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Forum: Parenting Issues 04-30-2020, 06:17 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 432
Posted By Selfrepmom
I donít. I think when we first separated I would...

I donít. I think when we first separated I would call on the second night usually, but I havenít done that in ages.
For reference, she is with her dad EOW for 2 nights and is 5 going on 6.

I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-24-2020, 08:15 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 263
Posted By Selfrepmom
Material Change

Out of curiosity: What constitutes a material change in order to justify a final order change from joint to sole custody? Anybody here have experience with this?
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-23-2020, 07:34 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 352
Posted By Selfrepmom
There is no rule that says you canít hire a...

There is no rule that says you canít hire a babysitter to come to your home/send your child to a babysitterís home right now. It might be a little more difficult to find one, yes, but you are still...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-09-2020, 07:55 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,278
Posted By Selfrepmom
While maybe not a full on scam, he definitely...

While maybe not a full on scam, he definitely threw the idea of forum members donating to his cause out there
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-09-2020, 07:45 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 359
Posted By Selfrepmom
This guy has shown his cards. Heís not going to...

This guy has shown his cards. Heís not going to start coming around again to see his kid unfortunately. Time to leave those dreams in the past.
If I were you I would:
1) Drop all contact with the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-18-2020, 03:43 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 191
Posted By Selfrepmom
Do they do driverís license and passport at the...

Do they do driverís license and passport at the same time? I think the passport might be a bigger motivator for my ex and his semi-annual all inclusive vacations
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-18-2020, 10:12 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 191
Posted By Selfrepmom
Talk of Summary Judgement/Pleadings Being Struck

For those that have been following:

I had a second SC last week as per the judgeís endorsement from my October motion, to deal with ongoing support and arrears (for those that donít recall, the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2020, 11:58 AM
Replies: 56
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Views: 2,681
Posted By Selfrepmom
Ummmm.... sorry to burst your bubble on this one...

Ummmm.... sorry to burst your bubble on this one but cheerleading is about as close to dance and gymnastics as you can possibly get. Actually, itís basically a direct combination of the both. That...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2020, 08:44 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 481
Posted By Selfrepmom
Is she trying to argue that he makes more than he...

Is she trying to argue that he makes more than he actually does, or just that she is entitled to certain costs that sheís actually not?

If sheís just arguing for certain costs that he doesnít have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2020, 06:21 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 981
Posted By Selfrepmom
Although probably best practice to keep your...

Although probably best practice to keep your emotions in check moving forward and only communicate respectfully with your ex via email from now on. This will get worse before it gets better
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2020, 06:17 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 981
Posted By Selfrepmom
To be honest, from my experience judges donít...

To be honest, from my experience judges donít even give shit like that a second glance in conference briefs.

The judge is going to be looking at what your main issues are that need to be settled...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2020, 02:56 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 790
Posted By Selfrepmom
My offers to settle I usually just type up in a...

My offers to settle I usually just type up in a word doc. Ie:

Offer to Settle
Date

Other Partyís Name
Other Partyís Address

This offer to settle is made by the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2020, 02:41 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 790
Posted By Selfrepmom
Thatís because your settlement conference brief...

Thatís because your settlement conference brief doesnít form part of the continuing record. Therefore any offer made with it will never see the contí rec either
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-04-2020, 10:07 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 246
Posted By Selfrepmom
Although in theory this is true, not so much in...

Although in theory this is true, not so much in practice.
My partnerís ex has sole custody and he has regular parenting time. His daughter is in an after school program during his pick up times on...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-06-2019, 11:47 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 606
Posted By Selfrepmom
Yes they are supervised the entire time. Hence...

Yes they are supervised the entire time. Hence the ďsupervised access centreĒ. What Iím saying is that staff supervises the child before and after as well so you donít have to see your ex during...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-06-2019, 08:13 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 606
Posted By Selfrepmom
Depends on the area how long the wait can be. The...

Depends on the area how long the wait can be. The one in our area charges $10/visit I believe. They also have a drop off/pick up policy where the child is always dropped off before the person coming...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-26-2019, 12:28 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 345
Posted By Selfrepmom
TMC or SC?

Hey all!

I booked a TMC date back in July, and it is coming up soon. However, at my motion back in October where the judge ruled in my favour, he wrote in the order that he was reserving his...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-23-2019, 05:58 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 705
Posted By Selfrepmom
I might be wrong, but I think youíre digging too...

I might be wrong, but I think youíre digging too deeply into this.

Her claim is just what you say it is: Ridiculous. If we all spent our time trying to find case law to disprove our exís...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-23-2019, 05:46 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 695
Posted By Selfrepmom
The main source of my luck seemed to be from the...

The main source of my luck seemed to be from the one duty counsel who I think convinced the judge to hear my matter. Might have helped that I went to high school with her brother too. Either way,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-23-2019, 05:43 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 695
Posted By Selfrepmom
1)Child support based on an imputed income of...

1)Child support based on an imputed income of $40,000
2) Section 7ís based on an imputed income of $40,000 (I worded the order though so it is the same dollar figure he owes every month, collectible...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-04-2019, 12:07 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,859
Posted By Selfrepmom
If you feel threatened Then call the police....

If you feel threatened Then call the police. Family court wonít do anything about him showing up at the house.
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-04-2019, 11:39 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,859
Posted By Selfrepmom
A) Why are visits supervised? Iím assuming you...

A) Why are visits supervised? Iím assuming you have CAS and police reports which document abuse by your ex against your child?

B) Assuming you have the above mentioned documents, then the fact...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-30-2019, 05:12 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,157
Posted By Selfrepmom
This thread got me thinking (sorry I will try to...

This thread got me thinking (sorry I will try to hijack this as little as possible)

When our daughter was born my exís father and stepmom opened an RESP for her. I vaguely remember filling out...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-29-2019, 12:08 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 814
Posted By Selfrepmom
Give him 2 options: 1) 50/50 joint...

Give him 2 options:

1) 50/50 joint custody/access with offset support going to whoever makes less (with a schedule that actually makes sense- either week about or 2/2/5 whatever)

Or

2) EOW...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2019, 11:55 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 804
Posted By Selfrepmom
Hereís the breakdown ...

Hereís the breakdown

https://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/showthread.php?t=22801
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