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Forum: Parenting Issues 11-30-2021, 06:11 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 208
Posted By iona6656
+1 agree with rocksan - given the OPs...

+1

agree with rocksan - given the OPs history- it's quite understandable she's protective of her kids.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-12-2021, 12:25 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 541
Posted By iona6656
^ they do it because they want to get it...

^


they do it because they want to get it over with. that's what I tried, and one mediator sat me down, looked me in the eyes and told me not to do it. to get the OCL involved.

shuttle...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-12-2021, 12:19 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 541
Posted By iona6656
She's triggered by you being adamant of saying...

She's triggered by you being adamant of saying 'false allegations' because a LOT of what you've posted on here leans misogynistic. You've made multiple posts about how women are just as likely if not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2021, 01:15 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 263
Posted By iona6656
Can the party who is waiving the child support...

Can the party who is waiving the child support provide documented evidence that the kids won't suffer for waiving CS.

Also- why is CS being waived? what's the reason?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2021, 01:13 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 541
Posted By iona6656
This is assuming you can find a mediator who will...

This is assuming you can find a mediator who will work with the parties if there is alleged intimate partner violence.

We were turned down by two mediators at the beginning of my matter. I can't...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-10-2021, 11:46 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,455
Posted By iona6656
if it's venting. then sure. But if you're going...

if it's venting. then sure. But if you're going to try to do something about getting 50% of the costs of winter clothes by withholding CS or consider court for it...then you're leaning petty.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-09-2021, 06:16 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 263
Posted By iona6656
My friend and her ex agreed to no CS as dad...

My friend and her ex agreed to no CS as dad signed over his ownership in the family home to mom in lieu of CS. Also she had to prove her income to show that the children could and would be provided...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-08-2021, 11:00 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 185
Posted By iona6656
I wouldn't be okay with the 2 week...

I wouldn't be okay with the 2 week rotations...based on the facts you presented...it *feels* like the start of a push towards something else.

and based on what I've read from caselaw and seen...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-08-2021, 10:58 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 344
Posted By iona6656
jeez. your story sounds harrowing. I'm so sorry...

jeez. your story sounds harrowing. I'm so sorry for that.

Did you show up to get the kids?

And another lawyer should be filling in for your lawyer, no? or is she a sole practitioner?
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-08-2021, 10:55 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 196
Posted By iona6656
Parents get to choose what age they want their...

Parents get to choose what age they want their kids getting into tech. (but for the record- I think 9 is way WAY too young...wtf- my kid is only 5...but don't parents arrange meetups with friends,...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-05-2021, 05:02 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,455
Posted By iona6656
My unsolicited advice is to try to learn to deal...

My unsolicited advice is to try to learn to deal iwth your anger towards your ex. Your posts fairly drip with resentment towards your ex- and I get that...but also, sometimes it's just easier to let...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-05-2021, 04:54 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,455
Posted By iona6656
towards the end of the season- I will use...

towards the end of the season- I will use coloured ducktape (if I have it...if not- grey). My kid, luckily, doesn't care. (yet).
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-05-2021, 04:51 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 708
Posted By iona6656
guys- the h pylori is a red herring. the Judge...

guys- the h pylori is a red herring. the Judge didn't even touch it in the decision.

the judge made a decision that erred on the side of caution in this case because of covid.

the mom might...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-05-2021, 12:30 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 708
Posted By iona6656
I dunno- it seems pretty reasonable. How...

I dunno- it seems pretty reasonable.

How are you going to say you had a severe allergic reaction and have NO record of that reaction? Wouldn't a doctor writing the exemption at least check to see...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-05-2021, 12:19 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 282
Posted By iona6656
The flip side of this is that some parents...

The flip side of this is that some parents actually request JUST enough to get themselves over 40% without even caring for 50/50.

My ex and his sister sat in front of me actually adding up the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-05-2021, 12:10 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 548
Posted By iona6656
My ex disputed the findings too. The clinician's...

My ex disputed the findings too. The clinician's notes were attached to their response- I think- and they were typed. She had a laptop at her visits though- so I guess they were always going to be...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-05-2021, 12:08 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,455
Posted By iona6656
If you can swing it financially- you let. it....

If you can swing it financially- you let. it. go....my separation agreement says dad is supposed to pay s.7 for the non-prescription eczema creams D5 uses. It is recommended by her pediatric...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-03-2021, 10:42 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 641
Posted By iona6656
If there is a trial looming....would someone be...

If there is a trial looming....would someone be granted a motion for increased access now? Wouldn't the court just say "wait"?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-03-2021, 10:41 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 641
Posted By iona6656
She wants to settle too I'm sure. I don't know...

She wants to settle too I'm sure. I don't know many people who don't get tired of the constant grind that is family court.

I agree with you on the EOW + midweek access being your best shot if you...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-15-2021, 12:16 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,211
Posted By iona6656
but isn't there usually a basic income imputed...

but isn't there usually a basic income imputed into spousal support?

Also- it's more than just the "housewife's work" - it's the sacrifice that person (male or female) made in furtherance of a...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2021, 02:59 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,211
Posted By iona6656
basically what rockscan said. length of marriage...

basically what rockscan said. length of marriage (mine was <5 years); if anyone's career took a hit from the marriage it was mine as I took the year mat leave, turned down a career advancing offer,...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2021, 10:43 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,211
Posted By iona6656
I would be curious to see the case law around...

I would be curious to see the case law around this if it DOES stick.

For the OP, my ex used the threat of SS against me- I earned almost 2x as much as he did when we separated (155 v. 85) and at...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-05-2021, 01:40 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,916
Posted By iona6656
Well....having dad's last name is completely...

Well....having dad's last name is completely arbitrary. And when you are no longer a family unit, many women want the child(ren) to have a name that reflects their own. Actually more and more, women...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2021, 02:34 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,916
Posted By iona6656
You still haven't answered "what's the big deal...

You still haven't answered "what's the big deal of the kids keeping her last name?"

Like everyone else in this thread has said "You have time with your kids. They know they are part of you". So...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2021, 02:10 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,916
Posted By iona6656
Here's a thought- why don't you just let them...

Here's a thought- why don't you just let them keep mom's last name?

Have you already changed their name? If not- why fight about this?
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