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Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 09:08 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 229
Posted By DHTO
Wow, it sounds like your ex is in a world of...

Wow, it sounds like your ex is in a world of financial pain. Honestly, it sounds like trying to collect anything except for liquid assets is going to be more trouble than it's worth. The whole...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-24-2022, 08:45 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 98
Posted By DHTO
New Job - do I need to put separated spouse as a dependent?

I'm switching jobs soon and want to know the ramifications about not including my separated spouse as a dependent on the health and dental benefits.

I know that once we legally divorce she's off,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-20-2022, 09:24 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 307
Posted By DHTO
I would take still frame screenshots for once or...

I would take still frame screenshots for once or twice a day for 14 consecutive days. Submit that for 2 months would clearly show more than EOW.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2021, 01:07 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 167
Posted By DHTO
My understanding is this section is used to show...

My understanding is this section is used to show that spousal support is either needed or unaffordable depending on whether you are the payor or receiver.

Consequently, if you are claiming that...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-17-2021, 11:11 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,125
Posted By DHTO
If you are an accountant why do you accept...

If you are an accountant why do you accept Divorcemate for your calculations? I can see why the layperson would just go with the flow, but to calculate the proper amount isn't that difficult using...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-10-2021, 11:52 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 773
Posted By DHTO
Whoa! False charges = go to trial do not pass go,...

Whoa! False charges = go to trial do not pass go, do not collect $200. How can you possibly expect to have a productive mediation session with someone who swore a criminal complaint against you that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-07-2021, 10:10 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 315
Posted By DHTO
He is one of the last kids in his class to get a...

He is one of the last kids in his class to get a phone. He can text with his friends and arrange get-togethers.

Plus it would help solve the persistent issue of my ex's phone mysteriously being on...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-07-2021, 08:18 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 315
Posted By DHTO
Cell Phone for 9 yr old

Hi all,

More drama on the front lines.

I want to get my S9 a cell phone for Christmas. My ex is not happy, and is bringing up issues like excessive use, inappropriate sites, isolation and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-02-2021, 05:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 415
Posted By DHTO
Rebuttal to Ex's refusing 50:50

Hi everyone,

Right now I have my kids EOW, but fighting for 50:50. My ex feels that it is not in the kids interest to see me 50:50, but is ok with EOW. No court order, no formal agreement, just...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-27-2021, 07:30 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 860
Posted By DHTO
Urgent motions would be mobility cases, cases...

Urgent motions would be mobility cases, cases where access is unilaterally cut off, and cases involving violence.

Unfortunately being pushed into the poor house is not considered urgent.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-26-2021, 10:36 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 860
Posted By DHTO
Exactly my situation. I filed my...

Exactly my situation.

I filed my application (Toronto) in early August, and my case conference is first week of January. No motions except urgent one before the CC.

I'm guessing at least 2...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-21-2021, 10:25 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 390
Posted By DHTO
A bottle is 26 ounces, and a typical glass is 5...

A bottle is 26 ounces, and a typical glass is 5 ounces. Are you thinking of one of those big 9 ounce balloon glasses?

Maybe I'm a commoner but I see most wines in the 10.95-13.95 range? I'm not...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-20-2021, 10:53 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 390
Posted By DHTO
My ex put down $150 per month at the LCBO. At...

My ex put down $150 per month at the LCBO. At $10-15 per bottle of wine, thats 3 glasses of wine a day EVERY day.

Hmmm...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-10-2021, 09:16 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 435
Posted By DHTO
Thanks - I will do that. It's shocking how...

Thanks - I will do that.

It's shocking how much of a tax credit ex will get. First off, the amount (up to $5K per child) gets taken off taxable income...so 20% right there. Then the Ontario CARES...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-10-2021, 06:41 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 435
Posted By DHTO
Tax benefit goes to the parent with the lower...

Tax benefit goes to the parent with the lower income. However, the funny anecdote is that with the Ontario Child Care Subsidy, it actually benefits me more to have her claim the credit (credit is...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-10-2021, 03:24 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 435
Posted By DHTO
S7 Expenses folded into Monthly CS?

Hello,

My ex wants to estimate the annual S7 expenses and average that into the monthly payment. I.e. if CS is 1,000 per month with my share being 1,200 of annual S7 expenses, she wants me to pay...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-03-2021, 09:26 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 342
Posted By DHTO
I think that might be the case too...but OP's...

I think that might be the case too...but OP's first post said that they should have been paying 85/15.

Offset means that based on their respective incomes for child support assume the support...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-03-2021, 04:50 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 342
Posted By DHTO
There is no negotiation. At 85/15 you will need...

There is no negotiation. At 85/15 you will need to pay full table amount for that child for as long as it was at 85/15. Multiply the number of months by the difference between offset and full table...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-30-2021, 02:13 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 586
Posted By DHTO
This is 99% incorrect. Look up the Partition Act...

This is 99% incorrect. Look up the Partition Act of Ontario. The only time that the court will not enforce the sale of the home is if it can be shown that the applicant is vexatious or acting in bad...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-29-2021, 08:50 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 614
Posted By DHTO
I'm going through the same situation, except in...

I'm going through the same situation, except in reverse. My ex is refusing to move out (and refusing to pay occupation rent). No mortgage, so I'm paying rent and she's living expense free. Ex is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2021, 10:47 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 539
Posted By DHTO
No hearings, no endorsements...nothing. ...

No hearings, no endorsements...nothing.

Status quo is that I am getting 3/14 nights. Ex won't consent to any change.

I would like to know if there is a process to get things changed before a...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-10-2021, 11:32 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 509
Posted By DHTO
Unlimited high speed internet isn't more than $50...

Unlimited high speed internet isn't more than $50 per month in most cities...is she really going after you for that?

I would agree with Rockscan, internet (like all utilities) should be covered by...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2021, 11:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 539
Posted By DHTO
Question Increasing parenting time before my case goes to court

Hi all,

I was hoping you could provide some insight into how I could go about increasing my parenting time with my kids (9 and 8).

Refresher into my situation:

Separated Oct 2019, but lived...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2021, 07:29 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,334
Posted By DHTO
Thanks everyone, this makes it crystal clear. I...

Thanks everyone, this makes it crystal clear. I appreciate you explaining the reasoning to me.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-08-2021, 11:24 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,334
Posted By DHTO
I don't want to be argumentative, but section 7...

I don't want to be argumentative, but section 7 (1) states:

In a child support order the court may, on either spouse’s request, provide for an amount to cover all or any portion of the following...
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