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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-05-2020, 04:55 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 334
Posted By EspoirN
Thank you again. I spoke with the CLO this...

Thank you again. I spoke with the CLO this morning, and CLO states that there will not be anything in writing, just oral disclosure.

We are on a waiting list for supervised access program at the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-05-2020, 02:23 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 334
Posted By EspoirN
Thank you so much for your response, it helps me...

Thank you so much for your response, it helps me greatly. I will see what happens tomorrow at the meeting and take it from there then. Good to know that I will not have to agree to anything on the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-05-2020, 11:02 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 334
Posted By EspoirN
Disclosure meeting with children’s lawyer

What can be expected at a disclosure meeting with the children’s lawyer? Will there be anything negotiated? Can the opposite side put pressure for me to agree to something?

My ex has supervised...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-29-2019, 09:26 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 972
Posted By EspoirN
Thank you for the links and the explanation. I...

Thank you for the links and the explanation. I waited 14 months for good valid reasons, waiting for his disclosure and building my own evidence.

So when I called the court and asked for the date,...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-28-2019, 11:55 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 972
Posted By EspoirN
This is what I dont understand, how does one...

This is what I dont understand, how does one apply for an urgent motion then? Emergency motion is experte from what I understand (please correct me if Im wrong here), but urgent motion is one where...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-28-2019, 12:06 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 972
Posted By EspoirN
Ok, thank you so much, this helps. The concept of...

Ok, thank you so much, this helps. The concept of these emergency vs urgent motions is a bit confusing. So I should serve the Respondent the complete paperwork for my urgent motion, go to the...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-28-2019, 10:02 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 972
Posted By EspoirN
It is just heartbreaking that on the one hand the...

It is just heartbreaking that on the one hand the courts put the best interests of the child first, yet they let divorces drag on for 10 years. Does anyone consider what impact that has on the child?...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-27-2019, 03:26 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 972
Posted By EspoirN
Thank you so much for your detailed answer....

Thank you so much for your detailed answer. Thankfully I have already gathered proof of his apartment abroad which he denied was in his name solely. So I now have proof and whatever he does, it will...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-27-2019, 12:39 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 972
Posted By EspoirN
Thank you for the more optimistic response. Wont...

Thank you for the more optimistic response. Wont the respondent be in contempt of court if they dont follow the court order and pay? There is a credibility issue with the Respondent, I wont go I...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-27-2019, 01:15 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 972
Posted By EspoirN
I cant afford it. Im almost insolvent, and I...

I cant afford it. Im almost insolvent, and I dont qualify for legal aid. Where is the access to justice?
Forum: Financial Issues 12-24-2019, 09:45 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 972
Posted By EspoirN
Unlikely that my mortgage would be increased....

Unlikely that my mortgage would be increased. Dont courts impute at least minimum wage income? There is no excuse for not working at least 37.5 hrs at minimum wage... besides I have some examples...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-18-2019, 04:38 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,180
Posted By EspoirN
Thumbs down What do you mean by "proceeding to strike"? To...

What do you mean by "proceeding to strike"? To strike out the documents provided as proof of income, or lack thereof? I appear to be in the same situation. Ex is self-employed, works, but does not...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-14-2019, 11:12 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 972
Posted By EspoirN
How do I go about starting an urgent motion?

I am the moving party. After the case conference the Respondent (who works mostly for cash) was ordered to provide financial disclosure, he only provided his own personal statement and a few bank...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-12-2019, 03:06 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 324
Posted By EspoirN
Character reference letters

How much weight does the court give to character reference letters? The reason I ask is that by consent, Respondent and I agreed that he would have supervised access to our daughter (10yrs old)...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-04-2019, 10:34 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 641
Posted By EspoirN
I dont have any order for CS. At the case...

I dont have any order for CS. At the case conference access to child and disclosure took up most of the time.

For 14 months I havent been receiving any CS. My two children are not able to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-04-2019, 08:59 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 641
Posted By EspoirN
Ironically, the respondent is the one represented...

Ironically, the respondent is the one represented by a lawyer, but both are dragging out the process. I am the unrepresented party. The endorsement says that if the R doesnt serve and file the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-04-2019, 08:15 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 641
Posted By EspoirN
But the the judges exact words are I order that...

But the the judges exact words are I order that the respondent shall file his motion materials by 16 dec. so I thought that this meant the notice, the affidavit and whatever else there is.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-04-2019, 07:18 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 641
Posted By EspoirN
What does the judge mean by materials ? Isnt...

What does the judge mean by materials ? Isnt the materials filed and served 6 days prior to the date of the motion? If the motion date is not known, how can he file the material by 16 Dec?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-04-2019, 01:17 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 641
Posted By EspoirN
motion vs settlement conference

We had a case conference past September. I now wanted to book a settlement conference. My Ex refused, stating not ready, said access to our daughter is an issue, and said he intends to file a motion....
Forum: Financial Issues 11-23-2019, 12:10 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,003
Posted By EspoirN
Yes we were married. He complied with 45 days but...

Yes we were married. He complied with 45 days but did not provide the truth. So you still think I should send him a letter I stead of going to the settlement conference? The judge will see that he is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-23-2019, 11:59 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 584
Posted By EspoirN
Yes, I am in Ontario, in Ottawa. Yes, at the...

Yes, I am in Ontario, in Ottawa.
Yes, at the case conference, the judge issued an order, gave him 45 days to disclose all cash income, bank account statements, proof of assets, real estate abroad....
Forum: Financial Issues 11-23-2019, 11:48 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,003
Posted By EspoirN
Ex has provided notice of assessment for past 3...

Ex has provided notice of assessment for past 3 years, before the case conference. I argued at the case conference that he is lying that he has no income (which he was claiming at that point),...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-23-2019, 11:37 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 584
Posted By EspoirN
Ex has provided notice of assessment for past 3...

Ex has provided notice of assessment for past 3 years, before the case conference. I argued at the case conference that he is lying that he has no income (which he was claiming at that point),...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-23-2019, 11:19 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,003
Posted By EspoirN
Our relation broke down many years ago, but lived...

Our relation broke down many years ago, but lived under the same roof for the sake of the children, official separation date was 1 September 2018 when Ex moved out.

Over the course of the next...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-23-2019, 10:02 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 584
Posted By EspoirN
No. I do not have a lawyer. I need the...

No. I do not have a lawyer. I need the Respondents consent to a date to book a settlement conference before the court will give me a date. And the respondent declines stating that he is not ready...
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