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Forum: Financial Issues 05-17-2020, 10:36 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 111
Posted By LovingDad1234
It is based on your total income outlined in your...

It is based on your total income outlined in your Notice of Assessment
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-13-2020, 08:54 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 300
Posted By LovingDad1234
For the OP, courts hate recordings, and often it...

For the OP, courts hate recordings, and often it is inadmissable as evidence. I also demonstrates that you are using trickery to try to discredit the other parent, and not having open and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 07:58 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 554
Posted By LovingDad1234
Can judges order high conflict parents to...

Can judges order high conflict parents to participate in co-parenting counseling, where the parents hopefully learn to get along and respect one another? I fully understand that the unreasonable...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 04:16 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 554
Posted By LovingDad1234
Add: "Treat all written correspondence...

Add: "Treat all written correspondence (email/text) as though it will be read by a judge, because it eventually will"
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 02:43 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 554
Posted By LovingDad1234
What is the resolution you hope to gain in court...

What is the resolution you hope to gain in court by filing for contempt when it deals with non-financial matters that cannot be enforced by a judge? Unless it deals with finances (such as ex not...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 09:45 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 523
Posted By LovingDad1234
My post is about how to deal with my ex who is...

My post is about how to deal with my ex who is controlling, conflict-driven, and vindictive. I had hoped for smoother waters and hate conflict, and came to this forum for guidance on how to deal...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-10-2020, 07:20 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 523
Posted By LovingDad1234
I have dealt with years of nonsense, illogical...

I have dealt with years of nonsense, illogical and unreasonable bs. Me asking my ex to not communicate verbally but rather in writing/email would be interpreted by her as ammo to suggest we cannot...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-10-2020, 10:19 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 523
Posted By LovingDad1234
Double Standards in Parenting

Hi All,

It is sad how divorce brings out the worst in people where people show their true colours,. where we would have never married these people in the first place. I know that in acrimonious...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-06-2020, 04:31 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 273
Posted By LovingDad1234
Support Payments on Moonlighting jobs?

Hypothetical question: If one were to "roll up their sleeves" and burn the candle by moonlighting at McDonald's to help dig themselves out of the hole that their ex left them in (ie: pay legal bills...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-01-2020, 02:50 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 173
Posted By LovingDad1234
Is there a way to get this thread transferred to...

Is there a way to get this thread transferred to the Financial Issues section?
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-01-2020, 02:01 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 422
Posted By LovingDad1234
I would suggest not to do this. Not for simple...

I would suggest not to do this. Not for simple overnights in the routine parenting time/schedule.

It will only cause confusion and/or stress where D3.5 is asking where the other parent is, and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-30-2020, 10:43 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 398
Posted By LovingDad1234
Yes, lawyers read each and every email, even the...

Yes, lawyers read each and every email, even the one-liners. They read the email, think about it in the context of your case, and then after analysis will respond accordingly. To save money, is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-29-2020, 01:46 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 398
Posted By LovingDad1234
Also, its not up to your lawyer for results and...

Also, its not up to your lawyer for results and outcome. Your lawyer can help guide parties to settlement, or represent you in court, where the judge is the decision-maker. Its not that if you pay...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-29-2020, 11:34 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 398
Posted By LovingDad1234
I think the issue Abba is indicating is that...

I think the issue Abba is indicating is that having a lawyer, and paying top dollar, guarantees nothing. You are paying for their legal mind to be involved in your matter. You are paying to put...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-29-2020, 10:29 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,411
Posted By LovingDad1234
Part of the complexity of this forum is that...

Part of the complexity of this forum is that everyone only gets exposed to a small window of someone's matter/issues. Nobody knows eachother's full story or the breadth of their issues and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-29-2020, 09:57 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 398
Posted By LovingDad1234
There is value to having a lawyer if you are new...

There is value to having a lawyer if you are new to the hellhole that is family court. I took a crack at writing my court materials and my lawyer significantly improved their content as well as my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-29-2020, 08:45 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 398
Posted By LovingDad1234
I am far from an expert on the subject, however...

I am far from an expert on the subject, however it would seem reasonable for a lawyer to pick up each file on a monthly basis, do a brief review to refresh themselves on its status, determine if they...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-28-2020, 01:32 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 224
Posted By LovingDad1234
Lawyers juggle anywhere from 10-50 files at a...

Lawyers juggle anywhere from 10-50 files at a time. You may want an "update" but meanwhile your lawyer might be feverishly prepping for a trial or motion. I noted that my lawyer would "spring" into...
Forum: Political Issues 04-27-2020, 01:17 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 465
Posted By LovingDad1234
Lawyer charged Costs

Wasn’t quite sure which thread it was in, but there was discussion where lawyers ethics was debated— for ill-advising their clients to not settle a reasonable offer, suggesting they go for the moon,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-26-2020, 09:00 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 253
Posted By LovingDad1234
Once joint custody has already been established,...

Once joint custody has already been established, the chances of reverting to sole custody are extremely thin. I mean extremely. Unless your ex cut communication with you and is not making...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-26-2020, 08:29 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,411
Posted By LovingDad1234
Sorry to hear you are having difficulties with...

Sorry to hear you are having difficulties with ex. You may wish to consider only using Our Family Wizard. There is a nominal cost but the program includes a tone meter to correct negative...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-25-2020, 10:14 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,411
Posted By LovingDad1234
I fail to understand the difference between email...

I fail to understand the difference between email and written letter.

My situation is acrimonious as well, and my ex refuses to respond via written form as she is aware she is acting like a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-25-2020, 01:30 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,411
Posted By LovingDad1234
I’d say you were doing all the right things, and...

I’d say you were doing all the right things, and it’s clear other parent wants to pretend you don’t exist.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-24-2020, 03:15 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 260
Posted By LovingDad1234
Why is your ex asking you to sign into financial...

Why is your ex asking you to sign into financial terms for HIS new house? You are done with him. No more ties or links. Tell him to ask his parents or a friend, not you.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-24-2020, 03:03 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,511
Posted By LovingDad1234
It would be hard to not send a reply to lawyer...

It would be hard to not send a reply to lawyer telling said lawyer to advise client to stop being an idiot. I sincerely hope all those who have acted like idiots get a 'mark' against them. If ever...
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