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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2015, 04:07 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,126
Posted By momofonegreatboy
The agreement I put forth has us alternating...

The agreement I put forth has us alternating every holiday every year. I proposed same for Christmas and he came back with something that had too many transitions.

For the most part, he has...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2015, 02:26 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,126
Posted By momofonegreatboy
My son is nine yrs old. I know you're...

My son is nine yrs old. I know you're thinking...he's almost past the age of Halloween but he also has a younger step sister and we're expecting in two months. We are big on Halloween and his dad...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2015, 01:14 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,126
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Self Rep: Case Conference

Hello everyone!

I am scheduled to attend a CC at the end of NOV. I'm a bit lost however, I do not have the funds to retain a lawyer for this (and I make too much for legal aid). God knows, I've...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-31-2015, 10:40 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,074
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Criminal Conviction question..help!

I'm working on Form 35.1: Affidavit in Support of Claim for Custody and Access. There is a section asking if there is anyone in the household who's ever had a criminal record.

My common law...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-17-2015, 12:11 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,834
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Good point. As we don't have it written out, our...

Good point. As we don't have it written out, our understanding is that the exchange takes place after school. Its always been a grey area as school ends at 3:45pm so we've had some debate around that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-17-2015, 11:53 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,834
Posted By momofonegreatboy
X had been trying very hard to convince me that I...

X had been trying very hard to convince me that I was not a dedicated parent as my plans for the long weekend involved us visiting extended family and son missing 1 playoff game. Son was excited...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-17-2015, 10:44 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,834
Posted By momofonegreatboy
I'm a bit unclear with Arabian's comment that...

I'm a bit unclear with Arabian's comment that what I did was 'unilateral'. I don't feel I changed the access as son was dropped off at school and I was the one to pick him up as of 3:45pm (we've had...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-17-2015, 10:25 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,834
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Thank you

Thanks everyone. Despite my friends and family's advice that I was falling into X's trap, I did go to the school on Friday to pick up my son. An hour later, I did receive a phone call from X stating...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-12-2015, 07:38 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,834
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Thank you. I thought this was just another...

Thank you. I thought this was just another bullying tactic. X claims I need to notify him first to get his approval should I take son out of school on his time. Is this correct? Our son is done...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-12-2015, 07:20 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,834
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Help! He claims to have called school so I don't take him out of school tomorrow

We don't have a written agreement. Status quo for two years now/shared custody with week on week off. I am to get my son as of 3:45pm tomorrow for my week Friday to Friday. We are planning on driving...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-11-2015, 02:35 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,832
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Thanks. We don't have an aggreement on paper. By...

Thanks. We don't have an aggreement on paper. By going through our lawyers two years ago, they set the special expenses based on our salaries (ex almost doubles my salary) and since then ex has been...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-11-2015, 12:24 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,832
Posted By momofonegreatboy
competitive sports and special expenses

Hi!
Anyone out there with kids in competitive sports? My ex is stating that he will not pay his s.7 share of team fees as it does not fall under special expenses. He will only agree to paying 50%....
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-22-2015, 03:22 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 3,729
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Thank you Beachnana. I appreciate this a lot. ...

Thank you Beachnana. I appreciate this a lot.


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Forum: Parenting Issues 01-22-2015, 02:30 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 3,729
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Thanks. My lawyer (no longer retained) has sent...

Thanks. My lawyer (no longer retained) has sent numerous letters. One indicating to communicate via log book or via his fianc. The communication log book I wrote in and sent with son never returned....
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-22-2015, 02:20 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 3,729
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Thanks you HammerDad. Can you advise on "other...

Thanks you HammerDad. Can you advise on "other ways to solve this"?


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Forum: Parenting Issues 01-22-2015, 01:31 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 3,729
Posted By momofonegreatboy
i.e Dad wants to change our son's school to be...

i.e Dad wants to change our son's school to be closer to his home. Dad has challenged psychological testing for our son, recommended by school. Dad will overrule eye specialist I've booked to only...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-22-2015, 12:57 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 3,729
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Dad unilaterally changed to the 50/50 access two...

Dad unilaterally changed to the 50/50 access two years ago and I didn't fight back as he is a good dad. My concerns were that dad moved in with gf of a few mths, prego with twins and I was requesting...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-22-2015, 12:31 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 3,729
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Sole Custody with 50/50 access?

Hello,

I am self representing and having to educate myself on all aspects of the law (with some legal consultations). One of the questions that came up was can you ask for sole custody without...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-27-2014, 07:37 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 5,088
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Tonight I received an email from my lawyer. She...

Tonight I received an email from my lawyer. She basically fwd me my ex's email to her concerning a pair of prescription glasses he found for our son (I took son to eye doctor and submitted...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-24-2014, 11:46 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 786
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Revenue Quebec

Hello,

I left my relationship in the province of QC in late November 2010. In that year, The government gave X and I a child care allowance every 3mths which was deposited in our JOINT account. We...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-23-2014, 11:36 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 5,088
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Thank you. I will take your advice. My gut also...

Thank you. I will take your advice. My gut also told me the same.


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Forum: Parenting Issues 11-23-2014, 11:17 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 5,088
Posted By momofonegreatboy
I wish I had a back up plan. He has shot down...

I wish I had a back up plan. He has shot down mediation, a four way settlement mgt (when he had a lawyer), a communication log book, and lastly me sending communication emails concerning our son to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-23-2014, 11:06 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 5,088
Posted By momofonegreatboy
Thanks. My lawyer has informed me numerous times...

Thanks. My lawyer has informed me numerous times that she has a legal obligation to respond to him. I'm assuming due to her code of conduct and that he doesn't have a lawyer?

It certainly is...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-23-2014, 10:44 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,448
Posted By momofonegreatboy
No- I would have consulted with my lawyer first...

No- I would have consulted with my lawyer first of which she would have informed me that special exp. and carrying charges are not to be included in line 150 therefore I would have paid the amount...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-23-2014, 09:17 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,448
Posted By momofonegreatboy
At the time he challenged it, he did have a...

At the time he challenged it, he did have a lawyer. His lawyer never responded to my lawyer's calculations and before we knew it- the ex let his lawyer go.


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