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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-31-2019, 11:00 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 601
Posted By thefunone
Is there a reason that you didn't request in...

Is there a reason that you didn't request in writing? If you had do you think he would have said No?
Ran into this issue myself. Ex had discussed/prepped/researched a heavy S7 expense - ran it by...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-30-2019, 01:17 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 376
Posted By thefunone
Pretty much as I thought. Thanks Actually...

Pretty much as I thought.
Thanks
Actually works in my favor - ex was trying to have conditions for my paying higher CS and SS and S7 to her for a second child based on whether or not the first...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-30-2019, 12:49 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 376
Posted By thefunone
child of the marriage

Question - if your teenager is under the age of majority and has difficulty going to school and could very conceivably be de-registered from school due to non-attendance - IS the child still...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-08-2019, 12:48 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 628
Posted By thefunone
Thanks Rockscan - I am aware that I can only...

Thanks Rockscan - I am aware that I can only claim SS - and in the past I have claimed that - but on line 230 where it asks for total - I put down ALL the support I provide (CS, S7 and SS), then on...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-08-2019, 12:23 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 628
Posted By thefunone
CRA vs Family Law

Hey there - I'm a bit unsure and hope someone (smarter than me) can explain this to me...

I am ordered to pay CS and S7 on a monthly basis - no issue. If after an accounting at the end of the year...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-23-2019, 01:22 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 438
Posted By thefunone
Good luck with CRA being helpful...I just posted...

Good luck with CRA being helpful...I just posted my own issues with CRA on the Divorce Support section.
You would need overwhelming proof that these fees were incurred ...and even then CRA can say...
Forum: Divorce Support 01-23-2019, 07:23 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 649
Posted By thefunone
CRA nightmare

Just curious how many of you all have been audited since your marital breakdown - both payors and payees.
I separated in 2011 - and have been "re-assessed" 3 times now - most recently notified...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2019, 02:50 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,176
Posted By thefunone
Is his travel usually local (ie a cottage week)...

Is his travel usually local (ie a cottage week) or something where he will be going through Customs?
I suspect that if he plans travel that you would not agree with, he wants to have this previous...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-21-2019, 10:23 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,176
Posted By thefunone
We provide consents so that there are no...

We provide consents so that there are no questions with Customs. Our Consents go something like this:
I (name here) have full knowledge and provide consent for my children (A_B - passport numbers)...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-21-2019, 10:17 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,176
Posted By thefunone
How about..."While I would certainly support you...

How about..."While I would certainly support you having the children spend time with you on a vacation, and would most probably sign your consent, I cannot do so blindly without any sort of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-21-2019, 10:04 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,176
Posted By thefunone
Courts tend to feel that consent should not be...

Courts tend to feel that consent should not be unreasonably withheld without justification. I sign a consent every year and my ex has signed consents for me. If the trip is to someplace that is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-19-2019, 09:50 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,153
Posted By thefunone
Tired_Dad....you need to appreciate that ANYTHING...

Tired_Dad....you need to appreciate that ANYTHING can be challenged in court. As she will be the Applicant she will need to prove what she needs and why she needs it and why she has asked for an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-19-2019, 09:39 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 843
Posted By thefunone
Here meaning my being in the Ottawa area - I do...

Here meaning my being in the Ottawa area - I do have opinions on a couple of different mediators...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-19-2019, 09:36 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 843
Posted By thefunone
While I will say that I left my residence -...

While I will say that I left my residence - should you decide to stay I would most certainly agree with purchasing and always keeping on you an electronic voice recorder.
As for mediation - not...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-19-2019, 08:27 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 899
Posted By thefunone
Zanman - it can be deemed either way. Was just in...

Zanman - it can be deemed either way. Was just in court myself and ex wanted a $600.00 trip as S7. Judge indicated that given the amount of CS I pay, it was not an S7 expense. Being 50-50, I suspect...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-13-2016, 07:57 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,218
Posted By thefunone
Imputing wage seems to be easier to be done on...

Imputing wage seems to be easier to be done on men in court (certainly when I review CanLii cases)
What does she do with her off time? Good question. She certainly creates a lot of lengthy emails to...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-12-2016, 09:00 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,108
Posted By thefunone
Understood - while we were together - she never...

Understood - while we were together - she never went to counseling. Never felt the need or requirement despite the issues between us and her own self diagnosed suffering of depression.
The moment...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-12-2016, 08:55 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,218
Posted By thefunone
Her home based business (mentioned in very early...

Her home based business (mentioned in very early posts by me and not this thread) is defunct according to her. If she has continued - it is without my knowledge. I will give her the benefit of the...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-12-2016, 08:15 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,218
Posted By thefunone
Yep - but getting an MBA from Clemson - does not...

Yep - but getting an MBA from Clemson - does not provide her with a designation. That's something separate
Forum: Financial Issues 12-12-2016, 07:29 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,218
Posted By thefunone
Yup...but she really has no reason to seek f/t...

Yup...but she really has no reason to seek f/t work seeing the amount of monies i provide....and her excuse is she can't get hired anywhere because she doesn't have a designation
It's been a fun...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-12-2016, 07:25 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,108
Posted By thefunone
I have a pretty comprehensive package of...

I have a pretty comprehensive package of benefits. Was told that you can't really put a price on that as it as you said 'is a payroll deduction'
How did I get such a terrible decision against me? ...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-09-2016, 03:27 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,108
Posted By thefunone
Stripes - Offer her one year's worth? I don't...

Stripes - Offer her one year's worth? I don't suspect she would be accepting of that. I have kept her on y plan since 2011 - I guess I think 5 years has been generous.
Forum: Financial Issues 12-09-2016, 03:17 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,108
Posted By thefunone
She's previously indicated that she would seek an...

She's previously indicated that she would seek an increase of $150.00/mth at minimum.
On top of the 1610.00/mth CS, $430.00 mth S7, and $708.00 SS I'm, already paying.
I currently am imputed a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-09-2016, 01:03 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,244
Posted By thefunone
Read it....AWESOME - thanks

Read it....AWESOME - thanks
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-09-2016, 12:29 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,244
Posted By thefunone
Sorry - my knowledge of short hand isn't...

Sorry - my knowledge of short hand isn't great....OTS's???
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