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Forum: Financial Issues 03-26-2020, 12:23 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 344
Posted By dad2bandm
Yeah, something is missing here A doctor...

Yeah, something is missing here

A doctor note for what? For which expense?
They can only enforce existing order. So it sounds like the note is for an expense covered in order?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-25-2020, 11:57 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 848
Posted By dad2bandm
Toronto Sun mentioned this ruling too. Nice...

Toronto Sun mentioned this ruling too. Nice exposure. Good endorsement.
...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-24-2020, 09:49 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 264
Posted By dad2bandm
For anyone considering this (and the banks have...

For anyone considering this (and the banks have to approve you), really do your homework first, and use it as a last resort (like, you've lost your job, and have no choice).


The mortgage...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-23-2020, 01:19 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 2,445
Posted By dad2bandm
I can't wait until this passes. Everyone is...

I can't wait until this passes. Everyone is acting bat-$hit crazy in regards to COVID-19. It'll be nice to return to the normal level of bat-$hit crazy that comes with separated parenting.


I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-20-2020, 11:59 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 2,445
Posted By dad2bandm
My point was, if Dad is going out to buy...

My point was, if Dad is going out to buy groceries, or something like that, he could already be bringing virus into household with his elderly parents. But, people need food, so getting groceries is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-20-2020, 11:32 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 2,445
Posted By dad2bandm
To the OP; I am in exactly this...

To the OP;


I am in exactly this situation, as our child has been with me since all this stuff started. This weekend is child's weekend with Mom. Child was sent to Mom's.


Neither of us are...
Forum: General Chat 03-11-2020, 11:04 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 307
Posted By dad2bandm
Not directly, but the judge's name is in the...

Not directly, but the judge's name is in the records, so you can simply do a text search for the judge's lastname, and it does find those cases.
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-26-2020, 09:54 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 977
Posted By dad2bandm
Not to get on a tangent, but... There is...

Not to get on a tangent, but...

There is intent. And there is practice. lol.


Lots and lots of cases and situations where CAS did not protect the kids. Google it. Including mine, if the...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-25-2020, 10:30 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 219
Posted By dad2bandm
Basically what Rockscan already said to you. ...

Basically what Rockscan already said to you.
You didn't provide any details, so we can only guess.



If it's the typical school field trips for the day, locally, or to nearby cities, it's...
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-25-2020, 10:25 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 977
Posted By dad2bandm
Sorry Jackdivorce, I noticed you private...

Sorry Jackdivorce,
I noticed you private messaged me, and I don't often check there or respond there.


You mentioned your spouse is in "peace bond" with you, but I don't understand, are you...
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-20-2020, 04:25 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 977
Posted By dad2bandm
CAS is never your ally. Especially if you're a...

CAS is never your ally.
Especially if you're a man. Probably depends on the agency, but the one in our area, is incompetent, or under-resourced. Probably both.



They bungled things very...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-20-2020, 02:19 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 812
Posted By dad2bandm
Hockey is a different beast - as it is *so*...

Hockey is a different beast - as it is *so* expensive even at house level. And for 3 kids? $$$


FRO may have just denied the "costs" as perhaps they deemed it to not be child support related,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2020, 01:46 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 390
Posted By dad2bandm
If I was to use one, Our Family Wizard seems the...

If I was to use one, Our Family Wizard seems the best. They price it as such.

An app/site like OFW does simplify some things when it comes to *high/conflict parents*. Everything is in the one...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2020, 01:18 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 942
Posted By dad2bandm
As an aside; I wonder how much of the awarded...

As an aside;
I wonder how much of the awarded costs WorkingDad has seen come his way though.



In my court process (it's been long), I've been awarded a few times, some costs, but haven't...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2020, 01:03 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 942
Posted By dad2bandm
I thought, you were already progressing through...

I thought, you were already progressing through court stages, given you said this:





So where in court process are you then, and what is her motion about? I thought it was just seeking more...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-20-2020, 12:47 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 812
Posted By dad2bandm
"sues" ? Do you mean, she filed a...

"sues" ?



Do you mean, she filed a motion seeking some money towards the activity in family court?



Or actually going after you in small-claims court?
Forum: Financial Issues 02-18-2020, 11:33 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 189
Posted By dad2bandm
Valid in Ontario, but good outline of what one...

Valid in Ontario, but good outline of what one does to file motion to claim/or update, child support:


https://www.ontario.ca/page/set-up-or-update-child-support-court


(as an aside, how do...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-18-2020, 11:19 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 942
Posted By dad2bandm
Is this shared custody? Yes/no? Or does your...

Is this shared custody? Yes/no?
Or does your ex have the bulk of the parenting time, leaving you to pay table support for the two kids?



Seeking more child support, with "no justification"?...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-18-2020, 11:11 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 189
Posted By dad2bandm
Yeah, given the info you have provided, this...

Yeah, given the info you have provided, this *sounds* pretty clear-cut. Highly doubt that she needs a lawyer for simple "updating child support based on current income request."


But if the...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-18-2020, 11:05 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,564
Posted By dad2bandm
Meh, it's CRA - they interpret things their own...

Meh, it's CRA - they interpret things their own way, and no matter how clear you are in the order/agreement, they still cause you issues.
CRA folks are not happy people. They are not...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-11-2020, 03:45 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,564
Posted By dad2bandm
As an anecdotal aside; In my case, having...

As an anecdotal aside;


In my case, having "no written agreement" in place was helpful with the CRA, as that was a plus for me, back in the day. But CRA will still challenge you.


In my...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-11-2020, 03:40 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,564
Posted By dad2bandm
What Rockscan already mentioned. The only...

What Rockscan already mentioned.


The only way you could try to claim the "eligible dependant" tax credit, even if your ex agreed you would claim it (written up in an agreement/court order), is:...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-03-2020, 11:42 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 224
Posted By dad2bandm
Yes, if you're writing out your affidavit...

Yes, if you're writing out your affidavit info/points, use "I".


ex.
...I attach hereto as Exhibit X, the report blah blah blah...


...On several occasions I requested the Applicant to sign...
Forum: Domestic Violence 01-28-2020, 02:09 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 359
Posted By dad2bandm
I thought absolute discharges were removed from...

I thought absolute discharges were removed from the Canadian Police Information Center computer system 1 year after the court’s decision anyway, no? So maybe it won't be an issue for him for long...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-28-2020, 01:40 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 206
Posted By dad2bandm
You have an order (interim or otherwise) from a...

You have an order (interim or otherwise) from a judge, that specifies you have full custody? If so, I wonder what circumstances with the other parent or the family situation would lead to that right...
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