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Forum: Financial Issues 06-29-2020, 11:17 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 118
Posted By Stillbreathing
My ex applied for half of my CPP credits but we...

My ex applied for half of my CPP credits but we were separated eight times during our marriage and he is not entitled to the credits I earned during our various separation periods. He has to his...
Forum: General Chat 06-25-2020, 10:46 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 301
Posted By Stillbreathing
Your partner can request occupation rent. Whether...

Your partner can request occupation rent. Whether or not he gets it is another story. Why did his ex get exclusive possession of the matrimonial home? Was he charged with domestic violence? Judges do...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-08-2020, 11:08 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 188
Posted By Stillbreathing
I don’t think it’s really a question that they...

I don’t think it’s really a question that they “expire“ but rather the family situation changes over time which necessitates the report needing to be updated if the matter drags on without...
Forum: Divorce Support 06-05-2020, 10:54 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,537
Posted By Stillbreathing
If your wife is as violent and unpredictable as...

If your wife is as violent and unpredictable as you describe and indeed has a mental illness which is not being adequately treated, I hope your children are not living with the two of you. It’s one...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-04-2020, 10:46 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,220
Posted By Stillbreathing
In my experience mediation is more expensive than...

In my experience mediation is more expensive than court. You have to pay for the mediator as well as the lawyers whereas with court the judge is free. Mediation without arbitration is not logical if...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-02-2020, 06:06 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,220
Posted By Stillbreathing
Send them an offer to settle stating you will pay...

Send them an offer to settle stating you will pay for your 1/3 share of post secondary costs for the child to attend school in Ontario or Canada. Do not go to mediation! Total waste of money. Wait...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-02-2020, 12:01 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 309
Posted By Stillbreathing
Depending on the charge, criminal court judges...

Depending on the charge, criminal court judges can make orders relating to child access. My ex was charged with several counts of assaulting his children and the criminal court judge made a no access...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-29-2020, 10:53 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 282
Posted By Stillbreathing
Thank you Kinso. My accountant requested my...

Thank you Kinso. My accountant requested my family lawyer amend their letter to only include the legal fees for child support. They have accepted letters in the past indicating both. I will pass the...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-29-2020, 10:38 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 282
Posted By Stillbreathing
My accountant said only legal fees to secure...

My accountant said only legal fees to secure child support are tax deductible not legal fees to secure spousal support.
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-13-2020, 01:30 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 379
Posted By Stillbreathing
It sounds like you are doing the right thing....

It sounds like you are doing the right thing. Only respond to the child related issues in the email and ignore the rest. Defending yourself is the reaction she is looking for and will only give her...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 10:54 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 819
Posted By Stillbreathing
Abba435 First and foremost, you can not...

Abba435

First and foremost, you can not change or control your ex or what they do or do not do on their parenting time. Save yourself a lot of stress and don’t even bother trying. Concentrate on...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-10-2020, 02:04 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 666
Posted By Stillbreathing
A child psychologist told me to use the following...

A child psychologist told me to use the following line with my teen when they were being obnoxious and it should work with your ex too. Simply say
“Thank you for sharing that”. If they say something...
Forum: General Chat 04-27-2020, 06:02 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 640
Posted By Stillbreathing
Toronto star article

Today there was a brief article in the star about a Texas mom who shot and killed her two children and her mother after losing custody of her children. The father discovered the tragedy after he...
Forum: General Chat 04-24-2020, 12:19 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 469
Posted By Stillbreathing
Instead of civilians substitute “individuals who...

Instead of civilians substitute “individuals who have no specialized education or training in domestic violence or community risk assessment” or lay people.
Forum: General Chat 04-24-2020, 10:53 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 469
Posted By Stillbreathing
Sorry Janus. I’m on my phone so I can’t hyperlink...

Sorry Janus. I’m on my phone so I can’t hyperlink the article. Apparently a teen complained about another teen who had posted online that they fantasized about shooting people. When the police...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-24-2020, 08:21 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 320
Posted By Stillbreathing
If your ex defaults on the bridge mortgage for...

If your ex defaults on the bridge mortgage for any reason, the bank will come after you for the money.
Forum: General Chat 04-23-2020, 06:08 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 469
Posted By Stillbreathing
Another article written by a forensic...

Another article written by a forensic psychiatrist suggested that the important thing is to identify risk factors as opposed to motivation with these shooters. He went further to say that research...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-23-2020, 01:08 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 210
Posted By Stillbreathing
I wasn’t aware that FRO had the legal ability to...

I wasn’t aware that FRO had the legal ability to adjust child support payments without a court order.
Forum: General Chat 04-22-2020, 11:43 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 469
Posted By Stillbreathing
Nova Scotia murderer

Some interesting articles have emerged about the shooter. The first people he killed was his ex wife and her new partner. He has already met a few criteria from the domestic violence lethality scale:...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-22-2020, 10:46 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,571
Posted By Stillbreathing
Don’t get your hopes up for costs. I have been...

Don’t get your hopes up for costs. I have been involved in protracted litigation for 81/2 years with an unreasonable ex who’s full time hobby is disregarding court orders. Not once at the dozens of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2020, 04:27 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 486
Posted By Stillbreathing
Your lawyer’s advice was sound. Just so you know,...

Your lawyer’s advice was sound. Just so you know, the police will not act to force an exchange without an order and even with a police Enforcement order they will not always enforce it, so don’t...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2020, 10:24 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 486
Posted By Stillbreathing
She will not be found in contempt for not...

She will not be found in contempt for not exercising her access rights.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-20-2020, 01:11 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 486
Posted By Stillbreathing
If you have an existing court order that is what...

If you have an existing court order that is what needs to be followed. If you have proof that your ex is not following current Covid-19 protocol and social distancing you may have grounds for an...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-19-2020, 05:11 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 254
Posted By Stillbreathing
Activities with kids during Covid

Wondering what everyone is doing with their kids at this time. We are going for daily dog walks, bike rides and are all Netflixed out. What is everyone else doing with the kids to pass the time?
Forum: Domestic Violence 04-16-2020, 02:21 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,023
Posted By Stillbreathing
To involve the CAS or not. Interesting question....

To involve the CAS or not. Interesting question. You do need to think things through as the other posters have suggested. It depends on the circumstances and the likely immediate consequences of...
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