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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 05:24 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 39
Posted By rockscan
Do a search on the forum. I had put together a...

Do a search on the forum. I had put together a lengthy post on post secondary calculating that became a stickie or thumbtack post.

You cannot apply all of the OSAP award to school as judges don’t...
Forum: Financial Issues Today, 03:04 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 36
Posted By rockscan
I believe its done through the land registry...

I believe its done through the land registry office. You may want to call your local one. Or a real estate lawyer may help.

You have to have him off the mortgage first and you may need an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 01:18 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 233
Posted By rockscan
You will also need an estate lawyer. If he died...

You will also need an estate lawyer. If he died without a will and you are not divorced, technically you inherit everything. His gf will fight for it if she is going to seek sole custody of the kids....
Forum: Divorce Support 09-20-2019, 03:58 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 208
Posted By rockscan
I was going to ask in another thread how things...

I was going to ask in another thread how things were. This is all great. Glad your new job is going well, hopefully you are gaining back a lot of the confidence you lost with that jerk.

Please...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2019, 10:32 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 373
Posted By rockscan
Im telling you all that these women are simply...

Im telling you all that these women are simply control freaks who are also trolling you.

They didn’t get what they wanted in court the other day so now they are determined to push themselves into...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-20-2019, 08:42 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 287
Posted By rockscan
This is awesome. At the end of the day she is...

This is awesome. At the end of the day she is your baby and all she wants is to know you love her. I wish my dad had been like you!!
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-19-2019, 12:28 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 287
Posted By rockscan
My husband has gone through it too. He would give...

My husband has gone through it too. He would give anything to wrap his arms around her. Its terrible to not have your kids in your life and its equally terrible to not have your parent there too! I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-19-2019, 12:00 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 287
Posted By rockscan
I went back and read your previous posts and saw...

I went back and read your previous posts and saw that there was influence from your ex.

It is a terrible position for your child to be in. I can safely say that the turmoil between my parents took...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-19-2019, 11:12 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 287
Posted By rockscan
Is there an issue with your ex? Perhaps she has...

Is there an issue with your ex? Perhaps she has influenced her and made her feel this way?

I say what Im about to say from the experience of an alienated child.

Being a teenage girl in your...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-19-2019, 09:54 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 147
Posted By rockscan
He could try to ask for spousal but he won’t win....

He could try to ask for spousal but he won’t win. Don’t worry about it.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-19-2019, 07:15 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 147
Posted By rockscan
No. In the ten years since you divorced you could...

No. In the ten years since you divorced you could have gotten training, taken classes, mentored with someone, put in time for experience etc. They would have no reason for asking. And why would you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-19-2019, 07:13 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 363
Posted By rockscan
Those cases would be backing for your argument....

Those cases would be backing for your argument. You have to have the actual situation happen to you. Because you are common law your situation would be unjust enrichment so they would be showing how...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-18-2019, 03:53 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 530
Posted By rockscan
I was going to say something but simply spelled...

I was going to say something but simply spelled it correctly in my post.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2019, 08:49 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 363
Posted By rockscan
You were common law which makes it different....

You were common law which makes it different. That means the value of the house on separation is what is split. Even if the house has increased in value, it is the value of the house on separation...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-18-2019, 08:42 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 530
Posted By rockscan
You let the therapist handle that one. They can...

You let the therapist handle that one. They can put their foot down on it. She won’t listen to you.

Going to court to get your ex to take his balls out of her purse is a waste of time and money....
Forum: General Chat 09-17-2019, 01:44 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,019
Posted By rockscan
Yep!! Almost exactly my husbands situation!! ...

Yep!! Almost exactly my husbands situation!!

I had a really hard time understanding my husband’s behaviour at first. He would sleep walk after talking to her and then say some really horrible shit...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2019, 11:19 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 269
Posted By rockscan
Yes but if that offer is stale dated then he...

Yes but if that offer is stale dated then he needs to make an updated offer knowing the info he knows now for retro and then what he anticipates going forward.

If he made an offer five years ago...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2019, 10:06 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 269
Posted By rockscan
If the cs amounts in your offer are for years...

If the cs amounts in your offer are for years past then the actual income will be used. If it is out of date, make a new offer with arrears set out, amounts you can reasonably make going forward and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2019, 10:00 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 363
Posted By rockscan
An important thing to ask yourself is this—how...

An important thing to ask yourself is this—how much money will come out of what you think you lost for legal fees?

For instance...lets say the house was worth $100,000 more making your share...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2019, 08:43 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 269
Posted By rockscan
Well if the other party continues this and a...

Well if the other party continues this and a judge also decides they are unreasonable then they run the risk of having to pay costs. Make a new reasonable offer and let them decide. Unfortunately in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2019, 01:45 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 234
Posted By rockscan
You add a line at the beginning that says all...

You add a line at the beginning that says all previous offers are hereby revoked.

There is a court form you can fill out and use.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2019, 01:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 234
Posted By rockscan
Are you making a new offer? If so then simply...

Are you making a new offer? If so then simply send the new offer and revoke the first.
Forum: General Chat 09-14-2019, 12:04 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,019
Posted By rockscan
That’s PTSD. Your reaction is from a trigger. My...

That’s PTSD. Your reaction is from a trigger. My husband has these over different things due to a car accident and his divorce. Even going into the courthouse last year brought back memories. You...
Forum: General Chat 09-13-2019, 01:14 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,019
Posted By rockscan
Yep, met a couple on a old forum years ago and...

Yep, met a couple on a old forum years ago and are still friends 15 years later! In this day and age its more likely to meet people online than off!
Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2019, 01:13 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 495
Posted By rockscan
You gave him an opportunity to be reasonable and...

You gave him an opportunity to be reasonable and he refuses so file the order. When he bitches you simply state “I gave you the opportunity to pay me directly, you refused. This is your problem now.”...
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