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Forum: Political Issues 04-23-2020, 05:27 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 573
Posted By rvalentines
Don't jump into assumptions. Never had a...

Don't jump into assumptions.

Never had a criminal record. I was given a plea deal and I did not take it.

She made more money than me and had her own bank account with more savings than me. I...
Forum: Political Issues 04-22-2020, 07:01 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 573
Posted By rvalentines
Right. That's what I'm counting on but...

Right.

That's what I'm counting on but that's still a good 8-9 months away ASSUMING it doesn't get delayed due to COVID-19. I'm missing out on my children's best years.

I now understand why...
Forum: Political Issues 04-22-2020, 04:28 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,100
Posted By rvalentines
Yes - I admit I made stupid decisions. And yes I...

Yes - I admit I made stupid decisions. And yes I admit I went against the advice of this community and my OWN lawyer who predicted this would happen. I dismissed it as "fear-mongering".

But it...
Forum: Political Issues 04-22-2020, 04:17 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 573
Posted By rvalentines
Exactly. I feel people who have actually...

Exactly.

I feel people who have actually experienced it first hand can sympathize.

I remember I used to judge dad's who were divorced and were denied access to their kids. I used to think to...
Forum: Political Issues 04-18-2020, 09:38 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 573
Posted By rvalentines
Dear Abba, Just to remind you - Criminal...

Dear Abba,

Just to remind you - Criminal courts are highly leveraged to gain an advantage in Family Courts.

Countless men are put through the system by their partners through false allegations...
Forum: Political Issues 04-18-2020, 12:09 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,100
Posted By rvalentines
All - thank you for the great feedback and many...

All - thank you for the great feedback and many notes.

I have taken your feedback and incorporated it, specifically, removing the child support portion and a few other changes.

I have sent the...
Forum: Political Issues 04-18-2020, 10:00 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 573
Posted By rvalentines
False Rape (Sexual Assault) allegations

This post is by no means anyway to diminish domestic violence victims.

It is solely to highlight Canadian CanLii cases where False Rape Allegations have been used in custody disputes.

Even if...
Forum: Political Issues 04-10-2020, 10:31 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,100
Posted By rvalentines
Sending letters to MP to fix Family Law! Please provide feedback

Please provide helpful feedback. I tried keeping my points small. I know there are a million other helpful ideas. Thanks

Dear Michael and Ali,

I hope both of you are keeping safe in these...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2020, 04:45 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,800
Posted By rvalentines
Hi Rockscan, Good point (and memory). I...

Hi Rockscan,

Good point (and memory). I regret my decision everyday as it could not have come at a worse time. Had the motion only been a week later it would have been adjourned.

Now the new...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2020, 02:19 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,800
Posted By rvalentines
Ok - I'm approaching 1.5 months and trying very...

Ok - I'm approaching 1.5 months and trying very hard to keep going. Your website is very motivating and helps to know that I should keep advocating for my children.

Thank you for sharing your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2020, 02:03 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,800
Posted By rvalentines
DadWhoDidntGiveUp, Can you tell us the longest...

DadWhoDidntGiveUp, Can you tell us the longest time you went without seeing your child?

I'm going through a rough patch - haven't seen my children in over a month due to false allegations. I'm...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-23-2020, 03:32 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,282
Posted By rvalentines
Dear all, Thank you for all your feedback. ...

Dear all,

Thank you for all your feedback. I admit I did act out on emotion. I wanted to help my kids to be with me when their mom was gone for 4 nights a month and leaving them with a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2020, 06:12 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,282
Posted By rvalentines
How can I dig a deeper hole with bringing an...

How can I dig a deeper hole with bringing an appeal? My understanding is that I would have to incur further costs if I lose.
What kind of system do we have that it depends on the "Judges mood". ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2020, 05:59 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,282
Posted By rvalentines
Dear all, Thank you for your inputs. ...

Dear all,

Thank you for your inputs.

I lost sight of the fact that I have criminal charges and I was angry that she was using the charges to limit my access to the children. I saw my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2020, 09:40 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,282
Posted By rvalentines
Yes - I screwed up because my kids wanted to see...

Yes - I screwed up because my kids wanted to see me more. I admit.

What are your thoughts on appealing?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-21-2020, 08:56 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,108
Posted By rvalentines
The Canadian Bar Association will fight tooth and...

The Canadian Bar Association will fight tooth and nail against any efficiencies in the court system that can see their member's incomes decrease.

Are you aware that the Canadian Bar Association...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-21-2020, 08:49 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,282
Posted By rvalentines
UPDATE!!! I brought a motion (Self-Rep) for...

UPDATE!!!

I brought a motion (Self-Rep) for Right of First Refusal and ability to contact via OurFamilyWizard. As a reminder, I had alternating weekends with overnights and unsupervised.

Not...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-18-2020, 11:11 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 421
Posted By rvalentines
Hi, 1. Yes she has interim possession of...

Hi,
1. Yes she has interim possession of matrimonial home as part of bail conditions.
2. No injuries, no medical reports, but trial already booked.
3. I am allowed to contact kids but they are...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-17-2020, 09:18 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 421
Posted By rvalentines
Spousal Support vs Occupational Rent

Dear all,

I am going into my settlement conference in the next month or two and wanted to know if anyone has any insight if I should be asking for spousal support or occupational rent or both?
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2020, 11:02 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 328
Posted By rvalentines
Here is my suggestion to you. I get his...

Here is my suggestion to you.

I get his concern - it's annoying to come Tuesday AND thursday overnight. Too much packing.

Propose: Alternating weekends that extend to Tuesday overnight. That...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-10-2020, 09:25 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 575
Posted By rvalentines
I'm not sure where you're getting your...

I'm not sure where you're getting your information from.

That's exactly what motions are for. To allow the judge to make a decision on status quo. All the conferences are mediation sessions. If...
Forum: Political Issues 02-09-2020, 09:31 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 2,884
Posted By rvalentines
Yes! The poster is right! Let's imprison men...

Yes! The poster is right!
Let's imprison men for 10 years for slapping their wives, ensure they never get to see the kids, the wife to get exclusive possession of the house, all the while the father...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-09-2020, 09:23 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 575
Posted By rvalentines
Can you elaborate? I called the court...

Can you elaborate?

I called the court (Superior court) and they gave me dates for April for long motions.

Why are you recommending booking a trial management?

Mind you, my criminal trial is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-09-2020, 03:49 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 575
Posted By rvalentines
Motion after Settlement Conference

Hi all,

I have a settlement conference coming up to discuss child access/custody where I want to go to 50/50 from alternating weekends.

I was thinking of booking a long-motion date now so that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2020, 06:38 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,686
Posted By rvalentines
God Bless you! Thank you for posting this! ...

God Bless you! Thank you for posting this!

Do you happen to have any more motions you can share?
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