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Forum: Financial Issues 10-31-2013, 01:49 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 3,150
Posted By Working Woman
Purchasing property w/o separaation agreement

I want to purchase a house, in order to separate. I do not yet have a separation agreement. Matrimonial home is mortgage free, on the market and not selling. I have got a pre approved mortgage based...
Forum: Divorce Support 10-23-2013, 05:58 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,533
Posted By Working Woman
Family law in a box?

I am going to a "free" divorce information session hosted by Family Law in a Box which seems to be a website peddling access to information.
Does anybody know anything about them? Have any...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-18-2013, 07:20 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,816
Posted By Working Woman
Daughter 19. Custody no issue. She wants to live...

Daughter 19. Custody no issue. She wants to live with me.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-18-2013, 06:21 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,457
Posted By Working Woman
I understand and agree it is good advice to ask...

I understand and agree it is good advice to ask for and explanation as to entitlement. Has anyone been successful at not having to provide SS when there is a significant disparity in income? Is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-18-2013, 06:18 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,131
Posted By Working Woman
Case Law denial of entitlement of SS

Does anybody know of any cases where entitlement to spousal support was denied? Although SSAG says that disparity of income does not automatically imply SS is warranted, it sure seems to be the norm...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-18-2013, 06:12 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,816
Posted By Working Woman
Leaving Matrimonial Home Question

Matrimonial home is in one spouses name.
If spouse who is not named as owner of the house moves out, is he/she at risk of losing entitlement to half of the matrimonial home?

I read that leaving...
Forum: Introductions 10-18-2013, 06:08 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 4,894
Posted By Working Woman
Apology accepted, Thanks.

Apology accepted, Thanks.
Forum: Introductions 10-16-2013, 07:21 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 4,894
Posted By Working Woman
I think you have misunderstood my sentiments...

I think you have misunderstood my sentiments entirely. Try rereading for comprehension. I would far rather have my in laws alive. Frankly we might not be separating if we had had their good...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-15-2013, 10:22 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,457
Posted By Working Woman
H was main bread winner for about first 5 of 25...

H was main bread winner for about first 5 of 25 years. It was stressful for him but not long hours. Then we were about even for 15 years. Last 5 years I have been the main breadwinner due to his...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-15-2013, 09:04 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,457
Posted By Working Woman
Determining income for possible Spousal Support

How do we define income for the purposes of determining possible SS calculations? Both our incomes have varied over recent years.

This year mine is much higher and will continue at that rate but...
Forum: Introductions 10-15-2013, 08:40 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 4,894
Posted By Working Woman
Thanks for the case law references and the quotes...

Thanks for the case law references and the quotes from SSAG which point exactly to the exasperating ambiguity surrounding entitlement. It all seems like a recipe for employing lawyers. I will wait...
Forum: Introductions 10-15-2013, 08:44 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 4,894
Posted By Working Woman
Thank you for your cogent reply and candid...

Thank you for your cogent reply and candid warnings !! Very well put.
I did write a cranky note with provocative and highly speculative language and I really appreciate you pointing out how...
Forum: Introductions 10-15-2013, 08:32 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 4,894
Posted By Working Woman
Interesting Stripes that you should say this. I...

Interesting Stripes that you should say this. I think people who lose close family early in life and inherit money as a result are profoundly changed by it all. They can and often do acquire an...
Forum: Introductions 10-15-2013, 08:10 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 4,894
Posted By Working Woman
H asked/demanded SS and claims entitlement is due...

H asked/demanded SS and claims entitlement is due current disparity in income, which from my reading MAY be enough to justify it. I have taken advice from a response to my other question about...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2013, 08:05 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,842
Posted By Working Woman
Thank you all for the warm welcome and the candid...

Thank you all for the warm welcome and the candid talk.
I am already finding this place to be a productive coping strategy.
Forum: Introductions 10-14-2013, 05:59 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 4,894
Posted By Working Woman
both are true burn out and inheritance coincided...

both are true burn out and inheritance coincided and created need and opportunity for career change.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-14-2013, 05:54 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,842
Posted By Working Woman
Thank you for the reply. I am trying to educate...

Thank you for the reply. I am trying to educate myself online etc. before consulting a lawyer in earnest with some well formulated questions. Reading and posting is useful to find out what I need to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-14-2013, 04:39 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,842
Posted By Working Woman
Do any lawyers respond to posts

I am new to this forum both using it and viewing it only in the last 24 hours.
Do lawyers respond to these posts at all? Or am I reading the opinions of experienced and informed lay people and the...
Forum: Introductions 10-14-2013, 04:34 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 4,894
Posted By Working Woman
We both acknowledge the home asset is shared....

We both acknowledge the home asset is shared. Thank God or I would be far worse off. Other inheritance fund is invested and was able to be tracked.
Forum: Introductions 10-14-2013, 04:32 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 4,894
Posted By Working Woman
Additional details. I am 55. He is 57. Married 25...

Additional details. I am 55. He is 57. Married 25 years. So rule of 65 applies. He started out making big bucks in IT. Burned out and took lower paying job in charitable/political sector 12 years...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2013, 04:21 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,512
Posted By Working Woman
Wow what a variety of responses! The rule of 65...

Wow what a variety of responses! The rule of 65 certainly applies here. Married 25 years, he is 57 I am 55. I make 100K this year, less in past. He started his career in IT making big numbers...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2013, 10:58 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,512
Posted By Working Woman
Custodial Payor- 19 year old daughter

When we finally sell the house and move on, our daughter will live with me and attend school part time, work part time. I will likely have to give my exH spousal support despite his net worth being...
Forum: Introductions 10-14-2013, 10:28 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 4,894
Posted By Working Woman
Seeking moral support and advice

Hello- Unlike others, I have not been lurking long. Just diving in and hoping to find information and moral support through this struggle.

Married 25 years ago. One daughter 19. Asked for...
Forum: Divorce Support 10-14-2013, 09:19 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 6,039
Posted By Working Woman
I have similar anguish. Similar inexplicable...

I have similar anguish. Similar inexplicable sexual rejections and withdrawals.
Try the book and website. "How to get past your breakup" to deal with the emotional issues from which you are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-14-2013, 09:13 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 3,801
Posted By Working Woman
The law changes over time

I was married 25 years ago. Laws have changed over time, especially with respect to Spousal Support. My brilliant and capable H recieved multiple inheritances over the course of our marriage,...
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