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Forum: Financial Issues 05-15-2020, 08:15 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 353
Posted By Abba435
Interesting reference on lump sum vs periodic...

Interesting reference on lump sum vs periodic spousal support.

Seems determining the amount would logically involve the same steps as for periodic i.e. need, compensation, duration, quantum, then...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-14-2020, 09:09 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 181
Posted By Abba435
https://ottawacitizen.com/news/local-news/mixed-re...

https://ottawacitizen.com/news/local-news/mixed-results-for-victims-of-lawyer-disbarred-with-2-5-million-missing/
Forum: Financial Issues 05-14-2020, 08:41 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 353
Posted By Abba435
Stock options are not simple. If not vested...

Stock options are not simple.
If not vested they have no value technically but you should disclose them as an asset with zero value in good faith.
You might call an experienced CPA firm and ask. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-14-2020, 08:37 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 181
Posted By Abba435
I'll bite. When was the last family law...

I'll bite.

When was the last family law case where a lawyer was sued for duty of care and lost?

And when a lawyer gives lousy advice and incites clients (as was pointed out in a case...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-14-2020, 08:34 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 321
Posted By Abba435
https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/do...0onsc2883.h...

https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/do...0onsc2883.html
A case worth printing out

Fighting fire with fire just gets everyone burned and kids end up in the middle invariably. There is some very...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-14-2020, 08:26 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 181
Posted By Abba435
so when exactly do lawyers have liability where...

so when exactly do lawyers have liability where the client actually gets damages?
Asking for a friend :-)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-14-2020, 12:38 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 199
Posted By Abba435
I don't do this but if it had to be then this is...

I don't do this but if it had to be then this is the way I see i being least problematic. The devil is in the details especially if conflict already is in play.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-14-2020, 06:53 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 199
Posted By Abba435
Vacation For Parents: "...notwithstanding the...

Vacation For Parents: "...notwithstanding the regular access/residency schedule the child will reside with the father/mother from the seven days staring the first Saturday in February at 9 am until...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-13-2020, 10:46 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 641
Posted By Abba435
From the ottawadivorce.com info pages ""My...

From the ottawadivorce.com info pages

""My former spouse has denied me access visits with my children several times, contrary to our court order. What can I do?"
A family lawyer can apply to the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-13-2020, 08:51 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 321
Posted By Abba435
1. The famous American trial lawyer, Louis...

1. The famous American trial lawyer, Louis Nizer, once wrote that "[w]hen a man points a finger at someone else, he should remember that four of his fingers are pointing at himself." This aphorism,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-13-2020, 08:50 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 133
Posted By Abba435
A Word or two About Rhetorical Excess in Family Litigation

https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/doc/2020/2020onsc2883/2020onsc2883.html

A Word or two About Rhetorical Excess in Family Litigation

103. Having been required by the exigencies of this...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-13-2020, 06:51 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 321
Posted By Abba435
If your emails back are as you say functional and...

If your emails back are as you say functional and you are not taking the bait, becoming reactive or defensive then you get a gold star.
Years ago I did react and then became very brief, informative,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 08:27 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 641
Posted By Abba435
I really hope your $250 a month adds up to a...

I really hope your $250 a month adds up to a great vacation for you one day and not to enforce what sane people would just honour. Thank you for your information. Sadly I have done all of this and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 07:16 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 641
Posted By Abba435
There have been decisions that have then been...

There have been decisions that have then been turned into consent orders?
I recently heard a trial judge respond to a lawyer who questioned this when I raised it in testimony that he believed he...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-12-2020, 05:51 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 318
Posted By Abba435
Get it in minutes of settlement. Catch up any...

Get it in minutes of settlement. Catch up any arrears or credit due the first time. Only risk is if you plan to retire you will pay on higher income for one full year.
You are more than welcome.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-12-2020, 05:43 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 318
Posted By Abba435
Every July 1 reset CS for next 12 months based on...

Every July 1 reset CS for next 12 months based on last year NOA
No arguments
No adjustment
Commonly used and court approved
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 05:37 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 641
Posted By Abba435
Awesome!!!! No details needed

Awesome!!!!
No details needed
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 05:36 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 641
Posted By Abba435
Lots of us have much to offer each other Maybe...

Lots of us have much to offer each other
Maybe after cruising this forum for 10 years credibility is earned
I plan to be very long gone
My thread seems to be irresistible
Is there a tip for the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 03:22 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 641
Posted By Abba435
There is a very fine line between emotion and...

There is a very fine line between emotion and judgement
Sadly the legal system is kind of oblivious
This is not civil litigation about a paving contract
Wrong tool for helping families and kids
...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 03:00 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 641
Posted By Abba435
Starve the beast is added to the top 10 great...

Starve the beast is added to the top 10 great ideas.
Treat it like a business deal also.
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 02:58 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 641
Posted By Abba435
Question: Have there been decisions ordering...

Question:
Have there been decisions ordering appointment of a Parenting Coordinator with binding authority?
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 11:52 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 540
Posted By Abba435
And the last word goes to ? Really? I have been...

And the last word goes to ? Really? I have been schooled.
Thank you and stay safe.
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 11:01 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 540
Posted By Abba435
This post is in Parenting Issues for a reason ...

This post is in Parenting Issues for a reason

Your legal advice is often superb
I invited yet another lecture from you I guess.
Thanks I’ll take what I can glean as helpful.
Fresh off conflict?...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 10:12 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 641
Posted By Abba435
Enforcement of clauses other than financial are...

Enforcement of clauses other than financial are huge issues for many.

Please describe how you can enforce a HCEX when that breach clear agreement terms:

Making unilateral decisions such a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 09:20 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 641
Posted By Abba435
Your BEST tip for dealing with high conflict ex or coparent

If you are forced to deal with high conflict what is your best tip that has worked for you to calm, diffuse or just help you manage stress and be a better parent in spite of the conflict?

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