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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-15-2020, 10:10 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 240
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Even if you are reasonable, don't fight for more...

Even if you are reasonable, don't fight for more than you are entitled to, it can still drag on. If your ex is going to be a goof and stall things you will be on a long train ride. Pack a snack and...
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-15-2020, 10:07 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 212
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I believe your short story, Paris. That's why I...

I believe your short story, Paris. That's why I said if he calls CAS what would happen is first he would have to satisfy CAS that he is able or has been protecting the children from the conflict. ...
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-15-2020, 06:50 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 281
Posted By Helpmyspouse
They dont get automatically removed. You have to...

They dont get automatically removed. You have to request the finger prints to be destroyed. You will be asked to go in person and they are shredded in front of you.
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-15-2020, 06:47 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 212
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Involving CAS means you are going to have to...

Involving CAS means you are going to have to satisfy to them that yes your wife is violent but how are you keeping your kids away from the conflict? So how do you propose to do this? Because you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-13-2020, 08:58 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 578
Posted By Helpmyspouse
You mentioned in your first post your dad is...

You mentioned in your first post your dad is emotionally abusive and was violent to your mom in the past. Nobody wants to uproot themselves and selling the family home is painful but at what cost are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-13-2020, 08:09 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 578
Posted By Helpmyspouse
It's a catch 22. Without selling my home I would...

It's a catch 22. Without selling my home I would have no money for legal fees. It's been 7 years now and still at it. With equity in the bank from the matrimonial home lawyers see dollar signs and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-12-2020, 08:41 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 578
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Angry The money will go into trust until the financials...

The money will go into trust until the financials are resolved. And herein lies the start of more crazy and chaos and more stalling. I have been at it for years since my home sold. The lawyers are...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-05-2020, 10:14 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 597
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I don't get it. You consider reconciling in the...

I don't get it. You consider reconciling in the early stages. A court process was started and it doesn't matter by whom. You both burned a shit?oad of money in legal fees and you were expecting a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2020, 10:06 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 578
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I think the most important thing right now is...

I think the most important thing right now is preserving your mom's sanity and ensuring she is physically and emotionally safe. This could drag out for a long time and there is a very good chance...
Forum: General Chat 01-28-2020, 11:35 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 94
Posted By Helpmyspouse
She should not have answered yes. If the cas...

She should not have answered yes. If the cas matter is closed then your children are definitely not in the care of family services organization. She just opened a can of worms for nothing.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-06-2020, 10:32 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 548
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I've been at it since 2013. Nothing in family...

I've been at it since 2013. Nothing in family court makes sense and the honest, stable, hard working parent is the one that gets screwed over btpy the system. Zero accountability! I've easily lost...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-02-2020, 08:09 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 910
Posted By Helpmyspouse
That is great to hear. Did you both sign? I...

That is great to hear. Did you both sign? I also had an agreement. Nothing signed that day though. Other side was going to write it up so I could sign. Well nothing followed until one month...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-02-2020, 03:44 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,542
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Stilbreathing, unfreakin believable! I am sorry...

Stilbreathing, unfreakin believable! I am sorry for the shit you are going through. I am in a similar boat. What a shit show! I made it to the trial list for November, paid my lawyer to prepare...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-31-2019, 09:24 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 183
Posted By Helpmyspouse
If it is truly gifted money for the kids, sounds...

If it is truly gifted money for the kids, sounds fine to me. But can also be a good way to hide $25, 000 of income. I would not die on this hill. It's not that much money in the grand scheme of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-23-2019, 08:39 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 557
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I think the lawyers from legal aid just make the...

I think the lawyers from legal aid just make the money run out. They may not do it intentionally but everything can be "legitimately" stalled. Lawyers are bound by the court process and that is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-23-2019, 07:14 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 557
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Angry I've been at it since 2013. Everything is...

I've been at it since 2013. Everything is tolerated. Everything takes months for one step and even that can go nowhere. Because of this stalling expect to pay your lawyer to prepare your financials...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-19-2019, 11:22 PM
Replies: 182
Views: 11,835
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Stepmom is holding on to those girls because she...

Stepmom is holding on to those girls because she sees dollar signs. Don't give up fighting for your kids and what belongs to them. Stay strong. Prayer helps me and it's cheaper than therapy.
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-15-2019, 03:15 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 364
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Did the bullying start after the perm hair? ...

Did the bullying start after the perm hair? Bullying is never okay but why would a parent perm a young child's hair??? Did the perm cause child's anxiety and is the reason for this intensive therapy?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-12-2019, 07:29 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 479
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Does the court order also clearly state she can't...

Does the court order also clearly state she can't interfere with showings, ie. refuse to allow the realtors and potential buyers in the home? If no, I don't see how police can assist with that as...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2019, 10:53 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 479
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I had to get a court order for exclusive...

I had to get a court order for exclusive possession and to list and sell home without my ex consent. I needed to get him out so I could clean and repair the home he was making go to shit. And I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-07-2019, 11:02 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 418
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I am so grateful for your replies and sharing...

I am so grateful for your replies and sharing your experiences and knowledge. A family breakup is horrible to go through. I would not wish this on anyone. I don't see why anyone would get married...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-07-2019, 07:05 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 418
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I am so relieved. I'm totally not sure of all...

I am so relieved. I'm totally not sure of all the logistics but I won't worry about this unless ex is requesting supervised access. For example, if we can't communicate due to the restraining...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-06-2019, 11:45 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 418
Posted By Helpmyspouse
thanks for your reply. Are you saying that the...

thanks for your reply. Are you saying that the visit is only supervised for a few minutes and not the whole duration? I have a problem with this if this is the case. The visit in my situation would...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-05-2019, 10:04 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 418
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Supervised access centers

Anyone familiar with these? What is the wait time to start access? I read up on the process which is an intake form and meeting but it doesn't say anything about a wait time or how fast the first...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-02-2019, 02:01 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 368
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Conflict of interest?

My exspouse is supposed to be self-reping but he lacks the mental capacity to do so. It's a long story... Anyway, a family member on his side offered to help him faciilitate a potential agreement...
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