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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-01-2013, 06:38 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,565
Posted By knackered
Are you paying guideline child...

Are you paying guideline child support/extraordinary expenses Bramptondad?

How do you afford all the legal bills/court fees involved in fighting for 50/50 on top of already paying guideline...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-01-2013, 06:36 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,565
Posted By knackered
I've always been told by my lawyer, other people...

I've always been told by my lawyer, other people who have had custody cases that Status Quo is EVERYTHING.

I had been laid off from my job/on EI before separation. So I was at home with our...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-01-2013, 06:18 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,747
Posted By knackered
And I shouldn't say it took 3 weeks to get Ex's...

And I shouldn't say it took 3 weeks to get Ex's name listed.....It took 3 weeks for my employment to show me the proof to send Ex that her name was listed!
Forum: Financial Issues 10-01-2013, 06:13 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,747
Posted By knackered
I had to do the same with my Life Insurance...

I had to do the same with my Life Insurance through my employment. I just went to the employee in charge of it all at my work....I do think it took approximately 3 weeks to get Ex's name listed as...
Forum: Political Issues 09-30-2013, 08:13 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 10,683
Posted By knackered
Justice4us Did you know how much you would be...

Justice4us Did you know how much you would be paying in child support/extraordinary expenses before you moved and gave up 50/50?

I didn't realize you had 50/50 originally and gave it up! ...
Forum: Political Issues 09-30-2013, 09:08 AM
Replies: 106
Views: 10,683
Posted By knackered
In these situations the Ex/Custodial parent will...

In these situations the Ex/Custodial parent will not agree to extra parenting time with the other parent/Child Support Payor who pays top guideline support, and extraordinary expenses.

When the...
Forum: Political Issues 09-29-2013, 08:18 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 10,683
Posted By knackered
Oh...and "distraught/ not knowing what I was...

Oh...and "distraught/ not knowing what I was going to do" Obviously I had been applying for jobs!

I was making minimum wage for awhile.....Still paid Ex the Child Support amount based on our...
Forum: Political Issues 09-29-2013, 08:09 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 10,683
Posted By knackered
As far as the comment that my ex should make...

As far as the comment that my ex should make $20,000 and go for spousal support from me........

in our case, I had got laid off from my job prior to separation, I was collecting EI....was able to...
Forum: Political Issues 09-29-2013, 08:01 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 10,683
Posted By knackered
I know you never SAID THAT....but no one even...

I know you never SAID THAT....but no one even comments on that/ and that was one of my main points.....how my Ex and many others profit off these situations.
Forum: Political Issues 09-29-2013, 07:46 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 10,683
Posted By knackered
If Ex claimed common law, as she should be, she...

If Ex claimed common law, as she should be, she wouldn't be receiving the government benefit money that she does. She illegally profits off the situation.

But you think that is ok for her to...
Forum: Political Issues 09-29-2013, 07:33 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 10,683
Posted By knackered
My point was that my Ex is in a common law...

My point was that my Ex is in a common law relationship/their household makes more income than us....but because she claims "separated" on her taxes, she is receiving extra benefit money from the...
Forum: Political Issues 09-29-2013, 07:29 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 10,683
Posted By knackered
I make $51,000 gross income......not six...

I make $51,000 gross income......not six figures....
Forum: Political Issues 09-29-2013, 05:00 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 10,683
Posted By knackered
My GF and I BARELY make ends meet/ use credit...

My GF and I BARELY make ends meet/ use credit cards to survive!

But if I wasn't with my GF, I would be worse off....I would have had to quit my job and go on welfare, as there is no way I could...
Forum: Political Issues 09-29-2013, 04:55 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 10,683
Posted By knackered
"Lets suppose that.... oh... someone was...

"Lets suppose that.... oh... someone was railroaded out of the house with false allegations of domestic violence. (no new family or anything like that)"

That happened to me. Ex and I were having...
Forum: Political Issues 09-29-2013, 03:30 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 10,683
Posted By knackered
I hear you Justice4us Yes Child Support is...

I hear you Justice4us

Yes Child Support is the right of the children.

Both parents should be CONTRIBUTING towards their children.

I feel the guidelines are too high.

Whether we...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-26-2013, 07:36 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,085
Posted By knackered
FRO won't reimburse you unless your ex signs off...

FRO won't reimburse you unless your ex signs off to them that you are up to date.

If ex doesn't sign off on it. You have to get a lawyer/get reimbursed that way.

My Ex succeeded at...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-23-2013, 06:37 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,113
Posted By knackered
So if you plan on dropping the kids off to your...

So if you plan on dropping the kids off to your ex for 6:20am......what time would you actually have to wake them up at?
Forum: Financial Issues 08-06-2013, 10:09 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,957
Posted By knackered
Thanks Mess. Sorry for misreading what you...

Thanks Mess. Sorry for misreading what you wrote. I clearly find it all very confusing! But finally understand how you meant it now!
Forum: Financial Issues 08-04-2013, 04:40 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,957
Posted By knackered
It's just crazy how my ex's income can go up by...

It's just crazy how my ex's income can go up by approximately $15,000/more because of child support, section 7, I give her, plus the government benefits....and they don't have to claim it as...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-04-2013, 04:36 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,957
Posted By knackered
I've had so many problems with these section 7...

I've had so many problems with these section 7 expenses too (babysitting)

I do not have my children 60% of the time. (Ex refuses to give me additional time which I am available for....clearly...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-31-2013, 07:35 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 944
Posted By knackered
Sorry, don't have an actual court order stating...

Sorry, don't have an actual court order stating that. My wording threw you guys off! During our meeting settlement to make the amendment (more so regarding child support and babysitting) We...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-31-2013, 04:50 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 944
Posted By knackered
She's asking for kids to call her but she lies/makes false police reports

Have been separated from ex for 5 years. 2 children--ages 9 and 5.

Background to understand my situation/fear of ex.

Upon separation, a week before I was supposed to move out, as mutually...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-26-2013, 05:25 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 704
Posted By knackered
Ex didn't pay loan as per separation agreement

Was just at bank, checked credit...found out there is a loan amount on there affecting my credit now that ex was supposed to pay.

Separation agreement stated that we had a few joint accounts...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-14-2013, 10:25 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,657
Posted By knackered
Sorry messed up on last line there---should have...

Sorry messed up on last line there---should have said that ex succeeded in getting back pay for increase child support back to 2010 based on my 2012 income....when I wasn't making the same income...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-14-2013, 10:23 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,657
Posted By knackered
That is similar to what happened to me. I had...

That is similar to what happened to me. I had been laid off from my job/collecting EI when ex and I were having marital problems, knew we were separating.

I had paid a $30,000 down payment on...
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