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Forum: Financial Issues Today, 10:35 AM
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Posted By rockscan
Yes you both need independent legal advice. Its a...

Yes you both need independent legal advice. Its a clause in all agreements. It protects you both.


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Forum: Financial Issues Today, 10:33 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,158
Posted By rockscan
I make more than my husband, had my own property...

I make more than my husband, had my own property and investments.

We married for love though and I adore my husband. I was an older bride so I knew what I wanted and was mature.

You overlook...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 11:19 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,158
Posted By rockscan
My husband said the same thing...then he met me! ...

My husband said the same thing...then he met me!

You will still have moments as a family it just wont be the unit you imagine. My husband has been to his kids graduations with his ex there....
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 11:15 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 59
Posted By rockscan
If you both had independent legal advice then you...

If you both had independent legal advice then you will be covered. If an investment goes up after you split she isnt entitled to it. Much like she isnt entitled to a lottery win if you get that.
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Forum: General Chat Yesterday, 04:33 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 85
Posted By rockscan
Ya thats a mess. She sounds like she could use...

Ya thats a mess. She sounds like she could use therapy and Im sure a lot of her negativity comes from her anger, hurt and resentment. By acting that way she deprives her kids of their other...
Forum: General Chat Yesterday, 04:11 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 334
Posted By rockscan
Ya I was going to say three years is nothing. ...

Ya I was going to say three years is nothing.


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Forum: General Chat Yesterday, 04:09 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 85
Posted By rockscan
How did Divorce affect your friendships?

Ha! My husband is not allowed to speak to one of his oldest friends because the friends wife decided after a million years that she liked his ex and wanted to be friends. That led to a big blow out...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 04:04 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 69
Posted By rockscan
A quick search of canlii resulted in the case:...

A quick search of canlii resulted in the case: Appu v. Appu. The judge in that case considered expenses necessary to maintain a stream of income.

It could also be a crapshoot depending on the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-17-2021, 04:07 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 214
Posted By rockscan
It was more child care which is not for work. ...

It was more child care which is not for work.

Nanny is way more than daycare.

He can also dispute what she gets if a more cost efficient option or he is available.

This poster seems to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2021, 04:44 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 541
Posted By rockscan
Call the school board and find out about rules on...

Call the school board and find out about rules on addresses. Kid may not be eligible to go to a school where they dont live.


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Forum: Financial Issues 01-16-2021, 04:44 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,158
Posted By rockscan
Not to mention have an impact on the other...

Not to mention have an impact on the other current and future relationships. Whether you want to or not you WILL have an impact on your kids.


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Forum: Financial Issues 01-15-2021, 10:50 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,158
Posted By rockscan
You could see if your city has a family service...

You could see if your city has a family service office. They have therapy services. Also talk to your family doctor as they can refer.

You also need to remember that she is taking care of her...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-15-2021, 04:00 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 214
Posted By rockscan
Should also note you need to get his written...

Should also note you need to get his written permission. Plus if you need help to parent your kids and he does not, it may not weigh in your favour to have a nanny.


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Forum: Parenting Issues 01-15-2021, 01:55 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 214
Posted By rockscan
If you need child care to work it is a section 7...

If you need child care to work it is a section 7 expense.

If you need a nanny because you cant handle your kids thats not a section 7.


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2021, 03:38 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 541
Posted By rockscan
I believe the language is along the lines of...

I believe the language is along the lines of parent a will pay to parent b xxx in child support. Parent b pays parent a yyy in child support.

That way cra doesnt see off set or anything else. Do a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2021, 02:04 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 541
Posted By rockscan
The language they use for post secondary is such...

The language they use for post secondary is such bullshit. Especially when it isnt clear on stuff. And that clause not paying for school if the kids goes away? Total crap. Most courts err on the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2021, 12:39 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 541
Posted By rockscan
Its a ridiculous point and it doesnt matter....

Its a ridiculous point and it doesnt matter. Unless your kid is planning to move out permanently to go to school (ie live away all year long for four years) or take a year long vacation, it doesnt...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2021, 11:16 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 541
Posted By rockscan
No. Do not agree to this. Modify it to ...

No. Do not agree to this.

Modify it to

Both parents will contribute their proportionate share of post secondary expenses. Post secondary expenses are defined as tuition, books, equipment,...
Forum: General Chat 01-14-2021, 09:10 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 334
Posted By rockscan
Has the lawyer filed the necessary paperwork? ...

Has the lawyer filed the necessary paperwork?

Remember your partner is not the only client this lawyer has. They could be dealing with court dates for others.


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2021, 06:42 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 248
Posted By rockscan
His lawyer is trying to bully you into agreeing....

His lawyer is trying to bully you into agreeing. Let him pay his lawyer for a ridiculous motion. The onus is on him to prove the change and quitting his job isnt a material change.


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2021, 03:32 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 324
Posted By rockscan
I should have elaborated. Read the cases and see...

I should have elaborated. Read the cases and see what the judge said/facts of the case. Decisions are a good indicator of the ability of the lawyer. A judge is not afraid to write down that a lawyer...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2021, 02:28 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 248
Posted By rockscan
He cant fight for status quo as he is not...

He cant fight for status quo as he is not following an existing order. If he wanted to get status quo he would have had to have you agree to him taking the child for 50/50. You have objected every...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2021, 02:25 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 324
Posted By rockscan
I would also suggest looking through canlii.org...

I would also suggest looking through canlii.org for cases in Ontario/Toronto and the successful lawyer. You can also check rate lawyers on Google as some of those show people who make comments about...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-13-2021, 09:59 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,158
Posted By rockscan
You have a 99% chance of not getting back...

You have a 99% chance of not getting back together and in the time away she can put in place financial protections that screw you.

Not to mention what happens if she has someone in mind and she...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-12-2021, 11:02 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,158
Posted By rockscan
She could also be lying to you until she gets out...

She could also be lying to you until she gets out of the house. Seriously dude, you need to get a grip and move forward.


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