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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 03:30 PM
Replies: 14
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Posted By tunnelight
Yup. Controlling your reaction also puts you in...

Yup. Controlling your reaction also puts you in control. Soon as you react, you've given power to the other person and are ultimately being manipulated, which in turn causes anxiety and can effect...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 02:31 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 139
Posted By tunnelight
You can ask for, and the courts will likely order...

You can ask for, and the courts will likely order a hair fosile drug test- it will show 6 months history. If it comes back clean you're pooch.

It's not clear from your posts if all access is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 11:25 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 242
Posted By tunnelight
I agree with you, somewhat. I have seen orders...

I agree with you, somewhat. I have seen orders where child support was waved on consent and met with difficult hurdles to overturn later on. For example, if I was making more than ex and we agreed...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 10:33 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 242
Posted By tunnelight
I think these 2 clauses are the leeway to what...

I think these 2 clauses are the leeway to what you are suggesting. though my getting a new job would automatically be a material change to child support in any event.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 10:15 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 242
Posted By tunnelight
Ex doesn't see it as right of the child and was...

Ex doesn't see it as right of the child and was using it to finance a $20,000 Mercedes Benz while earning minimum wage. It has never been, or will ever be anything other than me "paying me ex". It...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:52 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 242
Posted By tunnelight
no child support due to shared parenting clause

I have the clause no child support payable by either party due to shared parenting in my final order. it doesn't mention anything about incomes and table amounts.

there is a clause every year we...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 06:26 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 757
Posted By tunnelight
I don't see this as you getting defensive. Not...

I don't see this as you getting defensive. Not even close. You're opening up and being honest about the situation. Honesty goes a long way with the judges.

If you refused to answer such simple...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 05:50 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 757
Posted By tunnelight
does the school have after care? you can...

does the school have after care?

you can offer him 3 options for access.
430 PM from daycare , which is grandma.
5.15 PM, which is your home,
or straight from school.

offer him one more...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 04:36 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 757
Posted By tunnelight
The judge has already opined adjustments must be...

The judge has already opined adjustments must be made to access and OCL recommended access to be increased. There has been a material change in circumstances justifying a change in his time with the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 03:07 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 757
Posted By tunnelight
As I understand it, the issues between the...

As I understand it, the issues between the children and their father is a recent development.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 02:58 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 757
Posted By tunnelight
There's definitely more than just hockey...

There's definitely more than just hockey depending on availability.
S chool teacher meetings - does he attend those and keep in contact with the teachers?

I know he's made an offer for joint...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 01:50 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 757
Posted By tunnelight
Point is, the relationship between the father and...

Point is, the relationship between the father and children has detoriated and the issue needs to be addressed.

OP has stated dad doesn't allow kids to go up to mom during extraordinary events on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 01:37 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 757
Posted By tunnelight
Is therapy been recommended for the children? is...

Is therapy been recommended for the children? is it re integration therapy? Or is it personal counselling that is saying it's all dads fault and he needs to have counselling to deal with his...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 12:40 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 757
Posted By tunnelight
material change seems to be the break down of the...

material change seems to be the break down of the relationship between him and his kids.

is he alleging that you're influencing the children against him?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 10:10 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 757
Posted By tunnelight
what's dads position on him not emotionally...

what's dads position on him not emotionally supporting the child?

why is he seeking 50.50 ?

why did the courts request OCL?

the OCL needs to have a reason why access is to be increased
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 01:43 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,059
Posted By tunnelight
Your response should look something like this: ...

Your response should look something like this:

I am the applicant and have such have knowneldge of the matters hererine after deposed.

The respondent and I were married on X date. We separated...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 12:43 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,059
Posted By tunnelight
:( search Google reviews and lawyer ratings...

:(

search Google reviews and lawyer ratings to find lawyers with good feedback from the community.

ask around the community. customers, etc.

search canlii to see what sort of cases the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2019, 01:02 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 181
Posted By tunnelight
OCL is good for identifying alienation. see...

OCL is good for identifying alienation. see video here how to best represent your case to assessor. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LgPZKGFZmCc

I wouldn't demand the child call you. it will just...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2019, 12:34 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 757
Posted By tunnelight
what's the reason the OCL is recommending the...

what's the reason the OCL is recommending the access be increased?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2019, 12:29 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 757
Posted By tunnelight
For me, It wasn't a question of whether or not...

For me, It wasn't a question of whether or not the CAS records should be excluded, but rather the question of how much of the records could the assessor have integrated into her report. For example,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2019, 11:18 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 757
Posted By tunnelight
what is the material change in circumstances the...

what is the material change in circumstances the OCL is relying on to change the status quo?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2019, 10:44 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 757
Posted By tunnelight
I suspect the OCL report is in your favour. ...

I suspect the OCL report is in your favour.

I had similar issues with OCL.

Imbalance time of interviews between parties.
Interview with members from moms side of family but not from my side...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-14-2019, 11:35 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,126
Posted By tunnelight
what principal you guys meeting with? your...

what principal you guys meeting with? your school of choice, moms school of choice, or current school?

what do you mean couldn't see you guys? you and your ex went and he said no? did you send an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-12-2019, 10:53 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 255
Posted By tunnelight
Any custody evaluator could do that.

Any custody evaluator could do that.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-12-2019, 10:38 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 625
Posted By tunnelight
The OCL is clearly not on your side. Best get on...

The OCL is clearly not on your side. Best get on their good side.

I was never a big fan of my OCL lady either, but best cooperate and present the best you can. I would let child speak to social...
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