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Forum: Financial Issues 12-20-2013, 02:53 PM
Replies: 23
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Posted By Ames
Thanks for all of the suggestions, I just found...

Thanks for all of the suggestions, I just found photos of us just moved into our new apartment dated November 4 2001. So that mystery is solved. :)
Forum: Financial Issues 12-20-2013, 02:48 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,744
Posted By Ames
Thanks for the tips! We didn't own a vehicle...

Thanks for the tips! We didn't own a vehicle back then, and our utilities were included in our rent. I did have benefits with my employer, but I have no idea how I would track that down as the...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-20-2013, 02:43 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,744
Posted By Ames
Actually, I don't have my returns that far back...

Actually, I don't have my returns that far back anymore. I shredded them. I only have back seven years, I think. This is what I get for watching too much Hoarders and then purging stuff like crazy.
Forum: Financial Issues 12-20-2013, 02:34 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,744
Posted By Ames
Oh great idea. I will check my old returns. It...

Oh great idea. I will check my old returns. It would have been earlier than September, now that I'm thinking about it.

We separated on November 13 2007 and I started staying with my parents, but...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-20-2013, 01:47 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,744
Posted By Ames
Ok, I found the online application to fill out. ...

Ok, I found the online application to fill out. I'm working on it right now, but I don't have exact dates that it is asking for (the date that we began living together, for example - I want to say...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-20-2013, 12:56 PM
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Posted By Ames
ETA I think I found it. Is this where I should...

ETA I think I found it. Is this where I should be looking?

Family Law Rules Forms — Ontario Court Services (http://www.ontariocourtforms.on.ca/english/family)
Forum: Financial Issues 12-20-2013, 12:54 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,744
Posted By Ames
Thank you Mess! I have been reading about the...

Thank you Mess! I have been reading about the process and, yes, the agreement that we previously had was never notarized or anything. I don't think it is applicable anymore anyway.

I have email...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-20-2013, 11:47 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,744
Posted By Ames
No, I don't know how much. It was a huge ordeal...

No, I don't know how much. It was a huge ordeal to get him to disclose his income before when we did up our separation agreement. I don't think he made a lot, but I am not sure.
Forum: Financial Issues 12-20-2013, 11:18 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,744
Posted By Ames
Ok. I feel so anxious about all of this. He...

Ok.

I feel so anxious about all of this. He will be furious.
Forum: Financial Issues 12-20-2013, 10:52 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,744
Posted By Ames
Do I give him a head's up that I am going to...

Do I give him a head's up that I am going to pursue this legally, or do I just do it?
Forum: Financial Issues 12-20-2013, 10:51 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,744
Posted By Ames
Yes, I came here in 2010 initially. After...

Yes, I came here in 2010 initially. After joining, he moved local to us and got a job, and he began parenting 50/50. In June of this year, he moved 8 hours away and bought a house with his...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-20-2013, 10:19 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,744
Posted By Ames
CS from the under or unemployed?

Can someone give me insight into the benefits of pursuing CS through legal channels if the parent in consideration is unemployed?

For perspective, he is employable (fully able-bodied with 2...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-03-2013, 11:19 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,646
Posted By Ames
My boys have Nexus cards. It was a non-issue for...

My boys have Nexus cards. It was a non-issue for us, but my ex came with me to the interview to get their cards.
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-15-2012, 03:51 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 4,039
Posted By Ames
Just wanted to post an update on my situation. ...

Just wanted to post an update on my situation.

In early 2011, ex and his gf decided to move back to our home town after all. I enthusiastically encouraged a move towards us instead, but they...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-05-2011, 12:04 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,232
Posted By Ames
Thank you Bill, that is what I wanted to work...

Thank you Bill, that is what I wanted to work towards.

I told him I'd be willing to talk about relocating only when he was sure where he wanted to live (they are not planning on staying in the...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-05-2011, 12:02 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,232
Posted By Ames
I guess I feel a little frustrated; despite the...

I guess I feel a little frustrated; despite the fact that he isn't working (or works very little), that doesn't change how much it does cost to raise the kids. So if he is just looking for a way to...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-05-2011, 10:07 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,232
Posted By Ames
50/50 is what we originally had (week on/week...

50/50 is what we originally had (week on/week off) when we first split up. Then he moved, then I moved, and all along I would have liked to have returned to that 50/50 arrangement, but it only made...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-04-2011, 09:02 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,232
Posted By Ames
Ex just emailed me saying that he looked at our...

Ex just emailed me saying that he looked at our schedule and he has the boys 32% of the time and he wants to re-adjust the schedule we made up so that he gets them 146 days of the year (40%). Our...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-28-2011, 09:01 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,232
Posted By Ames
One more question - sorry. As far sharing...

One more question - sorry.

As far sharing our our NOAs, my ex wants to base the section 7 expenses off of my household income and off of just his income (not his household income). His...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-27-2011, 10:13 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,232
Posted By Ames
Thanks NBDad. That sounds reasonable to me.

Thanks NBDad. That sounds reasonable to me.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-27-2011, 10:07 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,232
Posted By Ames
Heck no, this whole process is such an awful...

Heck no, this whole process is such an awful experience. I don't want any conflict at all, and that's why I have avoided CS discussion as much as possible. It has come up because my husband has...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-27-2011, 09:54 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,232
Posted By Ames
They don't for $6,200, but they would for the...

They don't for $6,200, but they would for the other amounts.

I hate everything about this process so far. Imputing income involves going to court, and I genuinely don't want to have to do that....
Forum: Financial Issues 09-27-2011, 09:45 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,232
Posted By Ames
My ex has said that his last three years income...

My ex has said that his last three years income are:

2010- $6,200.
2009-$15,175.
2008- $14,134.

Does this constitute inconsistent earnings? Man, CS is a pain in my butt so far!

He has...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-27-2011, 09:29 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,232
Posted By Ames
Calculating Child Support

Sorry that I am asking so many questions right now. I won't have an opportunity to get to a family law office until at least next week, and I am feeling overwhelmed by how much I really do not know....
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-27-2011, 08:58 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 9,114
Posted By Ames
Here is another stupid question. Is child...

Here is another stupid question. Is child support based only on the previous year's income, or on an average of the last three years?

If it is based on only his income, and only for last year, he...
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