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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-02-2014, 02:46 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,089
Posted By mememe
If your money was commingled but not used to buy...

If your money was commingled but not used to buy anything, then the inheritor can exclude 50percent of the value, the spouse splits their half with you, your half of the half is excluded and the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-21-2014, 08:32 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,247
Posted By mememe
congrats congrats congrats I agree that if...

congrats congrats congrats

I agree that if you don't dwell on the past but enjoy your new freedom you will be HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY

Mine was 5 years.... it is all done...except...if you can...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-13-2014, 04:44 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 891
Posted By mememe
I believe, but others can verify, the following: ...

I believe, but others can verify, the following:

you have an actuarial evaluation of the value of the pension for the length of the marriage and it becomes part of the equalization calculations.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-09-2014, 10:55 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 2,652
Posted By mememe
There is a spousal support calculator and you can...

There is a spousal support calculator and you can punch in the numbers and see if it makes any difference.

MySupportCalculator.ca (http://www.mysupportcalculator.ca)

The spousal support is a...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-18-2014, 09:53 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,920
Posted By mememe
I believe "thefunone" has a government pension...

I believe "thefunone" has a government pension plan. Mine was a teacher's pension plan.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-18-2014, 08:26 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,920
Posted By mememe
Your spouse only gets to split the value of the...

Your spouse only gets to split the value of the pension during marriage. That is what the actuary will give you.

In this way you are not splitting anything accrued prior and post marriage.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-18-2014, 08:23 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,920
Posted By mememe
I am finishing up the divorce....just waiting for...

I am finishing up the divorce....just waiting for final divorce papers. I had my pension evaluated twice---once before the changes to the pension laws and once after-----don't ask---

My most...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2014, 10:32 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,745
Posted By mememe
My experience was the same as annapurna...

My experience was the same as annapurna 66-----court reporter, etc......when the lawyer asked the same question at different times throughout the questioning and his answers changed.....useful. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-17-2014, 10:23 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,920
Posted By mememe
I hope the following will help regarding the...

I hope the following will help regarding the valuation of the pension.

I had my pension evaluated and the value of the pension for the years we were married were calculated and subsequently...
Forum: Divorce Support 05-30-2014, 10:01 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 5,899
Posted By mememe
I disagree with Tayken in that having a good...

I disagree with Tayken in that having a good lawyer will minimize the problems inherent with the family court system. Your lawyer can be good, above board and work towards settlement. If, however,...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-05-2014, 09:25 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,907
Posted By mememe
when you had to submit your income tax forms to...

when you had to submit your income tax forms to your ex, your SIN is on it......correct????
Forum: Financial Issues 05-05-2014, 03:35 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,097
Posted By mememe
Ok so I kept thinking it had to be the...

Ok so I kept thinking it had to be the evaluations by my jeweller that he had on file. I then went to a 'money lending" place....you give them jewellery etc., they lend you money...... He was...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-04-2014, 10:04 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,097
Posted By mememe
Did your husband buy lots of jewellery for...

Did your husband buy lots of jewellery for himself? I drove myself crazy trying to get what the value of my jewellery was (you don't want the valuations from the jeweller--it is what others have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-01-2014, 11:57 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,169
Posted By mememe
Good news, the forms have been sent re: direction...

Good news, the forms have been sent re: direction for release of funds and hopefully will be sent to the real estate lawyer. The ex will do the divorce part and we did the separation agreement (10...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-01-2014, 10:56 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,169
Posted By mememe
Tx. I am going to have to phone and get that...

Tx. I am going to have to phone and get that done and sign the papers
I hate calling. I , as everyone else, am very tired of their bills.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-30-2014, 06:44 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,169
Posted By mememe
Thanks for the info. I am assuming the...

Thanks for the info. I am assuming the separation agreement that my lawyer sent me is essentially that. It says that he and I can't go after any other's assets dead or alive after this is signed. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-30-2014, 03:05 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,169
Posted By mememe
Oh oh oh. I am just happy. Not happy happy. We...

Oh oh oh. I am just happy. Not happy happy. We have been separated 5 years. My lawyer did the separation agreement. He had served me with divorce papers so maybe his lawyer agreed to file for the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-29-2014, 11:08 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,169
Posted By mememe
Separation Agreement vs Divorce....

Court order for divorce done. But:

a. my lawyer said he had to complete something that would take an hour, and whatever ex's lawyer has to do will take longer. After a month, I have finally...
Forum: Introductions 04-16-2014, 01:26 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 9,145
Posted By mememe
To me it sounds like you are done and trying to...

To me it sounds like you are done and trying to stay in the relationship for the wrong reasons. You are unhappy and not helping yourself, your wife or your child. It sounds like you are trying but...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-08-2014, 02:43 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,164
Posted By mememe
I had the exact same problem. We kept pushing...

I had the exact same problem. We kept pushing forward---to my expense not his. I still believe if you do the right thing, i.e. demonstrate all the ways you tried to avoid court, tried to collaborate,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-07-2014, 11:18 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 5,252
Posted By mememe
My friend is in a situation with an ex who has...

My friend is in a situation with an ex who has claimed bankruptcy and hidden assets. How will your ex pay you money if they are bankrupt. My friend's husband still belongs to his golf club etc....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-07-2014, 11:13 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,662
Posted By mememe
What happens if you don't go to trial? Why should...

What happens if you don't go to trial? Why should you pay now???? I paid my lawyer a retainer as we went to pretrial. I expected to go to trial....and by some miracle of events---we settled at...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-02-2014, 10:09 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,893
Posted By mememe
Thank you. Your last line...... is another...

Thank you.
Your last line...... is another one of my lessons learned in both settlement and in pre-trial. Again, this is my personal insight on my limited experience. I felt there was the...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-01-2014, 05:16 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,893
Posted By mememe
Hello Everyone, I continue to be happy happy...

Hello Everyone,

I continue to be happy happy happy. I just can't stop saying that word. I am free and in control of my own money and my own life and all is good. Looking forward to my new life....
Forum: Financial Issues 03-29-2014, 04:03 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,893
Posted By mememe
hello EVeryone, I read my last post---well, I...

hello EVeryone,
I read my last post---well, I must have had too much wine last night---

Some insights from my experience at court yesterday:

My lawyer said that it was my work on one of the...
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