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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2012, 11:36 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,359
Posted By janedoe99
judeprude: Are you serious? $20,000 without a...

judeprude: Are you serious? $20,000 without a case conference. Ouch!
I thought mine was bad.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2012, 11:35 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,359
Posted By janedoe99
arabian--In my case...it was spent on making an...

arabian--In my case...it was spent on making an application..but then the day I was going in to sign it...I got served. So basically they had to redo everything as a response. 4 meetings, e-mails, a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2012, 09:01 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,359
Posted By janedoe99
Haven`t even gotten to the first case conference...

Haven`t even gotten to the first case conference and I have spent over $7000. In 4 months
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2012, 04:15 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,754
Posted By janedoe99
the child is 11 months old. He has...

the child is 11 months old.

He has recently told me that he doesn't actually want shared custody because it interferes with him being able to work nights at the restaurant. He says he has to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2012, 04:03 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,754
Posted By janedoe99
Well..I am the respondent. My ex has supervised...

Well..I am the respondent. My ex has supervised visits (not by court order) but by admitted drug problem and an alcohol problem that he doesn't admit. In the last couple months he claims to have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2012, 03:23 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,754
Posted By janedoe99
What temporary orders have been made at case confrerence?

Just wondering what everyone's experience was at their first and second case conference. Did they make any huge changes in access? (temporary orders?).
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-07-2012, 11:34 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,090
Posted By janedoe99
do you think I could ask for that or do you think...

do you think I could ask for that or do you think a judge would say I am being too picky? Random tests would be best.
But I've heard it's basically impossible to get testing unless there are police...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-07-2012, 11:32 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,090
Posted By janedoe99
Yes that is exactly what I would hope for. He has...

Yes that is exactly what I would hope for. He has done or possibly done a few tests in the last month with his Dr. and I don't think that it's enough time to prove sobreity. It could be that he's...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-07-2012, 10:53 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 869
Posted By janedoe99
his lawyer was given it on the 23rd of April by...

his lawyer was given it on the 23rd of April by courier. His lawyer made an appointment with him to read it on Friday the 27th. He told me that his lawyer had him sign the response on Friday the 4th...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-07-2012, 10:37 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 869
Posted By janedoe99
Ok so it says 10 days after being served with an...

Ok so it says 10 days after being served with an answer. My lawyer sent it to his lawyer but then the ex didn't read it until 4 days after the lawyer recieved it. So I am thinking it means when the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-07-2012, 10:25 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,090
Posted By janedoe99
Thanks FamilyBlah..you are right. I guess I am...

Thanks FamilyBlah..you are right. I guess I am just getting conflicting advice from the ex, my lawyer, the laws, psychologists etc. I'm trying to work on an offer or access schedule that is going to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-07-2012, 10:05 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,090
Posted By janedoe99
Time share schedule

ok so my ex has not done up a legal offer but he has called me to tell me what he wants. He says if I don't do it that way that he will go through his lawyer to get week on week off. I don't think...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-07-2012, 09:54 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 869
Posted By janedoe99
time to file response?

My ex served me and I had 30 days to respond. I responded within the 30 days. He now has the chance to respond to my response and the court gives 10 days. Is it ten business days? Or just 10 days? Is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-11-2012, 08:57 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,097
Posted By janedoe99
I don't really have much advice for you except I...

I don't really have much advice for you except I personally would not contact the ex about it. I did something similar and wished I hadn't. I would definitely talk to your lawyer.

This may be a...
Forum: Divorce Support 04-11-2012, 01:57 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 9,908
Posted By janedoe99
I feel both guilt and regret. I broke up with my...

I feel both guilt and regret. I broke up with my ex because he didn't care about anything but himself. He was just a lump on the couch basically with his drinking buddies and smoking pot.
It was...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-10-2012, 10:45 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 3,410
Posted By janedoe99
When I got an RESP, I asked the banker if my mom...

When I got an RESP, I asked the banker if my mom could set up one also. She said no. She said only one will get the contributions from the government and whichever was set up first would be the one.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-10-2012, 10:21 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 3,164
Posted By janedoe99
Hey, I really wish you luck. When it comes...

Hey, I really wish you luck.

When it comes to people (judges) having discretion in decision making..there will always be a bias of some sort. Yes, there are laws and case law..but judges are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-03-2012, 03:03 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,102
Posted By janedoe99
that definitely sounds like a great idea. Plus...

that definitely sounds like a great idea. Plus honestly it gives him time to adjust to being a full time parent. I just want to ease into it to make sure everyone is ready. Losing patience was what...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-03-2012, 02:30 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,102
Posted By janedoe99
Thank you for your reply. 1 day per year? Like...

Thank you for your reply.
1 day per year? Like one day a week?

Also will the courts allow it to progress to 5050 or will they take a child and put them right into a 5050 arrangment?

The ex...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-03-2012, 12:47 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,102
Posted By janedoe99
canlii access

Ok so I was searching Canlii as someone mentioned to do on here regarding access. I am trying to find what is usually ordered for access of a baby. I typed in access baby and access toddler. I was...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-02-2012, 05:17 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,207
Posted By janedoe99
My past doesn't have a criminal record but my ex...

My past doesn't have a criminal record but my ex from 5 years ago smashed my car in a police chase while I was at work.

Can the lawyers get access to these court documents and my past bfs...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-02-2012, 11:25 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,207
Posted By janedoe99
NBDad, Are you serious? Wow..I cannot believe...

NBDad,
Are you serious? Wow..I cannot believe that. I am glad you did something about it. What is wrong with some people!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-02-2012, 09:18 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,207
Posted By janedoe99
thanks everyone for making me feel better. He has...

thanks everyone for making me feel better. He has also written stuff about a distant family member that lives 300kms away that is in rehab. Trying to make my family look bad..but everyone else in my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2012, 08:43 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,207
Posted By janedoe99
very true about the not giving him a heads up. I...

very true about the not giving him a heads up. I just guess I am in denial that it will ever go before a judge. I keep hoping we can resolve things but I really think I am mistaken. He really can't...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2012, 08:02 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,207
Posted By janedoe99
that is what I am hoping. I just think he is...

that is what I am hoping. I just think he is trying to show that I am not perfect. Nobody is though..everyone has something or another in their past. I haven't brought up his past..I am only...
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