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Forum: Financial Issues 01-29-2020, 06:08 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 107
Posted By momof2teenboys
I called CRA again and finally seem to be getting...

I called CRA again and finally seem to be getting a consistent answer as she checked with her resource supervisor while on the call with me.

Ex owed $4000 in arrears Dec 31 2018 - then had to pay...
Forum: Divorce Support 01-29-2020, 05:35 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 279
Posted By momof2teenboys
That sounds like a good compromise and good for...

That sounds like a good compromise and good for your husband to no longer have to deal with that worry.
Unfortunately for me, FRO can't garnish paycheques as payor is self-employed. He does get...
Forum: Divorce Support 01-29-2020, 03:20 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 279
Posted By momof2teenboys
I'm glad that's finally over for you. Sounds like...

I'm glad that's finally over for you. Sounds like you can move on knowing that he's paid his share and she can't take him back to court for more.


How did you calculate the lump-sum? Did he have...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-29-2020, 02:39 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 107
Posted By momof2teenboys
Tax question - how to calculate?

I've called CRA and they've given me two different answers so maybe someone here can help out


I receive CS, S7 expenses and SS. There are also arrears and interest added to my account as the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-19-2019, 12:29 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 278
Posted By momof2teenboys
Well both lawyers communicated just a couple of...

Well both lawyers communicated just a couple of weeks ago. While he may have his on unbundled services he is aware mine is still on retainer.



The only issues remaining are updating child...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-19-2019, 02:46 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 278
Posted By momof2teenboys
Motion filed in different court?

Hi all- quick questions

After 4 years of court we had a final order on all issues as of late 2017.
I was served this evening with a motion to change. It has a number of changes that are all...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-06-2019, 07:49 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 844
Posted By momof2teenboys
Janus is correct that the amount of spousal...

Janus is correct that the amount of spousal support changes when you add/remove child support.

Based on that, and the fact that

1 - banks include both CS and SS when calculating income for...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-23-2019, 12:06 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,358
Posted By momof2teenboys
Yes - we're definitely talking through different...

Yes - we're definitely talking through different scenerios with the numbers. I'll start a new thread for opinions so I don't highjack this one.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-23-2019, 11:52 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,358
Posted By momof2teenboys
How about scholarships? Are they considered the...

How about scholarships? Are they considered the child's contribution? (my thinking is yes as they are earned by the child but who knows...)

Youngest is working out his options and he has been...
Forum: Divorce Support 04-17-2019, 11:39 AM
Replies: 67
Views: 10,879
Posted By momof2teenboys
I totally feel for you. I've been dealing with...

I totally feel for you. I've been dealing with post-secondary issues with my ex for the past 3 years. And now the youngest will be starting university in the fall. I'll have to send him an email once...
Forum: Divorce Support 04-17-2019, 11:13 AM
Replies: 67
Views: 10,879
Posted By momof2teenboys
I think an appropriate response would be - ...

I think an appropriate response would be -

"Yes I agree with your request regarding xxx. For anything additional please provide costs, expected deadlines, accommodations, programs of study etc as...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-03-2019, 11:57 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 967
Posted By momof2teenboys
Our agreement has percentages for S7. "The...

Our agreement has percentages for S7.

"The following expenses (and a list of approved expenses) will be paid in proportion to income of the parents with p1 paying xx% and p2 paying xx%. p1 will...
Forum: General Chat 04-01-2019, 05:38 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 880
Posted By momof2teenboys
In regards to ex's gf - I've been told that she's...

In regards to ex's gf - I've been told that she's very jealous of any time or attention ex gives to his kids. Either she is a part of that time or all hell breaks loose. She sent horrible bashing...
Forum: General Chat 04-01-2019, 02:04 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 880
Posted By momof2teenboys
This! Personally I think each parent should be...

This! Personally I think each parent should be required to take a "parenting after divorce" class and have follow-up and ongoing support from a trained professional.

In my case - which I rarely...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-12-2019, 01:00 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 461
Posted By momof2teenboys
I've never heard of a "limit" on adjournments. ...

I've never heard of a "limit" on adjournments.



I was finally in court at the end of last summer - for a motion I filed in early 2016 to have ex comply to an order on consent from sept 2015....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-12-2019, 12:35 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,661
Posted By momof2teenboys
Maybe others can chime in regarding this -...

Maybe others can chime in regarding this - supervised access is something I know little about. So take my opinion with a grain of salt...


I think you need to communicate with her that you've...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-12-2019, 12:07 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,661
Posted By momof2teenboys
What is the role of the "supervisor" regarding...

What is the role of the "supervisor" regarding his access? What has she said regarding his behaviour during your drop-offs?
Forum: Financial Issues 02-09-2019, 08:17 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 542
Posted By momof2teenboys
CRA can be a pain and choosing to pay S7 expenses...

CRA can be a pain and choosing to pay S7 expenses through FRO can really mess things up. FRO will collect S7 expenses even if the $$ amount is not itemized in your court order - so long as you have...
Forum: Political Issues 10-17-2018, 01:36 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,626
Posted By momof2teenboys
Stbx has been self-rep off and on over the past...

Stbx has been self-rep off and on over the past few years (four different lawyers so far and none seem to stick around).

The last time we were before a judge was for a long-motion. We had...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-13-2018, 12:21 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 597
Posted By momof2teenboys
Mystery solved! He has filed documents with the...

Mystery solved! He has filed documents with the court - time will tell if a divorce order is sent out. How long before I can expect it done?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-10-2018, 03:09 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 597
Posted By momof2teenboys
:rolleyes: Definitely not - I usually ignore...

:rolleyes: Definitely not - I usually ignore anything and everything he does - this one had me curious.




This is what I wondered. It was my understanding that at this point one of us would be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-09-2018, 09:29 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 597
Posted By momof2teenboys
I don't think so. He said that ex "announced" on...

I don't think so. He said that ex "announced" on social media that the paperwork was final and he was officially divorced. This was about two weeks ago.

I haven't been served anything. Could he...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-09-2018, 11:33 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 597
Posted By momof2teenboys
Divorced without receiving Order? Affidavit?

Hi all,

This is an odd question - Is it possible for someone to finish the process and get legally divorced without notifying the other party?

I've been dealing with this process for over 4...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-04-2018, 08:48 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,995
Posted By momof2teenboys
So your child is on his own in the morning and...

So your child is on his own in the morning and will be responsible to get ready on time, lock the house, and get to the bus on time? Do you have a backup for the mornings he sleeps late or is just...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-04-2018, 07:47 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 645
Posted By momof2teenboys
Why don't you just ask her for a copy of the...

Why don't you just ask her for a copy of the registration package and the details? If this is something you would have agreed with before then you could consider paying your share. If this is...
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