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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-13-2019, 10:05 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 177
Posted By gettingexpensive
Nah, unfortunately. But I'm hoping that it...

Nah, unfortunately. But I'm hoping that it reduces backinthesaddle's shock of things dragging on in court going just as well as the mediation via lawyers (ie: nowhere). Granted, every case is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-13-2019, 09:42 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 177
Posted By gettingexpensive
And if he really is high conflict and not...

And if he really is high conflict and not reasonable, here's what you can expect in court:
http://www.fishermediation.com/media/pdf/ABA-Identifying_Managing_Diff_High_Conflict_ClientsREPRINT.pdf
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2019, 04:03 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 154
Posted By gettingexpensive
You are not alone... take a look at this to know...

You are not alone... take a look at this to know what to expect
http://fishermediation.com/media/pdf/ABA-Identifying_Managing_Diff_High_Conflict_ClientsREPRINT.pdf
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2019, 02:33 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 387
Posted By gettingexpensive
I'm going through a messed up divorce with...

I'm going through a messed up divorce with someone that is diagnosed BPD and likely NPD (I guess I should simply say cluster-B since there is a lot of comorbidity in there). Good luck, it will be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-31-2019, 02:28 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 148
Posted By gettingexpensive
Do lawyers really care about that? My ex keeps...

Do lawyers really care about that? My ex keeps getting lawyers that entirely agree with her position so things are going nowhere. And my lawyer keeps saying "that's usually the case, ignore what...
Forum: General Chat 10-31-2019, 10:30 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,347
Posted By gettingexpensive
These things are always difficult to read. There...

These things are always difficult to read. There was one in Montreal not long ago. I'd be curious to see what percentage is related to mental illness. Anyone that has seen something like a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-31-2019, 09:25 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 806
Posted By gettingexpensive
Ah yes. the not totally there upstairs sure...

Ah yes. the not totally there upstairs sure complicates things. Seems like you need to keep going but it really sucks for you.
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-30-2019, 04:42 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 927
Posted By gettingexpensive
Oh definitely! He seems to be doing a great job. ...

Oh definitely! He seems to be doing a great job. I just wanted to be sure that he fully realizes the impact that he can have. His role as a father in this case is likely more important than he...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-30-2019, 01:55 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 927
Posted By gettingexpensive
I'll chime in briefly on this one. I haven't...

I'll chime in briefly on this one. I haven't read the full back story / your post history (but might) but..

If this is true "I am not shrink, and have no education in the matter, and Tayken...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2019, 02:08 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 230
Posted By gettingexpensive
So you lucked out. Otherwise it would have been...

So you lucked out. Otherwise it would have been another big waste of time and money. Ridiculous.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2019, 12:31 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 806
Posted By gettingexpensive
300k? At what point will you pull the plug? How...

300k? At what point will you pull the plug? How old are the kids? This is a terrible waste of money and you've been going at it for 8 years. A few more years and the kids will be adult.. and it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2019, 12:20 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 349
Posted By gettingexpensive
Why is this? it's not like it helps with the...

Why is this? it's not like it helps with the court system. Why would someone deserve many chances?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-03-2019, 10:13 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 597
Posted By gettingexpensive
You may want to do some reading on BPD / NPD...

You may want to do some reading on BPD / NPD forums as well. The mental illness makes it difficult (and costly!) to deal with, I know it all too well.
Forum: Divorce Support 08-13-2019, 02:42 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 612
Posted By gettingexpensive
You may want to read about BPD and NPD divorces...

You may want to read about BPD and NPD divorces or support groups. It may help a bit since that behavior seems familiar... he will definitely mess with your head.
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-13-2019, 02:34 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,166
Posted By gettingexpensive
Wow. You're making my ex seem like an angel. ...

Wow. You're making my ex seem like an angel. Definitely follow the recommendations from CAS, this will give a nice break to your daughter.

Was your ex always like this? Or is there some...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2019, 04:06 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 940
Posted By gettingexpensive
3 years?? :eek: I had heard of lots of time...

3 years?? :eek: I had heard of lots of time wasted with mediation and whatnot but was surprised about this. Good thing they call it "fast track" :rolleyes:
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2019, 04:38 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,045
Posted By gettingexpensive
My S10 said that a few times when under high...

My S10 said that a few times when under high stress due to his mother..
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2019, 03:03 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,045
Posted By gettingexpensive
Fair enough. But damage can be done. In my...

Fair enough. But damage can be done. In my case, she was persuasive enough to put doubts in their mind for them to believe part of her "reality". She's been diagnosed BPD (and has other cluster...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2019, 10:45 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,316
Posted By gettingexpensive
Good. Maybe I'll benefit from the "new family...

Good. Maybe I'll benefit from the "new family law" in the next 10 years while my high-conflict divorce is underway :rolleyes: . Now excuse me while I go cry in a corner. :o
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2019, 10:43 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,045
Posted By gettingexpensive
I'd say that even just a few hours a week seems...

I'd say that even just a few hours a week seems sufficient to do quite a bit of alienation. My ex has done this quite frequently even though she only sees them 3 x 4 hours per week at this point. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-09-2019, 12:32 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 544
Posted By gettingexpensive
I'll answer what I can: I'm sure this...

I'll answer what I can:


I'm sure this is a vent. :D We all need these once in a while!


I can't wait to go through the same crap :rolleyes: My first case conf is in 2 weeks.. :o
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-09-2019, 10:16 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,079
Posted By gettingexpensive
Ha so that's how it works. If one of the parent...

Ha so that's how it works. If one of the parent is "sound" and protects the kids, they close the file. It happened to be. I was baffled.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-07-2019, 01:10 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 1,215
Posted By gettingexpensive
If his name is on the lease he should be allowed...

If his name is on the lease he should be allowed back in
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-07-2019, 12:49 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 1,215
Posted By gettingexpensive
Are they joint owners?

Are they joint owners?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2019, 12:45 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,879
Posted By gettingexpensive
I'm guessing he's only pushing for joint so he...

I'm guessing he's only pushing for joint so he doesn't have to pay as much CS?
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