v. She' debate. You're going to lose on that. You may want to consider changing it to "what many parents are going...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-07-2020, 10:07 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 850
Posted By iona6656
I think this is the time to ask questions- and as...

I think this is the time to ask questions- and as much as you can- keep it civil..

My daughter's dad and I have had the discussion about who visits our homes. Like I said in another thread- his...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-07-2020, 06:27 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 850
Posted By iona6656
you haven't identified any behaviour in the...

you haven't identified any behaviour in the boyfriend that would indicate that they are risking exposure more than normal- e.g. he works in health care, continues to other family members.

I don't...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-26-2020, 09:54 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,714
Posted By iona6656
You would not believe the amount of family...

You would not believe the amount of family members [mostly nosy aunts and uncles- not immediate family. thank goodness]- messaging me saying I shouldn't send my daughter....silly. Her dad and I have...
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