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Forum: Financial Issues 06-14-2012, 07:12 PM
Replies: 4
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Fantastic Moolight thanks. There's only a...

Fantastic Moolight thanks. There's only a difference of about 6k for best five yrs and 3 yrs in terms of service, I just wanted to make sure the extra 900 bucks would be worth spending.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-14-2012, 02:36 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 932
Have done, She of course wants the pension as a...

Have done, She of course wants the pension as a parting gift. I would prefer not. 117k vs 60K . Just found it strange that her Provincial Pension could be worth so little
Forum: Financial Issues 06-14-2012, 12:39 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 932
Pension Adjustment.

Hi All

My X works for the provincial Gov't here in Ontario. I work for our Federal one. As it stands she has valued my pension (Maximum Transfereable Amount) at effectively twice the value of...
Forum: General Chat 06-12-2012, 05:58 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,118
One of the problems is the very broad, and lets...

One of the problems is the very broad, and lets face it open definition of abuse. Arguably even a fight between a couple can be defined as abuse. Unfortunately it's difficult to discern the real...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-11-2012, 05:10 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,158
Thanks Mess, yes my schedule was such that I was...

Thanks Mess, yes my schedule was such that I was away for a month and home for a month. When home, I dropped off and picked up the kids at daycare / school, as well as extracurricular activities.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-11-2012, 09:53 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,158
When does "Status Quo" start?

I left the X and the MH in Nov or 2011 (yes I know leaving the house was the worst thing I could have done), to date she has played gatekeeper and will only allow me to see our two kids on other...
Forum: Political Issues 06-09-2012, 09:16 AM
Replies: 123
Views: 105,882
I went through the case conference just this past...

I went through the case conference just this past week, thinking that aside from wild/ inaccurate not to mention false allegations of violence and abuse , any sane person would grant 50/50. alas...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-09-2012, 09:04 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,267
I suppose that I should actually ask a question...

I suppose that I should actually ask a question if I expect any kind of advice, apologies, what weight should I attest to the "opinion" of the Judge?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-08-2012, 01:48 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,267
Completely crushed.

History:
I left my X at the end of last year, my career forced me to be away for a month away and a month home. Post separation, she wasn't interested in shared custody at all and played gatekeeper...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2012, 04:46 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 5,060
Or perhaps I left so that the children would not...

Or perhaps I left so that the children would not have to see it. To tell me that staying in the house is better for the kids is I'm sorry ridiculous. There's no way in which the children are not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2012, 01:49 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 5,060
I walked out because staying would have been...

I walked out because staying would have been worse for all involved. Now she has responded to my request that she reevaluate her position regarding spring break. She obviously won't (shocking really)...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2012, 01:14 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 5,060
I've given the X till Thursday to reevaluate her...

I've given the X till Thursday to reevaluate her position, failing that keeping them for the time is a viable option. I'm with Clean in terms of long term gain.
I will also get more involved with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2012, 01:07 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 5,060
I left the home, I felt it was better for the...

I left the home, I felt it was better for the kids not to be witness to the stupidity.

I assure you I am getting organized and asking questions, I was going to say i wasn't bitching but in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2012, 11:05 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 5,060
Yes of course I want advice, please. As far as...

Yes of course I want advice, please. As far as being a member of the "He-man woman haters club" I'm not. I'm just angry, very, at how this seems to be working out for me. So yes please advice and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2012, 10:44 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 5,060
Hahahaha, yeah that's exactly what she'd like...

Hahahaha, yeah that's exactly what she'd like slughead10, ain't gonna happen. I will spend every penny I have / don't have to ensure it doesn't.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2012, 10:41 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 5,060
yes they do (stay out of adult matters) and...

yes they do (stay out of adult matters) and obviously involving them is the last thing I want. She on the other hand has no moral qualms about it, even going so far as to inform the Lawyer that the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2012, 10:38 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 5,060
You're absolutely right limer, and I said that to...

You're absolutely right limer, and I said that to my Lawyer. I'm not sure what my argument becomes then, I'd imagine this is obviously not the first time a delaying tactic has been used, anyone have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2012, 10:34 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 5,060
I've just written her another email offering her...

I've just written her another email offering her the chance to reconsider her position on access and 50/50. As well as spring break next week. Should she hold true to her position then it will be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2012, 09:34 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 5,060
So what's my next, I've already (through lawyer...

So what's my next, I've already (through lawyer 1) said that I want the kids for their spring break (next week). The answer was an emphatic NO. I'm between Lawyers right now, I have a call in but no...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2012, 09:20 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 5,060
If nothing has been signed then how would I fall...

If nothing has been signed then how would I fall foul of 283?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2012, 09:14 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 5,060
The kids are 9 and 5. Yes I HAD a Lawyer, I'm in...

The kids are 9 and 5. Yes I HAD a Lawyer, I'm in the midst of hiring a new one.(don't ask). Yes she's got one as well helped along by daddies deep pockets. As for court no, however given the way...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-05-2012, 11:09 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 5,060
Yes of course it is. The last thing I want is to...

Yes of course it is. The last thing I want is to use the kids as pawns.

But what I'm afraid of is that if I play fair (something she's not doing,) then it will be almost impossible to change the...
Forum: Divorce Support 03-05-2012, 10:44 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,687
Rioe, I believe her argument will lie...

Rioe,

I believe her argument will lie somewhere along the lines of this is the home the kids are used to, and I left ergo tacit loss of marital home and parental rights.

I did look it up,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-05-2012, 08:38 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 5,060
Just a question or two...

If no agreement has been signed regarding visitation, is there anything preventing me from picking up my kids and keeping them, she's playing gatekeeper and only allowing me very limited times?
Yes...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-05-2012, 08:17 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,581
Baffled, I thought i was reading a post that I...

Baffled,
I thought i was reading a post that I had just written myself, The only thing I can say is this is the worst thing I have ever experienced in my life.
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