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Forum: Parenting Issues 11-28-2021, 10:21 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 208
Posted By Stillbreathing
Check your no contact order. It is a legal...

Check your no contact order. It is a legal document. If there is no expiry date then it should still be in effect.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-26-2021, 12:49 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 529
Posted By Stillbreathing
Brampton 33 is spot on. I too have years of...

Brampton 33 is spot on. I too have years of experience with the court system due to an unreasonable, high conflict ex. If your case is high conflict then case conferences and settlement conferences...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-24-2021, 09:46 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 529
Posted By Stillbreathing
The quickest, easiest and most efficient thing to...

The quickest, easiest and most efficient thing to do in response to all the lies is to simply deny all allegations contained in her brief then move on with business. Do not respond to each...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-21-2021, 10:29 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 401
Posted By Stillbreathing
Given your history and the established status quo...

Given your history and the established status quo you may have an uphill battle getting joint custody. Speak to a lawyer they can review your file and give you a realistic assessment of what is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-10-2021, 07:11 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 541
Posted By Stillbreathing
For me personally med/ arbitration has been a...

For me personally med/ arbitration has been a complete waste of time, money and energy. It has not yet resolved any of our issues to date.

I would only suggest it if you get along well with your...
Forum: General Chat 11-09-2021, 03:22 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 305
Posted By Stillbreathing
If it’s solely owned by you and registered in...

If it’s solely owned by you and registered in your name you could write/email/text your ex they have until x date and time to return it or you are reporting it stolen and will be pressing charges...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-08-2021, 06:16 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,455
Posted By Stillbreathing
I agree with Pink Houses. You cannot reduce the...

I agree with Pink Houses. You cannot reduce the amount you pay in child support without a court order. The judge is the only one with that power. If you do it you will find yourself in deep trouble...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-03-2021, 08:26 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 548
Posted By Stillbreathing
In this day and age of computer technology most...

In this day and age of computer technology most health professionals notes are typewritten except for in some hospital charts, therefor it stands to reason the OCL’s notes would be typewritten as...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-02-2021, 07:50 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 282
Posted By Stillbreathing
You could ask for primary custody and your ex...

You could ask for primary custody and your ex have EOW. Stick to this position for awhile then gradually negotiate to 50/50
Forum: Financial Issues 10-29-2021, 10:44 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,455
Posted By Stillbreathing
Just to add another perspective here. Gloves,...

Just to add another perspective here. Gloves, hats, scarves, boots go missing with small children the same as socks disappear in the dryer never to be seen again. This is regardless if the child...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2021, 08:43 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 703
Posted By Stillbreathing
What Rocksan said is not entirely true. My lawyer...

What Rocksan said is not entirely true. My lawyer made it very clear that the court considers a child old enough to make their own decisions at age 18. That being said, the older the teen, the more...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2021, 11:40 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,916
Posted By Stillbreathing
What Taken said. A name is something a child is...

What Taken said. A name is something a child is given not who they are. They know who they are. One parent may try to dismiss the other by not acknowledging them or including their name in the...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-24-2021, 10:22 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 870
Posted By Stillbreathing
You asked for advice on how to deal with being...

You asked for advice on how to deal with being blacklisted and were given the sound advice to speak to one of the lawyers who blacklisted you if they will take the time to speak to you. If you don’t...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-23-2021, 11:02 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 488
Posted By Stillbreathing
I find it fascinating and scary at the same time...

I find it fascinating and scary at the same time that the mother managed to find two professionally incompetent and currently practising medical doctors to back up her position. I find it reassuring...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-20-2021, 07:10 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 728
Posted By Stillbreathing
Actually Rocksan isn’t totally correct. Interest...

Actually Rocksan isn’t totally correct. Interest on investments can indeed be counted as income. It depends on the individual situation. In my case my ex has millions invested and lives off the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-18-2021, 12:41 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 476
Posted By Stillbreathing
Lovingdad, you hit the nail on the head!

Lovingdad, you hit the nail on the head!
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-17-2021, 09:33 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 476
Posted By Stillbreathing
Cleanslate, you might want to try disposable zip...

Cleanslate, you might want to try disposable zip lock baggies instead of Tupperware and plastic shopping bags instead of lunch containers on days she picks up. Don’t send toys over.
You can also...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2021, 08:26 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,221
Posted By Stillbreathing
If you do that while represented your lawyer may...

If you do that while represented your lawyer may dump you as a client. Direct your own lawyer to help you draft an offer to settle and send it to the other side.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2021, 10:33 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,001
Posted By Stillbreathing
You may do similar work and have read her...

You may do similar work and have read her employers viewpoints on work/life balance and flexibility but you do not have the legal right to determine what is in your ex spouse or your children’s best...
Forum: Political Issues 09-09-2021, 11:27 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 4,822
Posted By Stillbreathing
Helena in your original post you claim this...

Helena in your original post you claim this government website “names and shames men”. I visited the link you provided and you are incorrect. It clearly states they are asking for assistance to find...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2021, 01:55 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,001
Posted By Stillbreathing
The reason is you are no longer a married couple...

The reason is you are no longer a married couple who are living together and mutually looking after the best interests of the children and family unit. You are separated and headed for a divorce. As...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-03-2021, 10:28 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 458
Posted By Stillbreathing
FRO are extremely slow to respond. I found it...

FRO are extremely slow to respond. I found it helpful to contact the Ontario Ombudsman and file a complaint. Once I did, FRO quickly responded and we got the issues resolved. The Ombudsman are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-02-2021, 10:31 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 951
Posted By Stillbreathing
Rocksan is correct regarding the expiry date on...

Rocksan is correct regarding the expiry date on your ex’s offer. If after careful consideration you are comfortable with her offer then you accept it. If not you make a your own offer, have a lawyer...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2021, 11:08 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,216
Posted By Stillbreathing
Brampton 33 both yourself and Tayken are correct....

Brampton 33 both yourself and Tayken are correct. Tayken is correct in that you should still follow the order if it’s the only one you have. You should try at all times to be the party who comes to...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-30-2021, 02:55 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 707
Posted By Stillbreathing
So sorry you have had such a traumatic experience...

So sorry you have had such a traumatic experience with your ex and that you identify with some of the elements of my posts. However, that being said, your situation is nothing like mine. You are...
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