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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-08-2020, 08:01 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 58
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Divorce certificate

Once your lawyer files divorce papers for uncontested divorce how long does it take before its granted and you receive divorce certificate.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-03-2020, 06:12 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 367
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I had to get a court order to force the sale of...

I had to get a court order to force the sale of my home but I also had to get a court order to list and sell without ex spouse consent. You need both orders in my opinion because you can list it but...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-02-2020, 10:48 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 153
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Thanks for the great replies. I had not thought...

Thanks for the great replies. I had not thought about the CPP credit splitting I was too focused on my work pension that he will get half of due to evaluation.
I asked my lawyer about this and he...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-29-2020, 01:29 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 153
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Equalization and Pension

During the equalization calculations it was determined that my ex spouse is entitled to half my pension. Our separation date is 2014. I have since 2014 still been working and obviously accumulating...
Forum: General Chat 06-28-2020, 07:45 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 359
Posted By Helpmyspouse
You are not liking that she is asking for a third...

You are not liking that she is asking for a third of pension but has the equalization been calculated? She may be entitled to more. When equalization was calculated for my case, I owe my ex spouse...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-22-2020, 07:13 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 553
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I agree with Rocksan. Ignoring her is the best...

I agree with Rocksan. Ignoring her is the best you can do. Just be glad you don't live under the same roof with her anymore so don't give her the opportunity to continue her abuse. Ignore her and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-18-2020, 07:42 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 151
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Which lawyer? He has had 9 of them. When it all...

Which lawyer? He has had 9 of them. When it all began he tried to get legal aid but at the time I guess he had to disclose his assets and we had our home at the time which he was living in. Even...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-18-2020, 11:24 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 151
Posted By Helpmyspouse
It's a little complicated so I am trying to...

It's a little complicated so I am trying to figure out what is happening without asking my own lawyer and it costing me more money.
Ex ended up getting another lawyer who is actually helping us...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-18-2020, 08:48 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 151
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Question Charging Order

What is a Notice of motion for a charging order and what is it used for?
Forum: Financial Issues 06-11-2020, 10:04 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 142
Posted By Helpmyspouse
My lawyer wanted to add a line that read upon my...

My lawyer wanted to add a line that read upon my ex's death any money he still has will go to our children or something like that. I didn't want to rock the boat and told him to leave it out. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-11-2020, 10:57 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 142
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Question Minutes of settlement

It appears we may actually be close to signing minutes of settlement and avoiding trial. After we have both signed what is the process? And how long before monies are paid out? Other side would be...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-28-2020, 09:57 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 300
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Question Taxes on settlements

Does anyone know if you have to pay taxes on settlements from family law matters? If you are able to settle equalization payment, spousal support, or child support, etc without going to trial are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-29-2020, 11:09 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 493
Posted By Helpmyspouse
My lawyer charges for every email. If the one...

My lawyer charges for every email. If the one liner ones. Min .10 and $45. What is .10??? 10 minutes??? Ridiculous. And no point changing lawyers...they are all money hungry shakes.
Forum: Political Issues 04-16-2020, 07:57 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,096
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I would hire you at $150 per hour. Heck even at...

I would hire you at $150 per hour. Heck even at 300. But why do lawyers have to charge more than a brain surgeon? When I was looking for a lawyer at least 3 of them told me their fees were 750 per...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-03-2020, 07:44 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,714
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I would think yes since the child is still a...

I would think yes since the child is still a minor.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-29-2020, 09:34 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,778
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I just went to your website and read your...

I just went to your website and read your backstory. I'm so effen sorry for the years of bullshit you've been put through. I thought I've been living a movie the last 7 years. Clearly your ex has...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-29-2020, 09:20 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,778
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Unbelievable. I hope this backfires on her so...

Unbelievable. I hope this backfires on her so badly. As a mom, I completely disagree with the emotional damage she is causing her children not to mention the money she burning on legal fees for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-24-2020, 10:39 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,714
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Your ex can't just withhold the kids from you...

Your ex can't just withhold the kids from you because he THINKS they are at risk with you to get covid19. File a motion and he will have to provide specific evidence to support his "fears". I'm not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-23-2020, 11:15 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 655
Posted By Helpmyspouse
As long as you have equity on your home lawyer...

As long as you have equity on your home lawyer will continue to milk you. Doesn't matter if your unemployed. Once a lawyer has prepared your financials he knows exactly if you can pay legal fees or...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-21-2020, 08:42 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,105
Posted By Helpmyspouse
That would also stop us having to pay a lawyer...

That would also stop us having to pay a lawyer for a whole day when he sits around at the court house waiting for your matter to be called. The matter lasts 20 minutes but you just paid him for 6...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-20-2020, 08:07 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 255
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Regarding pension, whether you settle with a cash...

Regarding pension, whether you settle with a cash payout or agree to a percentage of pension transferred to an RESP or other bank savings how can ex come back for more? I'm asking because I'm trying...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-19-2020, 06:19 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,266
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Is your courthouse still open with the covid19...

Is your courthouse still open with the covid19 pandemic?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-18-2020, 07:23 AM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,387
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I agree with Rocksan. I can't see this going over...

I agree with Rocksan. I can't see this going over well if your ex doesn't have the virus. I don't know how young your child is but best to try to keep the situation uninterrupted for kids and not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-16-2020, 10:14 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 173
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Verbal or physical..it's all abuse and you and...

Verbal or physical..it's all abuse and you and your kids deserve better. Seek advice from a domestic abuse shelter. They can point you in the right direction. And don't let him know your plans. If...
Forum: General Chat 03-15-2020, 09:54 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 482
Posted By Helpmyspouse
The obstacles and delays I've encountered since...

The obstacles and delays I've encountered since 2014 is unbelievable. I didn't need this one. I was on the trial list for May. I will write a book one day. :mad:
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