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Forum: Financial Issues 06-06-2019, 06:49 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 334
Posted By momof2teenboys
Janus is correct that the amount of spousal...

Janus is correct that the amount of spousal support changes when you add/remove child support.

Based on that, and the fact that

1 - banks include both CS and SS when calculating income for...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-23-2019, 11:06 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 497
Posted By momof2teenboys
Yes - we're definitely talking through different...

Yes - we're definitely talking through different scenerios with the numbers. I'll start a new thread for opinions so I don't highjack this one.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-23-2019, 10:52 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 497
Posted By momof2teenboys
How about scholarships? Are they considered the...

How about scholarships? Are they considered the child's contribution? (my thinking is yes as they are earned by the child but who knows...)

Youngest is working out his options and he has been...
Forum: Divorce Support 04-17-2019, 10:39 AM
Replies: 59
Views: 7,142
Posted By momof2teenboys
I totally feel for you. I've been dealing with...

I totally feel for you. I've been dealing with post-secondary issues with my ex for the past 3 years. And now the youngest will be starting university in the fall. I'll have to send him an email once...
Forum: Divorce Support 04-17-2019, 10:13 AM
Replies: 59
Views: 7,142
Posted By momof2teenboys
I think an appropriate response would be - ...

I think an appropriate response would be -

"Yes I agree with your request regarding xxx. For anything additional please provide costs, expected deadlines, accommodations, programs of study etc as...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-03-2019, 10:57 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 591
Posted By momof2teenboys
Our agreement has percentages for S7. "The...

Our agreement has percentages for S7.

"The following expenses (and a list of approved expenses) will be paid in proportion to income of the parents with p1 paying xx% and p2 paying xx%. p1 will...
Forum: General Chat 04-01-2019, 04:38 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 452
Posted By momof2teenboys
In regards to ex's gf - I've been told that she's...

In regards to ex's gf - I've been told that she's very jealous of any time or attention ex gives to his kids. Either she is a part of that time or all hell breaks loose. She sent horrible bashing...
Forum: General Chat 04-01-2019, 01:04 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 452
Posted By momof2teenboys
This! Personally I think each parent should be...

This! Personally I think each parent should be required to take a "parenting after divorce" class and have follow-up and ongoing support from a trained professional.

In my case - which I rarely...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-12-2019, 12:00 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 167
Posted By momof2teenboys
I've never heard of a "limit" on adjournments. ...

I've never heard of a "limit" on adjournments.



I was finally in court at the end of last summer - for a motion I filed in early 2016 to have ex comply to an order on consent from sept 2015....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-12-2019, 11:35 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 920
Posted By momof2teenboys
Maybe others can chime in regarding this -...

Maybe others can chime in regarding this - supervised access is something I know little about. So take my opinion with a grain of salt...


I think you need to communicate with her that you've...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-12-2019, 11:07 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 920
Posted By momof2teenboys
What is the role of the "supervisor" regarding...

What is the role of the "supervisor" regarding his access? What has she said regarding his behaviour during your drop-offs?
Forum: Financial Issues 02-09-2019, 07:17 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 346
Posted By momof2teenboys
CRA can be a pain and choosing to pay S7 expenses...

CRA can be a pain and choosing to pay S7 expenses through FRO can really mess things up. FRO will collect S7 expenses even if the $$ amount is not itemized in your court order - so long as you have...
Forum: Political Issues 10-17-2018, 12:36 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,189
Posted By momof2teenboys
Stbx has been self-rep off and on over the past...

Stbx has been self-rep off and on over the past few years (four different lawyers so far and none seem to stick around).

The last time we were before a judge was for a long-motion. We had...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-13-2018, 11:21 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 458
Posted By momof2teenboys
Mystery solved! He has filed documents with the...

Mystery solved! He has filed documents with the court - time will tell if a divorce order is sent out. How long before I can expect it done?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-10-2018, 02:09 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 458
Posted By momof2teenboys
:rolleyes: Definitely not - I usually ignore...

:rolleyes: Definitely not - I usually ignore anything and everything he does - this one had me curious.




This is what I wondered. It was my understanding that at this point one of us would be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-09-2018, 08:29 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 458
Posted By momof2teenboys
I don't think so. He said that ex "announced" on...

I don't think so. He said that ex "announced" on social media that the paperwork was final and he was officially divorced. This was about two weeks ago.

I haven't been served anything. Could he...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-09-2018, 10:33 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 458
Posted By momof2teenboys
Divorced without receiving Order? Affidavit?

Hi all,

This is an odd question - Is it possible for someone to finish the process and get legally divorced without notifying the other party?

I've been dealing with this process for over 4...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-04-2018, 07:48 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,512
Posted By momof2teenboys
So your child is on his own in the morning and...

So your child is on his own in the morning and will be responsible to get ready on time, lock the house, and get to the bus on time? Do you have a backup for the mornings he sleeps late or is just...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-04-2018, 06:47 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 500
Posted By momof2teenboys
Why don't you just ask her for a copy of the...

Why don't you just ask her for a copy of the registration package and the details? If this is something you would have agreed with before then you could consider paying your share. If this is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-22-2018, 09:12 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 2,970
Posted By momof2teenboys
Or "stakeholders"

Or "stakeholders"
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-30-2018, 11:29 AM
Replies: 65
Views: 3,640
Posted By momof2teenboys
So you wouldn't be using it in court - the...

So you wouldn't be using it in court - the intention is a way for your son to put everything in writing but through a consultant's report. Do you think his dad will "listen" to this? Sorry - just...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-30-2018, 10:23 AM
Replies: 65
Views: 3,640
Posted By momof2teenboys
Did either of you get a court order or have the...

Did either of you get a court order or have the consultant interview the other parent? Does it make a difference either way when you bring the VoC report back to court? Who chose the consultant?
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-27-2018, 10:32 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,882
Posted By momof2teenboys
And a payor with CS arrears still has a right to...

And a payor with CS arrears still has a right to parenting time with their child. It works both ways - failure of one (time or payment) does not determine the other (time or payment).

While the OP...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-26-2018, 10:31 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,882
Posted By momof2teenboys
Both suggested. Both turned down. stbx was not...

Both suggested. Both turned down. stbx was not willing to change the schedule as any rearrangement would interfere with his "personal time".



DS tried similar last summer. Couldn't book...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-26-2018, 07:20 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,882
Posted By momof2teenboys
Youngest son is now 16 - last summer he had a...

Youngest son is now 16 - last summer he had a part-time job that he didn't exactly love - but loved having some money and more freedom and responsibility. His dad (EOW) pressured him into quitting...
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