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Forum: Parenting Issues Today, 01:31 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 94
Posted By Janus
Communication Platform: gmail Free, easy to...

Communication Platform: gmail

Free, easy to use, effective.

scheduling platform: separation agreement

Don't leave any room for negotiation in the agreement. Split up the summers NOW. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-15-2020, 04:22 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,097
Posted By Janus
I think you only need one kid for eligible...

I think you only need one kid for eligible dependent credit.

So, if you want to be sneaky, say that you get to claim the youngest kid and she gets the older two.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-12-2020, 09:57 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 82
Posted By Janus
Generally, one side gains from the stalling, the...

Generally, one side gains from the stalling, the other side loses from stalling. The side that loses from stalling is the one that should start it.



Seems like you are the one losing by...
Forum: General Chat 02-11-2020, 09:03 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 145
Posted By Janus
The 'ol "I didn't read it so it doesn't count"...

The 'ol "I didn't read it so it doesn't count" defense.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2020, 09:02 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 151
Posted By Janus
You would likely be considered to have less than...

You would likely be considered to have less than 40% custody, and if the mom wanted, could be liable to pay table child support.

You likely cannot stop the 16 year old from sleeping where he...
Forum: General Chat 02-11-2020, 08:02 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 45
Posted By Janus
Well, first just ask the other side in writing...

Well, first just ask the other side in writing for one. You can likely get one on consent.

Either way, I think it is form 14C? I'm not sure.

If you are going to get a lawyer, how soon is the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2020, 12:50 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 279
Posted By Janus
You can certainly motion for 50/50, but why would...

You can certainly motion for 50/50, but why would you get it if you are facing criminal charges?

Hopefully your trial is in 2021 so you can stand up and say "those bogus charges were dropped so...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-11-2020, 12:38 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 502
Posted By Janus
If you have a court order that says you get to...

If you have a court order that says you get to buy her out for the price set by the appraiser, then why are you here complaining? You have the price, so now complete the transaction.

If she...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-11-2020, 12:35 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 502
Posted By Janus
He was not paying occupation rent. The mortgage...

He was not paying occupation rent. The mortgage payments would likely be considered to be offset from that.

If he wants to buy her out, he has to buy her out at current value, which is...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-08-2020, 03:23 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 502
Posted By Janus
She does not have to allow you to buy her out. ...

She does not have to allow you to buy her out. She can have the house go to market and then you can bid on it.

Why would you, as the purchaser, get to dictate the price of the house?
Forum: Divorce Support 02-05-2020, 11:08 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 531
Posted By Janus
You don't have a wife, you have an ex. ...

You don't have a wife, you have an ex.


Some subtle differences:


1) One you fight against in court, the other you don't.
2) One tries to take your kids from you, the other does not
3) One...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-04-2020, 12:47 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 86
Posted By Janus
Yes, and that is true whether or not it is a...

Yes, and that is true whether or not it is a joint ownership



If the no-skills person sacrificed their income earning potential for the sake of the business, then this inequity would be...
Forum: General Chat 01-29-2020, 01:20 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 131
Posted By Janus
Days missed vs classes missed?

Days missed vs classes missed?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 12:17 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 790
Posted By Janus
Presumably Fri.Sat,Sun as well? Are you going...

Presumably Fri.Sat,Sun as well? Are you going for the 5522 schedule? Is it explicitly stated in your agreement?



I would also be skeptical.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 11:52 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 790
Posted By Janus
I've never seen IFF used outside of a mathy...

I've never seen IFF used outside of a mathy situation, I like it!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 11:50 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 790
Posted By Janus
Yes, it is too vague. You need a specific...

Yes, it is too vague.

You need a specific date and a specific schedule in the agreement.

Starting at 8am on August 12th, 2021, the parenting schedule will be as follows

Aug 12 noon-Aug 14...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-29-2020, 11:17 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 396
Posted By Janus
"Force kids of divorced parents to pay for their...

"Force kids of divorced parents to pay for their own education" is not a very catchy political slogan.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-29-2020, 11:14 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 280
Posted By Janus
I agree with Berner. Sign the agreement anyway,...

I agree with Berner. Sign the agreement anyway, then ask for CS once it is signed.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 10:48 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 315
Posted By Janus
Rather than just concede the point, how about he...

Rather than just concede the point, how about he sends the following message:

Hey ex,

This has been a difficult few months for us, and I appreciate how we have tried to keep this as amicable as...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2020, 12:27 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,097
Posted By Janus
Just to be clear, the CRA is patriarchal because...

Just to be clear, the CRA is patriarchal because it will automatically give the money to a female over a male?

To paraphrase a great movie... you're using a word, but I don't think that word means...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-28-2020, 10:37 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 703
Posted By Janus
Yes, exactly that. I inform her to let her...

Yes, exactly that. I inform her to let her choose for events during my time. I do not ask for permission or give her notice that I am attending events on her time.

Honestly, it never even...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-27-2020, 01:15 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 703
Posted By Janus
I'm going to mildly disagree. We all...

I'm going to mildly disagree.

We all agree that parent's do not get to dictate where the kids go during the ex's parenting time. If Dad's ex does not want to bring the kids to activities for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-23-2020, 05:12 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 193
Posted By Janus
How is the latest offer any different? Make...

How is the latest offer any different?

Make sure that if the offer is accepted you will be happy... 'cause you know, it might get accepted :)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-23-2020, 05:11 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 267
Posted By Janus
I think generally the answer is 3 copies: 1)...

I think generally the answer is 3 copies:

1) You
2) Judge
3) Opposing counsel
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-22-2020, 01:57 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 269
Posted By Janus
Get a year long calendar. Post it prominently in...

Get a year long calendar. Post it prominently in the kitchen. Highlight your weekends in bright neon pink, where the kids will see it repeatedly throughout the year.

Once the kids are on board,...
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