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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 01:08 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 677
Posted By Brampton33
Fair enough. For me I think what is more...

Fair enough. For me I think what is more frustrating is the game-playing and using the kids as pawns in the game. Don't mess with their heads. I know for a fact my ex never says my last name when...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 11:56 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 677
Posted By Brampton33
My last name is shorter and earlier in the...

My last name is shorter and earlier in the alphabet so applying the same logic would mean using my last name only if that logic were to be applied.

However, unlike Iona, my ex is extremely...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 09:52 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 677
Posted By Brampton33
Glad I found this thread....as I think this issue...

Glad I found this thread....as I think this issue applies to my situation. I had to fight in court to get my last name referenced in our children's legal names, so now it is a hyphenated last name. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-24-2021, 02:24 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 417
Posted By Brampton33
Likely what transpired is that you told YOUR side...

Likely what transpired is that you told YOUR side of the story and the two lawyers said what they said. Then they checked up your name and got the WHOLE story, and dropped you for the reasons they...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-24-2021, 01:51 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 417
Posted By Brampton33
This sentence alone leads me to believe Rockscan...

This sentence alone leads me to believe Rockscan (and I) are likely not far off in our suspicions of why you are backlisted.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-24-2021, 01:34 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 417
Posted By Brampton33
Being blacklisted by lawyers means that you are...

Being blacklisted by lawyers means that you are on a list amongst the legal community of persons not to deal with. Its either you were unreasonable, difficult, argumentative, didn't pay, didn't...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-24-2021, 10:51 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 199
Posted By Brampton33
Sick Days

My ex and I have bitter feelings towards one another. Lets say the breakup has been sour. And now its a constant one-upping one another.

I suspect my ex fakes "sick days" so that she can spend...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-23-2021, 10:21 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 155
Posted By Brampton33
Don't mean to sound crude, but at times I wish...

Don't mean to sound crude, but at times I wish meddling grandparents would take a backseat. Love your grandkids, but let the parents parent.
Forum: Reference 09-22-2021, 11:27 AM
Replies: 63
Views: 21,871
Posted By Brampton33
My ex is claiming that because her parents opened...

My ex is claiming that because her parents opened the fund, SHE could use it as her contributions.

It would seem to me that the most appropriate option would be to consider the fund belonging to...
Forum: Reference 09-22-2021, 10:46 AM
Replies: 63
Views: 21,871
Posted By Brampton33
If its 1/3, 1/3 and 1/3, that means child, mother...

If its 1/3, 1/3 and 1/3, that means child, mother and father each pay 1/3.
What happens if child's grandparent set up an RESP. Does that belong to the child or can my ex claim that her extended...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-17-2021, 08:17 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 265
Posted By Brampton33
Welcome to my world! I bought 3 umbrellas...

Welcome to my world!

I bought 3 umbrellas last year, as ex hoards them. 2 separate raincoats. Mitts. You name it. The clothes is getting ridiculous. I buy lots of nice clothes for the kids at...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-17-2021, 12:21 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,248
Posted By Brampton33
The thread topic is "transitioning child between...

The thread topic is "transitioning child between 2 homes". My question was how to address pettiness being played by ex as part of transitioning between 2 homes. Completely on topic with original...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-17-2021, 08:44 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 464
Posted By Brampton33
Letters are a waste of time and more importantly,...

Letters are a waste of time and more importantly, money. I WISH I had known that before entering my separation, as I would meet with lawyer, work with them to craft a nice firm letter, for it to...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-16-2021, 02:04 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 464
Posted By Brampton33
Try a different therapist. Cost of trial...

Try a different therapist.

Cost of trial depends on # of days and cost of lawyer. For every 1 hour in court there is 2 hours of prep time associated with it. Not to mention all of the court...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2021, 02:01 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 180
Posted By Brampton33
OK, I'll bite. Is that a question or statement? ...

OK, I'll bite. Is that a question or statement? What exactly are you asking of this forum?
Forum: Financial Issues 09-16-2021, 10:15 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 464
Posted By Brampton33
I would argue that even at 13 the parenting...

I would argue that even at 13 the parenting schedule should be maintained. At Age 15/16 is when I would suggest things can let go where kid is fairly autonomous.

At Age 13, your child should...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-15-2021, 10:59 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,248
Posted By Brampton33
This thread got side-tracked by criticism rather...

This thread got side-tracked by criticism rather than helpfulness. Any advice on how to deal with the above-noted pettiness (when exchanges done through school) would be appreciated.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-15-2021, 09:08 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 897
Posted By Brampton33
Not sure what the hubbub is all about. There at...

Not sure what the hubbub is all about. There at tons of decisions on Canlii dealing with retroactive payment, and they all look the same. Each decision has a chart that looks like this:

Year ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-14-2021, 07:55 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,248
Posted By Brampton33
The same way mentioned Parenting 101 to Iona, one...

The same way mentioned Parenting 101 to Iona, one may say you would benefit from Humour 101 or Sarcasm 101. One must be able to not be so rigid in order to recognize jokes/humour when its presented...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2021, 07:48 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 281
Posted By Brampton33
The rule of thumb in court is to enter with clean...

The rule of thumb in court is to enter with clean hands. Be the level-headed one. If mud is thrown, don't throw mud back. If your ex takes things into their own hands, don't retaliate or...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2021, 04:16 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 560
Posted By Brampton33
Cleanslate: The nice part of this forum is to...

Cleanslate: The nice part of this forum is to ask questions on situations from people who have experienced your situation and can either relate or provide advice based on their own experiences. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-13-2021, 03:24 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,248
Posted By Brampton33
I agree that my personal level of comfort has...

I agree that my personal level of comfort has gone through the roof when our parenting time transitioned so that all pickups/dropoffs are done at school. I don't have to worry about the tension of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2021, 11:24 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 897
Posted By Brampton33
For me, at stake was time with my kids, and I...

For me, at stake was time with my kids, and I felt that was too great a risk to not be represented legally or to skimp out.

Moreover, I have friends who work in the court system. I have been...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2021, 10:41 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 897
Posted By Brampton33
Your lawyer has an obligation to fully serve you...

Your lawyer has an obligation to fully serve you when you hire them. That means you are paying them to give you their best advice and represent your interest. His/her job is to review and analyze...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2021, 10:58 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 560
Posted By Brampton33
You'd be hard pressed to find case law as the...

You'd be hard pressed to find case law as the issue is pretty cut and dry, and never makes it to trial. If your ex says she needs before/after school care (for whatever reason) it will be granted. ...
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